oky there is this girl i have been with her for 2 years and i love her more then i love anything and she loves me 2 but i went on a vacation and found some one els she is something from a book when i saw her i stoped breathing and at the end of the night we wore dancing started to talk and we become good friends and i have never cheated on my gf to this day but i have fallin for the new one and i feel like i should do somthing wat should i do?
2007-03-20 02:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by lee77dt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is where maturity kicks in. This type of thing is not unusual, but if we have already made a choice, and there really is no reason to change it, other than having met another person, then you bite the bullet, and stay with your girlfriend of 2 years.
The grass isn't always greener on the other leg.
But if you do decide to switch, do not expect your ex to take you back is it doesn't work out.
2007-03-20 02:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth of course, she may hate you for it, but there really is no other way. If you are mistaken & only thinking she is MS All That & come to find out you were wrong & she is miss *#@%^ then it is your loss. It would not be right to ask the first gf to take you back. If you are ok with loosing her forever then go for the new "take my breath away". (For future reference-starting the relationship-dancing, persueing the get to know you phase, why were you on vacation by yourself?-all the above was cheating.) It is not only a kiss or sex that makes cheating.
2007-03-20 02:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to think really hard about both women and which one you feel the closest to and feel is the better choice for a partner. You owe it to your girlfriend of 2 years to be honest with her. No one can help you decide. It seems like 2 years should have brought you 2 closer together. Then again, maybe she's not the one. Tough decision, but it's time to decide and be honest with them about what you are feeling.
2007-03-20 03:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love your girlfriend more than anything? If you do then what you are feeling for this new girl could just be infatuation, not love. Remember, once you cheat you risk irreversible damage to your relationship with your girlfriend that might not ever be repaired. The impact cheating creates is something few of us people realise until it happens to us. Knowing this, if your decision is to go with this new girl then what it will mean is that your feelings for your girlfriend are not as deep as you thought they were. If they were, you would not hurt her. But of course, the decision is only yours. Best of luck to you in whatever you decide.
2007-03-20 02:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart but don't lead 2 people on at the same time and if you do decide to go with the new girl, tell the old girlfriend before doing anything...show her some respect.
And make sure this thing with the new girl isn't just an infatuation....don't ruin a good relationship that you have now just for a fling.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 02:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by Island Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fantasy crush..in the flesh! wow! not bad..really..
choices..
A. stay with the current and tell her you had a real live fantasy come true on vacation but didnt do anything! OK? and see how she reacts..if she loves you with all her heart, she may get angry and ask questions and all, but she will stay...
B. stay with the current..and dont tell about your fantasy..ever!
C. see both? and tell both till one is over and the best one wins..?
D. see both and tell both and duck!
E. Stay with the current and say absolutely nothing if you love her and will some day be your bride...
F. just think about the Fantasy girl and keep smiling and the current will always keep her game up bc she will always be wondering whats on your mind and you say YOU dear, just YOU! well, it could happen..
2007-03-20 02:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont love the one if ur lookin for the other and vacations are like summer romances think u should move on before u cheat on her b fair to her and put urself in her place how would u feel if shes having these fantasies about her vacation while shes with u not so good i bet
2007-03-20 02:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out who you want. It sounds like something must've been missing for you to find another. Therefore either work on the issues with the girl you love or break up with her and then start your relationship with the new girl.
2007-03-20 02:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go with the new girl that you just found because it sounds like she makes you happy and feel good inside yourself. I mean I don't think it would be cool to be with someone that dosn't make you feel good or that you don't really love.
2007-03-20 02:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by turtle777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you have to think first before you make a move you have a long relationship w/ you gf and she still there for you, but if you like that girl more think of it first because maybe if you became her bf, she'll just leave you crying, while your gf that your sure that she'll there for you no matter wat!
hoped that i could help!!!!!
2007-03-20 02:47:07 · answer #10 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋