Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

The one who was married has four children, but she says he seem to a very good man, loving and honest, he divorced the wife because od aldultery. They seem to get along so well but the man is 40 years and the gal is 24. how do I help her

2007-03-20 03:10:32 · 4 answers · asked by Chuma 1 in Friends

my betterhalf cell phone beep for him to check a message last night around 1 or 2am....he said it was a voice message from a bill collector that he did not check earlier...but when he looked on the phone he did not know I saw him check it and he/I saw that it was a text message that said Hey call me........I got the phone and called back and it was a woman and she hung up....I called from the house phone and she laughed and said oh god...i had the wrong number...( told her I was his wife ) and why was she was texting so early...I asked 1 am in the morning? I got on the computer and text her back from his
screen name to her cell...I pretended to be him, but she kept saying she had the wrong number and to ____ your wife...now we live in MS, but the call was from UT....tell me what you all think...why would she say leave me alone and go ____your wife?

2007-03-20 03:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That is if you are still sexually active yourself and not too old. Let's say that your age would be between 35 and 55 and you still very much need it.

2007-03-20 03:09:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is 12 years to much?

2007-03-20 03:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by In Love with Mr. Perfect! 3 in Singles & Dating

hi, there!!! I like this girl at the gym who works as a receptionist. She is 24 and has a little boy, and i usually chat to her for a bit when i leave the gym and she is sound. One day we started talking about her ex and she told me he was to controlling and she she finished with him and also the "Sex was crap, basically he wasnt giving her enough" lol. why would she tell a stranger about her sex life if she didnt like me ??? Earlier today i went to the gym and she was "sticking her tongue out at me". what to do i, does she like me?? should i get her number off her?? am just scared that what if i ask her and she turns me down then id be well embarassed cos id have to see her each time i go to the gym and she aint no random stranger who id see once then i wont. what do i do please help ???

thanks

2007-03-20 03:08:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 16 and my sister is 13. She is always sad and say her life sucks. She says it is my responsibility to make her happy and make her have a better life because I am the older sister. I disagree with her. She is mad at me. She said "As the older sister, it is your responsibility to make your little sister happy. If you don't carry on your responsibility as the big sister, what is the point of me having a big sister. You are a bad big sister. All my friend's have older sister that make them have a happier life and I am the only one out of them that don't have that kind of an older sister. It is so unfair. If I have a little sister, I would do anything to make her have a happier life, even if it means that I have to sacrifice my happiness and life."

My sister hasn't spoken to me for 1 month because of that. She told my parents and they agree with her that her happiness is my responsibility. The problem is I disagree. What are they that way? What can I do?

2007-03-20 03:07:50 · 10 answers · asked by youngwoman 5 in Family

I'm 52 ,he's 58 both been in long term relationships, both divorced,been seeing each other for over 2 years, both love each other very much. One works nights , the other works days,we live in seperate apartments about 30 mintues away from each other. See each other on Friday nights into saturday mornings,sometimes Saturday all day until 5:30 when he has to go to bed cause he works Saturday night.See him some on Sunday until he goes to bed at 5:00 pm. Lunch on Wednesdays. Will it work? I'm starting to feel like I live two seperate lives and I want him more in my life. He's been at same job for over 20 years but its starting to take a toll on his physical health. He hates his job, especially since we met anyway. He made a resume to apply at jobs as they come up. What do you think? I ask him today if he thought we'd ever get married and he said" You never know what the future holds" Why are you proposing to me? How am I suppose to take that? I told him I would never propose to a guy.

2007-03-20 03:07:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok.. here we go...

1. Matt - Ohmygahh. He is a cutieeee. And really sweet and we have a lot in common and i think that he might like me...but im not sure. I asked him who he liked and he wont answer. Does that mean its me?

2. Julio - won "best personality" kinda cute.. we talk all the time.. and he asked me to dance at your valentines dance and he tells me im beautiful..but when i mention anything about us being more than friends he gets tense. so idk..

3. Quin[dont laugh at the name!] - He is from my old school...and i havent seen him in about 4 years.. but he found me on myspace.. and is totally interested in me... and calls me once or twice a day and talks to me on myspace. He tells me that he likes me and asks questions about me and my ex's and stuff... and he is sweet.. but i live like 45 min away and i dont even know him that well and he is kinda pushing the whole thing to fast...

4. Neal - Sweeeeeeeeeeeeeet. and kinda cute.. but too shy to tell me. His best friend..

2007-03-20 03:04:57 · 17 answers · asked by Amberlee :D 3 in Singles & Dating

I have always wanted to lay under the stars with my fiance who I am so in love with and he knows this and he is the type to make this happen but I would also like to try and surprise him first...I thought it was soooo lush and romantic and just well beautiful in the scene on friends where ross and rachel went on a date and he took her to the museum where he took her on stage and arranged the setting that they were laying under the stars.....how would i go about doing this? I have thought about maybe laying on the beach but I live up north in the uk and it's absolutely freezing to lay on the beach :o(

anyone got any ideas?

2007-03-20 03:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by KT 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 03:04:29 · 9 answers · asked by bratfaceb14 1 in Family

I have an appt with weddingcakesonline.com but would like to know if there are any other options. Thanks!

2007-03-20 03:03:27 · 9 answers · asked by nicolesparks_99 1 in Weddings

I Finally Got Everything Together To Tell Her I Still Love Her And Want Her But She Tells Me She Basically Had feThis Guy A Couple Of Times He Turned Out To Be A Stalker And She Doesn't Deal With Him Anymore. Even Though We Had Not Been Together How Do I Get Over This? I Really Do Love Her And My Two Kids And This Is Not Just Because I See Her Moving On. I Brought My Love And Feelings To Her Before I Knew About This Other Guy. So What Do I Do? I See Images And Think About What She Did With This Guy Constantly. I Want To Have Our Family Back But She Is Still Hurt By The Past A Bit As I Am and About This New Information. However She Said She Wished I Would Have Showed Her Any Of This Love Or Caring Even A Few Months Ago And This Thing That Is Killing Me Would've Never Happened. She Did Say She Regrets It Now She Knows How I Feel. She said she did like him. However, he wanted more like a relationship and she didn't so she ended it and said he got weird to her please help!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-20 03:02:36 · 23 answers · asked by loongleever73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 03:02:31 · 4 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is wanting a tattoo and I'm trying to talk him out of it.I've told him all the facts like,most people with tattoos have sexually transmitted diseases.I'm not sure why that is,but I think it's because women with tattoos have alot of sex partners or maybe it's the needles.
I need any help I can get
Thanks

2007-03-20 03:01:33 · 18 answers · asked by green 2 in Singles & Dating

I am very interested to chase after a lady even though she is attached with her boyfriend of four years whom she seldom meet. Perhaps, only a few times a year. She still persistantly said they are in a serious relationship. However, if I ask her to go out she never reject even though we go out with a group of ladies and I am the only man.

She knows I am attracted to her and she said she only treat me as a friend. I am going to write her a strong love letter everyday from now. Will my love letters paid off my effort? What do you think of it?

2007-03-20 03:00:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This happened a couple years ago. I went out with my co-workers clubbing. I was very drunk & I met a guy who kept buying me more drinks. We were dancing & I remember him putting his hands up my shirt. I didn't want him so I pushed his hands down. He took this to mean (I guess) that I wanted him to put his hands down my pants and so he did. In my drunken state I didn't know what to do because I figured if I pushed him away again he'd just put his hands up my shirt. He said we should get a taxi and go to my place. I didn't really understand what he was talking about at the time and I was really drunk so I agreed. We got back to my place,he asked for a glass of water, & I got him one. While I was turned around he started taking off my clothes. I didn't really know what to think about that, but I let him and then I was naked on my bed and he was screwing me. It really hurt and I screamed every time. After he left because his friend kept calling him on his cell. I bled for 2days

2007-03-20 03:00:20 · 29 answers · asked by Jaq 2 in Singles & Dating

What would be classified as a fight with your girl friend?

2007-03-20 02:59:57 · 11 answers · asked by Mark A 1 in Singles & Dating

My twin sister & I NEVER got along, & it's like we're worst enemies. She uses me, takes advantage of me & cons & threatens me out of my $$, laughs @ me, beats the crap out of me, starts dangerous false rumors about me, & makes a fool out of me. & she also puts her husband before me. That causes to fuss & argue, sometimes FIGHT in extreme cases. We're 23 yrs. old & STILL get along like this. I try to make things work out, but her retarded husband instigates to hike things up & make things worse by lying & saying I said & did stuff I didn't do & say. & when he sees us fist fighting, he FALLS out laughing!

But they don't get along either. He beat her upside the head with a wrench during her 2nd pregnancy, & also he set her up to get raped, & he brags & boast about how he just married her for her military disabled veteran benefits. She STILL loves him & won't leave him. He's a free-loader. Love Sho'le is blind!

2007-03-20 02:59:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my wife and I have had are ups and downs but lately I can only get off with my hand and now she is ******* someone else but she told me should I be mad

2007-03-20 02:59:36 · 7 answers · asked by Waldo Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Something besides the typical movie/dinner

2007-03-20 02:59:26 · 6 answers · asked by tnose14 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is the short version of my issue. My fiance doesnt like my brother. They have had it out in the past and he really doesnt want my brother to come to the wedding, but has conceded as long as my brother acts ok. I have 2 sisters, both of whom I am having in my bridal party (along with my daughter). My son is the Usher, and the littlest one is the Ring Bearer. I have let my fiance choose his own groomsmen and my brother isnt included. Only 1 nephew of mine is in the party.

The dilemma here is how do i make it seem like I really want him there- I know he will be hurt that he isnt walking me down the aisle, but i really dont want to take any chances of a full-out brawl... Is there anything else he can do to be included? He is my brother and I love him truly. I dont think he would ruin it on purpose, but i want my wedding to go smooth with little problems. Or should I just go ahead have him walk me & pray it will be ok?

2007-03-20 02:58:45 · 13 answers · asked by glorymomof3 6 in Weddings

my two best friends had an argument and they decided not to each other again. they have not talked to each other for several months now.. but when we (my other friends and i) talked to them about it, they smiled.
i think they both wanna b OK now..but they feel shy ... they both won't handshake.. they feel afraid i think... or they may feel that if one person gives up.. others will say he is the loser of the two..
so.. how can i get those two to b together again? any brilliant idea? plz.. its a must.. !!!

2007-03-20 02:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-20 02:58:08 · 13 answers · asked by Frank Heyes 2 in Weddings

Iv been having an affair with a 31yr old woman for 8 months now, Im 34. She,d only been married 3 months when we met, although she,s been with this guy for 5 !/2 yrs & they have a 3 !/2 yr old son together who she adores. The spark & connection between us is something Iv never known the likes of before, she says she feels the same & we cant get enough of each other & i love her very much! We,ve split a few times because we know its wrong but always end up back in each others arms. She claims her husband has hardly touched her since she fell pregnant with her son & dispite giving him many chances to improve this nothing has! We have now split with her saying that in an ideal world she wants to be with me, but feels she has to give her husband one last chance even though she knows I might meet someone else & that it would kill her to see me with another girl. She still texts me all the time. If its true surely there marriage is doomed & its just a matter of time, or am I kidding myself?

2007-03-20 02:56:49 · 26 answers · asked by spacehopper1973 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 17 years, we were married very young, we have 3 children. Now that our children are getting bigger we have more time to spend with each other and my husband keeps doing things to make me not trust him and whatever I do does not help make things better. He has done alot of things to make me not trust him lying, looking at bad websites on the internet, sneaking, having secrect friendships, gawking at other woman, even he and a colleage joined an aerobics class. He totally dismissing my feelings calling me jealous and crazy but when I did it back to him ( I was at my wits end) He goes totally crazy saying this is not helping our marriage. But, then he continues to mistreat me, he is either rude to me when we are with other people or totally ignores me, if I strike up a conversation with someone of the opposite sex, he goes nuts! Help me please!

2007-03-20 02:56:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy and im kinda friends with his sister. she annoys the hell outta me. She told me that if i ever dated him she would stop talking to me. I really like him a lot and she basiclly thinks she hates him. what to do?

2007-03-20 02:56:23 · 10 answers · asked by Wouldn't you like to know? 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little over half a year, but i still dont feel comftorable doing the "deed" and i cant make it clear to him that im just not that "into" sex.... so after he takes me out for dinner or gets me something he always expects the one thing... is that right of him or is it wrong of me?
i never ask him to do these things he just does...

2007-03-20 02:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by marcella 2 in Singles & Dating

Last year when i had my birthday he sent texts saying he remembered the day i was born like yesterday.... and i feel miserable coz sometimes i really miss him... but i dont' wanna upset me mam.... any of you know how that feels?

2007-03-20 02:56:05 · 3 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Family

I know this is not a question I just want to know what you think of this idea.

2007-03-20 02:55:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my betterhalf cell phone beep for him to check a message last night around 1 or 2am....he said it was a voice message from a bill collector that he did not check earlier...but when I looked on the phone he did not know I saw him check it and he saw that it was a text message that said Hey call me........I got the phone and called back and it was a woman and she hung up....I called from the house phone and she laughed and said oh god...i had the wrong number...( told her I was his wife ) and why was she was texting so early...I asked 1 am in the morning? I got on the computer and text her back from his
screen name to her cell...I pretended to be him, but she kept saying she had the wrong number and to ____ your wife...now we live in MS, but the call was from UT....tell me what you all think...why would she say leave me alone and go ____your wife?

2007-03-20 02:55:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating