OK so after beeing friends for 5 months I noticed she wanted something more. Like she started touching my arm and holding my hand... Few days later we were talking over skype and she said she wants to be just good friends and she has liked another boy for almost a year. And I was OK im good with friends. Then she posted something on her profile in spanish and im gonna translate it: "I like a boy but he still likes another girl and doesn't like me... I also like another boy and he likes me alot. What should i do?"
I got a friend of mine to ask her who is the second boy she told her it was me! And now she is asking me to play tennis again.... What should I do?
2007-03-20 03:21:19 · 18 answers · asked by DJ Andski 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She knows I like her and I really do ! The note: "... I like this other boy and he likes me alot too"
2007-03-20 03:28:17 · update #1
Tell her to go kick rocks.
She likes that other guy and she's keeping you around as her back up. If that guy ever comes around, she's just going to leave you for him.
2007-03-20 03:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends as she requested. Some people just like to touch if they are good friends. Just like in some cultures they kiss on the cheek when greeting each other. If she is a Latina it could be just that. Americans don't understand this. I've been to other countries where it's not unusual to see a man hug another man if they are good friends.
2007-03-20 10:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your shoes, I would continue to see this girl, play tennis with her, etc. and see where things go. She sounds conflicted and until she figures out where she stands with the guy she likes but doesn't like her, she is not likely to devote herself to you. If you really like her and think she is worth waiting for, stay in her life. At the same time, I wouldn't close the door on other potential dates...play the field a little...it might spark her interest if she thinks you might not be available forever.
2007-03-20 10:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by marlio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her play tennis and build the relationship carefully and slowly. You don't want to be her just in case the other thing doesn't work out boyfriend..develop your relationship and let her like you for you.
If you don't like her come up with a reasin to not go better to not get her caught up.
2007-03-20 10:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by something smells funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you like her you should just tell her, because you already know she likes you. The bad thing is that she doesn't even know what she wants since she likes you and another guy, so if you like her go for it and if you don't like her, just keep on being good friends like you have been so far. Good Luck. *_*
2007-03-20 10:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up front with her and tell her that you know about her website. If you "like" her I would tell her so and go from there. The better you can communicate now the better off you will be later.
2007-03-20 10:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by MakeThingsRight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come right out with it. Ask her if she likes you enough to be dating or if you are just friends. You know? I am sure it's frustrating to try to read between the lines.
2007-03-20 10:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by sassinya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you will just have to let her make up her own mind about who she likes more. Have fun and just relax and enjoy the friendship for now, who knows what it may grow into.
2007-03-20 10:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say yes I mean you want to good friends then just try to make her see that.
Personally, I think you should ask her out.....she's pretty much asking you out.
2007-03-20 10:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by marshimaro1993 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should take a shot at it and try ti ask her out, You may not know if she like you or not unless you ask her out, she may say yes.
2007-03-20 10:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋