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2007-03-20 03:18:03 · 15 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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Honestly, if divorce should be made easier, then it should be harder to get married. Divorce is something that shouldn't be taken lightly, especially if there are children involved.

2007-03-20 03:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0 1

No, divorce should not be made easier.... getting married should be made harder. Marriage is serious and a serious commitment. Sure, a heck of a lot of people today get divorced, marriages seem to fail all around you. I believe that is because many of the people getting married today should not even be getting married. Their main mistake is standing up there at the alter in the first place. There has been such an attitude shift in the past years... now it seems that if you can get a good 7-10 years out of a marriage that you have made a good choice.... It is not difficult to get divorced. The only thing that makes it difficult is the animosity between the couple. It should be difficult.... If you want to dance you have to pay the band! Good luck to you if you are going through a tough stretch but we don't need divorce to be any easier.

2007-03-20 03:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 3 1

NO not at all... If anything it should be made a little harder and there should be less reasons available for divorcing... Marriage counseling should be made legal and you should have to go through that before deciding whether to divorce or not. It should be way easier to marry then to get a divorce. JMHO. People make a mockery and joke out of marriage now and they do not work hard enough on or at it and they just want out when things get a little tough... Comeon People we need to grow up and work on our marriages and be real men and women who stay faithful and true to each other no matter what and make our marriages last instead of running away like whimps and not facing things when times get a little tough. You should never even marry in the first place if you will not and do nnot intend of honoring your vows before God till death do you part.

2007-03-20 03:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1 0

I agree, getting married should take 6 months to a year of paper work and two lawyers to lay down the law. If either party breaks the marriage decree in any manner- then a swift divorce will be effective by all the pre-determined agreements for it. Marriage licences should also have to renewed like a driver's licences. Every 5 years... for every new child, make that 10 years until expiration.

2007-03-20 03:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

No, actually, marriage should be made "harder."

The reason people get divorced is not usually something severe like abuse or cheating, but rather because of something they SHOULD have learned before ever getting married in the first place.

Some of the most critical elements of a successful relationship are:

- A long list of common interests; things you both enjoy doing TOGETHER as opposed to separate interests and separate groups of friends.

- A lot of tolerance for each other's differences. As much as you share in common, you're still going to rub one another wrong from time to time. Be mature and deal with it. Separate the small $h!t from the serious stuff.

- A sense of compromise; so that you can work out your problems with a minimum of emotional trauma. It's marital negotiation.

- A sense of sympathy and forgiveness. You're both going to screw up on occasion. You need to be able to forgive, forget, and move on with the relationship.

- Spending about a year to get to know one another and discussing the issues most important to each, such as sex, children, money, careers, religion, philosophy, politics, etc.

I don't think it would be unrealistic to require couples to complete a semester of assorted courses before granting them a "license."

2007-03-20 03:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hi , a grin got here on my face ,surely you made my night by using ur assertion "that's bcoz If divorce is made undemanding merely approximately all the ladies human beings would be divorced!" On a extreme notice : no not all men ill rush with divorce purposes ,yet specific existence would be extra useful for each individual ,we r moving in that path ,n as we improve economically ,extra n extra freedom would be there for the two men n women human beings !

2016-11-27 00:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Absolutely. It's so much easier to get married than divorced;and it involves just as much emotion and decision making,sometimes more.

2007-03-20 03:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's already too easy to get a divorce. Marriage used to be something cherished, now when one partner gets bored, they want to end it. There are always going to be people of the opposite sex that are attractive and interesting, but that is where your commitment comes in. How serious are you and your vows. If you are not serious, don't get married. Ever.

2007-03-20 03:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by yooper guy 3 · 0 1

It seems as easy as possible now.

THe parts that are still difficult won't get easier. Splitting a family, its assets, and future income flows is never going to be simple.

2007-03-20 09:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0 0

Yes it should!!! And of course cheaper. Its like goverment wants the process to be long and painfull. I dont understand why thay have to make it so difficult. Its only harder for the soon to be split couple! And it only makes them more mad at each other!

2007-03-20 03:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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