my two best friends had an argument and they decided not to each other again. they have not talked to each other for several months now.. but when we (my other friends and i) talked to them about it, they smiled.
i think they both wanna b OK now..but they feel shy ... they both won't handshake.. they feel afraid i think... or they may feel that if one person gives up.. others will say he is the loser of the two..
so.. how can i get those two to b together again? any brilliant idea? plz.. its a must.. !!!
2007-03-20 02:58:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my two best friends had an argument and they decided not to each other again. they have not talked to each other for several months now.. but when we (my other friends and i) talked to them about it, they smiled.
i think they both wanna b OK now..but they feel shy ... they both won't handshake.. they feel afraid i think... or they may feel that if one person gives up.. others will say he is the loser of the two..
so.. how can i get those two to b together again? any brilliant idea? plz.. its a must.. !!!
by the way.. on 2 occasions.. people have tried very hard to get them talking again.. but it didn't work.. any more ideas?
2007-03-20 04:35:06 · update #1
PRIDE!! Godh it ruins everything! But you should try to get them together without them knowing. Like on tv once they're together, strike up a conversation and maybe they'll talke. Just try to help them out. But don't be pushy about it.
2007-03-27 07:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by meximari420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a gathering of all the mutual friends (& then some). Nothing fancy, really. Let them experience that there is no favortism & that everybody likes BOTH of them. Some can tell one of what they (including the other) did as fun together & that it would have been better if the other was there too.
You're a great friend. I'm sure you'll find a good way. If ea. knows the other is willing to reconcile it will assist their "swallowing ther pride".
2007-03-27 11:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by LELAND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol it call pride,, an the thing to do, is to get bot to met you in a place they can run,,, dont tell the other till they meet up,, then you look at both, an tell them , no one a loser, you both was wrong,, an life to short, to not be friend,, then you tell them what if , the other die are got kill, how you going to feel,,, life is short, an we got to use it wisey,,,if that dont work,, best the tar out of both ,,, the cuff them together till they talk,,,
2007-03-20 03:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're able to be asking him those questions and not a bunch of strangers on a message board. it must be he desires to be greater desirable than acquaintances. it must be he desires to be acquaintances yet thinks you pick greater. you will no longer discover the respond right here. playstation and do it head to head. do no longer do issues issues like this over the telephone or over IM.
2016-12-18 18:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. You might want to help, but things are not controlled by you.
We have a saying..."He who wants to be a redeemer, finds himself crucified"....Roughly translated, I guess.
What I'm saying is you're caught in the middle, and it's not fun. They might try to manipulate you, so be careful.
2007-03-26 06:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋