where 2 start basically ive let the father of my kids in and out my life for 10 years hes had other realtionships and always cheated on the other girl with me hes been with a girl for 2 years and cheated on her 2 i met some one else it didnt last long just 1 of those things but i felt good but when that ended i went back round ex i know he wont ever be withme it wouldnt work i have now put a stop to him creepin back round me even though he still trys to find out if im alone and i let him think i had next man he didnt sound to happy but my problem is do my thoughts go back 2 him when im alone or is there more to it i was fine when i was with someone else not only that but after everything hes done 2 me and other exs why do i feel like hes better then me am i just lonely and need attention i know its all sad but it just niggles me
2007-03-20 23:02:12 · 3 answers · asked by brokeno1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a circle that you have gotten yourself into and i have done something like this before but it didn't work out either.I know you said you have kids but could you at least arrange to go out and maybe you do go out but don't go out looking for someone else. you need to improve your confidence and make yourself feel comfortable with yourself. This guy has a hold of you because you have let him and also he is your kids Dad so its hard to move on. When you feel lonely he is an easy person to think of because you have such a long time spent with him and you will always think of him but you need to move on. Take a course buy a punch bag get out of the house and try to keep away from this guy as he is the cause of you feeling this way make a new out let for yourself. even if you take up something different you might meet new friends get a new lease of life. don't know if this is any good to you but hope you move on and up with your life good luck.
2007-03-20 23:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by perry1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's most definately not better than you! there are plenty of nice guys out there, you just have to look a little harder.
this guy is messing wit your head (quite badly), you dont need that. leave this guy alone and find another one!
good luck! x x x
2007-03-20 23:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not one thought of how your lifestyle (read: wasting years of your lives on a cheater) is affecting your kids. Just this long-winded tirade of me-me-me. Gee, your kids are lucky to have you for their mom!
2007-03-20 23:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋