my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little over half a year, but i still dont feel comftorable doing the "deed" and i cant make it clear to him that im just not that "into" sex.... so after he takes me out for dinner or gets me something he always expects the one thing... is that right of him or is it wrong of me?
i never ask him to do these things he just does...
2007-03-20 02:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by marcella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is YOUR decision of what is right or wrong for what YOU want. You are your own person, and only you can control you. If he is saying that it is wrong for you to not want to have sex with him, then it is he who is wrong, not you. He is basically trying to control you, and I do not think that would be either in your best interest, nor what YOU would want. DO you want to be controlled by this or any other guy? If not, then you need to get away from him, or your life will be ruined. But you have a friend if you want one- Kevin Barnard im1friend@yahoo.com
2007-03-20 03:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong of either of you...you just are not right for each other in that part of the relationship and its a very big part of a relationship and keeping it together....if you were to one day marry and still his interest in sex was alot bigger then your interest , he will look else where . so decide now ....both of you ....you need to be upfront with your feelings about sex so he and you can move on to find people that are compatable
2007-03-20 03:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by vinnieangel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember one thing that Relationships should not be imposed. So if u r not feelin like that one then tell him frankly. This openness in ur views will give u xtra advatage in ur love life.
2007-03-20 03:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by HEMANT K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Wait until you're ready. If he isn't willing to wait then he isn't the right one for you to have your first experience with.
2007-03-20 03:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A year without it I think he really cares about you but you have to give him what he wants and if you love him I think you should to.
2007-03-20 03:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i year and no sex i think he as being quite understanding you need to stop string him alone and let him know your not interested in sex and let him find someone who is
2007-03-20 02:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Z 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he loves you he will wait on you to decide you are ready.Don't get pressured into something you don't want to do.
2007-03-20 03:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks to me that no love is here
2007-03-20 03:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU DON'T WANT IT AND HE INSIST THAT DATE-RAPE, SO JUST TELL HIM WHEN YOU ARE READY THEN YOU WILL DO IT BUT NOT WHEN YOU ARE NOT.. NO IF AND BUT ABOUT IT!!!
2007-03-20 03:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋