i've been dating with a guy for 2 months..i will come to his place and spend time with him...So far things are going well between me and him...but what im really confused was..whenever we're together we're like couple...but as soon as i step out from his apartment...he hardly calls me or even sms me..we had sex often but there are times when we dont and yet he still treats me like his girlfriend..well he told me that we're both official now..So am i just a 'bootie call' or his girlfriend?its like he's giving me mixed signals...so please tell me...if he is really into me or even take me seriously?or should i take it easy and not rushing?Help me...im soo confused!!
2007-03-20 03:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by Mexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he told me that he loves me but actions speaks louder than words right?
2007-03-20 03:25:01 · update #1
He is a man who is very inconsistent and I think for a reason. It sounds as though he has no real intention one way or the other to make your relationship either a girlfriend relationship or anything permanent in that regard. He clearly wants just a friendship basis with you and loves the fact that you consider it more than that because you give him sex which he desires for sure. More than likely he is seeing other girls and having sex with them if I am not mistaken. Have you ever considered this? He sounds like a ladies' man and one who uses people for his own ends. I think you should seriously consider your relationship with him and do that which is best for you under the circumstances. Don't be taken in by him and don't stay confused. If he really loved you he would tell you, don't you think? If you loved someone and I mean loved them wouldn't you want them to know? Wouldn't you act accordingly?
2007-03-20 03:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up hun! HE is only using you. He may have sensed that you are somewhat dis-satisfied by his mixed signals and has said that you are his gf. Have you met his friends? HAs he mentioned you to his family?
If the ans is no I think you need to ask yourself (and him) some tough questions about where you both are heading in the near future.
Will be best for the long run.
2007-03-20 03:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Syn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask him, I mean that's the best way to know and it seems like he likes you as you said, when you guys are together, but it's weird that he doesn't call you. You should ask him because he might be just using you, and like this you would be prepared before you fall in love with him.
2007-03-20 03:17:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt like talkin on the phone. he obviously likes you but maybe hes unsure. all guys are diffrent in the way that they show their affection. Just have a serious talk wit him. Good luck.
2007-03-20 03:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his booty call
tell him things need to change and he needs to start seeing you outside of the bedroom or else it is over
2007-03-20 03:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋