look guys, i work with this girl. I’m fallen for this girl b/c she showed me she liked me (clumsy around me, STEALING GLANCES at me. the whole EYE CONTACT GAME*) we started talking, became friends. I ask her out, didn't work,(bad timing, misunderstanding. No number. So she gives me her number) she seemed like she still wanted to hang out. So i asked again, then she says, I’m busy now. so i said u got my number, let me now.
But her attitude is different now. and she only want s to talk about work related things, nothing flirtish* or personal.
What did I do wrong? What can I do now?
Why did she make me fall for her if she didn't want to go out?
MAYBE SHE WANNTED TO ONLY BE FRENIDS WITH ME, AND I MISSUNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING?
2007-03-20 02:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by S. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I REALLY SEEMED LIKE SHE LIKED ME BACK.*
but now it seems like she's committed or has s/o.
2007-03-20 02:44:35 · update #1
well u r right..at first she seemed interested in knowing you...but den later wen she got a hint hw do u actually feel about her she became a lil carefull and nw has started maintaing some distance from you as for her u wer just a good friend nothing more dan that....yes u did misunderstud her...it happens dude..chill nw..forget it...it's part and parcel of life!
2007-03-21 03:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by shipra g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just enjoy the idea of knowing they can get a guy. They don't want to be with him, they just want to prove they can get him. You fell into her trap, so she's no longer interested. DO NOT ask her out again and never ask her what's wrong. Limited your conversation to work related issues and let her feed off of somebody else.
2007-03-20 10:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think she does, she is just scared & in shock now i guess... you should try & make eye contact w/ her and maybe get a little close 2 her. I f starts 2 flirt back, it's working...if not, then start smling at her & stuff, maybe call her up just 2 say wats up & kinda be her friend right now.
2007-03-20 09:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by moon_stars_fury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay dont be sad come on first smile look she is very clever she knows how to take out her work from others and she did so no need to vary she is selfish dont give any importance to her for few days and after that you see she will chance and melt down toward you ok bye take care
2007-03-20 09:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anjali A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did misunderstood, or maybe she saw in you just a friend. You cant be falling in love that fast with someone though, you need to protect yourself.
2007-03-20 09:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's an old saying that comes to mind.
don't sh!t where you eat.
in other words, don't make an uncomfortable situation where you earn your living. the vast majority of workplace romances result in problems. and most employers discourage them,for that reason.
2007-03-20 10:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by sic-n-tired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, I had the same situation with my boyfriend before I finally gave him a chance. Patience is a virtue!!!
2007-03-20 09:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Looking for the REAL answer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to hurt your feelings, but someone may have swept her off her feet and you were too slow to do it first.
If you still want to be her friend, do it. And slowly show her that you care.
Girls are confusing....I don't know her, so I wouldnt know how to analyze her.
2007-03-20 09:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by micolperu317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible you misunderstood. Although she should find a kind way to tell you this instead of playing games.
2007-03-20 09:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have misread her...
or
She could be playing hard to get...
Girls are hard to figure out!!!
You could try & give her space, she if maybe she wants to come over & talk to you. Good luck.
2007-03-20 09:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋