I am very interested to chase after a lady even though she is attached with her boyfriend of four years whom she seldom meet. Perhaps, only a few times a year. She still persistantly said they are in a serious relationship. However, if I ask her to go out she never reject even though we go out with a group of ladies and I am the only man.
She knows I am attracted to her and she said she only treat me as a friend. I am going to write her a strong love letter everyday from now. Will my love letters paid off my effort? What do you think of it?
2007-03-20 03:00:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT WRITE ANY SUCH LETTER you WILL blow it
never tell her how you "feel"....she already knows how you feel..
women have "feelings" or "like" radar! seriously dude...
tease her and bust on her, like your little sis or bro, make fun of her in a cocky/funny type way so she hits you in the arm or gut and just be as you have been ..dot go wuss on us or her man...dont do it!
repeat..DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE WRITE LOVE LETTERS !!!!
did i give you enough warnings?
good and good luck
just be you and dont change for a woman ..they dont like it when we change into a "feeling" wussbag!
2007-03-20 03:08:12 · answer #1 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she will get very very very irratated with you
Nothing is worse than a guy who can't take a hint and back off when asked
She has said no to you, this means no, not try harder please
It will not pay off and could end up very bad for you if her boyfriend finds out
Respect her wishes and leave her alone and go find a girl who will treat you more like a lover than a friend
No the letters will not pay off and if she asks you to stop sending them and you don't, be prepared for some nasty consequences
2007-03-20 03:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea, man. Your letter will probably only scare her away, and worst case scenario will bring the wrath of her boyfriend down on you.
Even if it DOES work and she leaves her boyfriend for you, is that the kind of girl you want to be with? If she was willing to leave a boyfriend of 4 years to be with you, you'll always have that nagging doubt that she'd do the same thing to you. Who's to say she wouldn't leave you for someone else?
2007-03-20 03:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every day may make you seem obsessive, but I would tell her that you really feel like more than friends, and tell her that you would like to go on just one date, a movie or something, with out any of her lady friends, if that goes well tell her taht she really should ask her boyfriend how serious he is if he never sees her. Then ask her ehat seh really likes about him. Good luck.
2007-03-20 03:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so ur admitting u like breaking up relationships wrecking lives if u repeat this pattern u will owe lots of alimony attorney fees etc etc unless u go after a woman whos hubby or b/f carries a big club then u will end up owing medical bills doctors fees ur a player be prepared to pay the price
2007-03-20 03:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man if i was her boyfriend i would clock you in the face. lay off her man, have you no respect? i just feel like kicking the **** out of you right now.
2007-03-20 03:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she has made it clear that she is in a serious relationship and only wants to be your friend. dont push it or you may scare her off.
2007-03-20 03:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could just not want you. Is this a long distance relationship?
2007-03-20 03:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by MaTTaY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible
but i have always learn
what goes around comes around
i wouldnt do it again
2007-03-20 03:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey r u adnan
2007-03-20 03:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by jason45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋