O.k this is girl talk. When you have s*x with a guy the normal way, do you let him do it from the other side, I mean I have let my boyfriend do it 2 times, but it really really really hurts and I can't seem to do it again because it hurts so bad, could you give me some advice on what to do so it doesn't hurt or is it not normal to do it like that or what am I doing wrong? Please help.
2007-03-20 03:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally have never done it. I have friends who do it or have done it though. From what I hear there are some girls who dont like it and some who do. It sounds to me like you are one who doesnt. I would just not do it if you dont enjoy it. I mean isnt that the point of sex?...pleasure. I guess guys (and some girls) like it but it just isnt for some people.
2007-03-20 03:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let urself get hurt. Sex is about fun n intimacy, it's not about bearing all dat pain. Of course it does pain the normal way or any, but don't do something dat hurts u really bad! Rest u must be d better judge since u r d one experiencing it. Good luck! Try talking to ur gynecologist or ur bf or an adult or experienced friend as well, and also ur mom if she's open wid ya..
2007-03-20 10:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Winnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey my best advice is to stretch it out before you start doing anything. Your back side needs to get use-to that type of trauma. Also use a lot of lube.
Try buying plugs and using them for a short period of time to see if it helps stretch you out. Start off with small plugs and then slow with time you can start using the bigger one and then anal won't be so bad.
2007-03-20 10:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u refuse to do that again and u will not allow your body to be abused in that way. I met this person who has to wear a bag on his stomach because he can't use the bathroom from that area anymore.
2007-03-20 10:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something hurts you so much, you shouldn't be doing it, no matter what it is. If your boyfriend loves you he wouldn't want to see you in pain. Take care and respect yourself, there are plenty of other things you can do, you don't need to put yourself through agony for him, he won't love you any more for it, be good to your body!!
2007-03-20 10:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by HC123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if properly lubed up, it is quite pleasuresome,
you get the natural moisturizers the regular position. so it doesnt hurt when you r doing it, but there is no lubricant in the rear end. so u need to lube it up thoroughly.
2007-03-20 10:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to do what you are comfortable with i think if you are uncomfortable about having sex that way you should say NO, I mean sex is all about both the pather being pleased equally.
2007-03-20 10:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to stop doing it, coz if it hurts u NEED to stop. u might get an infection happening inside of you that is why it hurts.
2007-03-20 10:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by 100% me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should go see a doctor. thats not normal,hun.
2007-03-20 10:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur uncomfortable in that position u have the right to refuse
2007-03-20 10:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋