He's my classmate and i like him since the 1st time we met (about 3months ago), we're both foreigner here, he's european and I'm asian. and since the 1st time we've been good friend. every month he always fly back to his country for several days to visit his dad who is very ill. and he always ask my help to get the paper from the course for him (we're in language course). But this time is a bit weird cos he dont even told me, so surprised me when last week suddenly he told my teacher that he can't come to the class cos must fly back to greece. O God, i miss him so much, n he should be come today, but why this time he doesn't show up? People, should i send text today, asking how r u, etc...or should wait till tomorrow?i dont want look obviously that i like him, thats why is it ok if i send him a sms, asking if everything allright with him?
Please people, i need ur opinion, thank you!!!
2007-03-20 02:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Vivienne 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O God, i follow ur suggestion, people, thx u so much! he just reply me and said maybe his dad is goin to pass away today, n he doesnt know when to come back..so sad, i miss him so much n now i dont know when i can meet him again? i dont know what to do, he always be my spirit to go to course everyday, now i feel so lazy. ok, people, wish me luck, someday, somehow, God bring him back to me. thank you for ur advice!!!
2007-03-20 03:35:39 · update #1
Care and Concern always come before pride. Say Missed you in class today, is everything ok?
2007-03-20 02:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have his reasons for not informing you in advance about this trip. Let him be. He needs some personal space. Don't push. Let him return and kindly ask him how his dad is and if opportunity allows, ask him how come he didn't seek your assistance with the class notes. I'm sure he'll give you his reasons.
2007-03-20 02:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just dont fall head over heels for him & go nuts. Don;t start going insane sending him a million text or calls a day.
It's nice when you show someone you care, they will appreciate it later.
2007-03-20 02:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by micolperu317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you not text him as a friend to find out how he is? I know you like him but if you don't text him he will think you don't care and perhaps needs someone to talk to right now.
2007-03-20 02:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the text. Don't sound like mad or anything.. just caring and curious.
2007-03-20 02:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you to know what was going on he would have contacted you.
2007-03-20 02:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong.you care for him as a friend and want to know if he's alright.i will message him if i were you
2007-03-20 03:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
def... in you guys are friends... you have every rite to know how he is and wats up with him... dont feel bad or annoying about it!!! ♥ Madison
2007-03-20 02:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea there is no hurt in doing that...go for it!!!! Good Luck!!
2007-03-20 02:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would
2007-03-20 02:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋