Family & Relationships - 20 March 2007

OK so after beeing friends for 5 months I noticed she wanted something more. Like she started touching my arm and holding my hand... Few days later we were talking over skype and she said she wants to be just good friends and she has liked another boy for almost a year. And I was OK im good with friends. Then she posted something on her profile in spanish and im gonna translate it: "I like a boy but he still likes another girl and doesn't like me... I also like another boy and he likes me alot. What should i do?"
I got a friend of mine to ask her who is the second boy she told her it was me! And now she is asking me to play tennis again.... What should I do?

2007-03-20 03:21:19 · 18 answers · asked by DJ Andski 2 in Singles & Dating

I am currently dating this guy who I totally adore. I have been in the dating game alot since I broke up wit ma Ex abut 4 yrs ago but I feel that this is the right guy for me no doubt. We have known each other since Nov '06 and went out on dates and stuff but we 1st hooked up in end Jan '07. After that GREAT night, he asked me to be exclusive (meaning just me and him). At the same time he keeps on saying that there are no rules. What the heck does that mean if we are already exclusive??
He says that if I do some stuff (like hook up wit other guys etc) it will make him mad. So what does the whole exclusive but no rules mean??

2007-03-20 03:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by ask n ye shall recieve 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 03:19:51 · 5 answers · asked by loin2fame 1 in Friends

the nations average has gone to a size 16 (uk) .they now say men prefer curvier fuller women,if this is true then how come if you look out your window and see a size 8 woman in a short skirt your jaw will drop but then walks past a size 16 you look the other way?? what do you prefer a fatter girl or a slim bean??

im a size 14 but im on a diet to get slimmer! i do have a boyfriend but he always stars at other women at work..then comes home telling me how noce they are.its really ****** up my confidence.im loosing weight so other men stare at me for a change and make me feel better..and so i look nice also!!lol

2007-03-20 03:19:46 · 4 answers · asked by sammydeea 3 in Friends

to start on a clean slate, she could be the one......

2007-03-20 03:19:32 · 5 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

Above...............and below

2007-03-20 03:19:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a movie date on Friday. What should I wear? This guy thinks I looks hot in sweats. I just really want to look good.

2007-03-20 03:18:09 · 7 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 03:18:03 · 15 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

They both want credit for taking care of me, but I was in foster care since infancy, & the birth mom didn't raise me. The foster mom took care of me, but the state PAID her to do that. Otherwise, she wouldn't have taken care of strange babies for free. THE STATE OF LOUISIANA was our guardian & my twin sister & I were a ward of the courts (state). So, how can my foster mom say, "I've been taking care of you for 18 years!" & the biological mom says that she, herself took care of me because her Social Security beneficiary check was child support. NOT! The STATE took care of us.

& the foster mom says, "I should've left y'all nasty, filthy, dirty babies where I found y'all!" & the birth mom says that she's smarter than ALL of her children. Well, I'm 23 with a college degree & birth mom started popping babies @ 13 & became granny @ age 29.

The foster mom stole my trust fund check from my dad & foster care check, & Social Security backpay check. I felt so betrayed.

2007-03-20 03:17:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or do you lie to spare their feelings?

2007-03-20 03:17:40 · 18 answers · asked by april2270 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 and a half months. On sunday night she told me she loved me..then monday night all of a sudden she was a different person and just didnt even care what i had to say. Now tonight she told me she doesnt want to see me or talk to me anymore. I askd what I did wrong and all she had to say was 'oh my god can you just leave it'. What have i done, what should i do. i have no idea :(

2007-03-20 03:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by OttawaOnt7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My penis is 21cm erect, im 15 and ive been with two girls.

One was a virgin and neither actually commented on the size of it

I am not sure if this is a good size for a penis because i am not into the whole 'measure with your mates' thing.

2007-03-20 03:17:24 · 2 answers · asked by MaTTaY 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend likes the same boy i like since fifth or fourth grade. we always ask each other what would happen if he asked one of us out. i said i would be fine. i would actually turn him down so we could stay friends, but i am not sure she would do the same. he knows we both like him. so it is even harder. i do not think she would turn him down. and she also thinks i like him for all the wrong reasons and only his looks. and she asks our friends to ask me why i like him. but when my 2 other friends asked me on the same day i knew she told them to ask me. what should i do?

2007-03-20 03:16:50 · 3 answers · asked by ATL<3 3 in Friends

My husband and I have been going for counseling and he said that if I stay he would change but I have not seen any change and no his mother is causing problems in our relationship. I do not anticipate anything getting any better but I have two small children with him and don't want to uproot them and make a mistake. He is a hard worker and does not drink or cheat and is a great father but as far as a loving husband I could have a better conversation with a wall!!!! Also, If I leave I will have no money and be broke all the time.

2007-03-20 03:16:40 · 12 answers · asked by L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think herons and cranes could do with sparkly disco pumps.

2007-03-20 03:16:29 · 6 answers · asked by fried or boiled? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so for all you guys... this guy keeps looking at me, a lot, and trying to talk to me, a lot.. when my friends ask if he likes me, he says no, and blushes.... what should i do?? Also, this other guy called me "ugly as hell" and another girl "stupid as a post" what should I do about that idiot?

2007-03-20 03:16:24 · 4 answers · asked by mcstick s 1 in Singles & Dating

Currently I live in a horrible town. There is a rising crime rate, you have to drive a car to get anywhere since I'm 15 minutes away from everything, and the people are so lame...don't even get me started on that.

Well, next Thursday I have a court date where I am more than likely going to lose my license for about 6 months. I need to move somewhere where I can walk to work or ride a taxi to work. I really don't care much what the job is, as long as it pays my bills. I don't care about beng alone or any of that it's just that I want to be able to continue to live and pay bills and if my license is suspended, I can do neither.

That is...unless I continue to drive on suspended license and possibly end up in jail.

I've thought about going overseas...I don't know. I am currently a Residential Support Specialist in a home where we keep homeless people off the streets.

Give me some tips and some advice. I am in desperate need.

Thankyou.

2007-03-20 03:15:39 · 5 answers · asked by shaneaemerson 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I read so much on here about husbands/wives,boyfriends/girlfriends cheating.Maybe it's really natural to have more than ! partner?

2007-03-20 03:15:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-20 03:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Friends

I have been with my bf for 2.5 months(i'm 20, hes24)When we first met i knew he really liked me and he started calling me all the time.We hung out quite a bit at first,about 4 times a week.he took me to meet his parents & friends in the first few weeks.evrything was going great,but now i barely see him,hes ALWAYS out with friends and he drinks quite often.we live about 30 min away,and only i have a car.he really opened up to me one nite and told me how his ex cheated on him(i can tell this really scarred him).The amt of time we spend togther has been really bothering me.I see him once a week and we are usually with his friends or his parents.I talked to him last nite abt this and he was being very understanding but said whenevr hes changed for a girl shes screwed him over,so hes scared to get hurt again.and then he said he just wants space!i barely see the guy!He kept telling me last nite how much he cares about me and that he really likes me. SO wats the problem?what should i do now?

2007-03-20 03:14:19 · 20 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

First class mail parcel?
how long should a first class mail package take from Jersey to Miami...i sent it on wednsday and it's not their yet.

2007-03-20 03:13:40 · 6 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

my betterhalf cell phone beep for him to check a message last night around 1 or 2am....he said it was a voice message from a bill collector that he did not check earlier...but when I looked on the phone he did not know I saw him check it and he saw that it was a text message that said Hey call me........I got the phone and called back and it was a woman and she hung up....I called from the house phone and she laughed and said oh god...i had the wrong number...( told her I was his wife ) and why was she was texting so early...I asked 1 am in the morning? I got on the computer and text her back from his
screen name to her cell...I pretended to be him, but she kept saying she had the wrong number and to ____ your wife...now we live in MS, but the call was from UT....tell me what you all think...why would she say leave me alone and go ____your wife? Oh by the way when I got the phone and walked out the room after he said he did not know who it was..he followed me to see what i was doing

2007-03-20 03:13:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would really like to talk personally to a drunk driving victim, i am doing a project for school and ive already interviewed my friend, but i would really like to have two interviews. I will only talk online.

I want to know how it has affected your everyday life?
What are you doing to fight drunk driving?
How can we save more lives?


thank you very much for your time.

2007-03-20 03:12:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

O.k this is girl talk. When you have s*x with a guy the normal way, do you let him do it from the other side, I mean I have let my boyfriend do it 2 times, but it really really really hurts and I can't seem to do it again because it hurts so bad, could you give me some advice on what to do so it doesn't hurt or is it not normal to do it like that or what am I doing wrong? Please help.

2007-03-20 03:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the nations average has gone to a size 16 (uk) .they now say men prefer curvier fuller women,if this is true then how come if you look out your window and see a size 8 woman in a short skirt your jaw will drop but then walks past a size 16 you look the other way?? what do you prefer a fatter girl or a slim bean??

2007-03-20 03:11:31 · 10 answers · asked by sammydeea 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been dating with a guy for 2 months..i will come to his place and spend time with him...So far things are going well between me and him...but what im really confused was..whenever we're together we're like couple...but as soon as i step out from his apartment...he hardly calls me or even sms me..we had sex often but there are times when we dont and yet he still treats me like his girlfriend..well he told me that we're both official now..So am i just a 'bootie call' or his girlfriend?its like he's giving me mixed signals...so please tell me...if he is really into me or even take me seriously?or should i take it easy and not rushing?Help me...im soo confused!!

2007-03-20 03:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by Mexy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-20 03:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by Billybob J 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old. It is not often that I am actually attracted to someone, but it seems whenever I am they are always older than 30 years old. I do not find younger guys attractive in any way, shape or form.

My boyfriend is 36 years old, and it bothers everyone else but I think he's perfect ... age and all.

Just wondering if it is really THAT unusual for an 18 year old to just ... not like anyone under 30?

2007-03-20 03:11:09 · 9 answers · asked by ♦ Tiff ♦ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-20 03:10:43 · 13 answers · asked by samantha w 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys, is it annoying when you tell your girl something, and then she goes off and tells all her friends, so that they know what you said. Is it annoying that no matter how many times you make her promise not to tell anyone something you did or said, all her friends will know with in an hour?

2007-03-20 03:10:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating