i'm seeing 2 girls at the same time, i've decided who i want to stay with, should i tell her of the other one?

Question

to start on a clean slate, she could be the one......

Answer 1

If you believe that the skeletons in your closet will come out later at a more inconvenient time then yes I would. If you guys were not in an exclusive relationship then no I would not.

Answer 2

Not unless you want to be kicked to the curb. If I were you, I wouldn't EVER bring it up. If she's smart, she'll look at the whole situation from the infidelity angle (because you are a cheater) and see that if you couldn't commit to just her while you were dating, you're definitely not going to be able to commit to her in the long run. I was in a similar situation once. My boyfriend told me that he was seeing another person as well as me (I suspected it as well) but was ready to commit only to me. I told him I appreciated his truthfulness but I would never be able to let go of the fact that he'd been cheating for 3 months and possibly exposed me to STD's and anyone willing to do that wasn't the type of guy I wanted to be with. So I guess in a way if you come clean, she'll be smart enough to kick you to the curb. If you don't tell her, it will give you more time with her but it will eventually come up one way or another and she'll leave you later. So what will it be for you? Now or Later?

Answer 3

no dont tell the one you chose about the other one. you could tell her that your interested in someone else but deff not that you were with someone else the whole time.

Answer 4

I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HER, BUT WHAT IF SHE DECIDES TO BREAK IT OFF AFTER YOU TELL HER. JUST TELL HER THAT YOU DIDN'T KNOW IF SHE WAS THE ONE BUT NOW THAT YOU KNOW, YOU BROKE IT OFF WITH THE OTHER GIRL

Answer 5

i dont know but karmas a b*tch