2007-03-20 02:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to try and separate your home life from your work life otherwise it will just continue
2007-03-20 02:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say it spoils the relationship, but not how it does. You also do not specify what it is you do, so its very hard to give advice on such a general question here. I will give it a shot though and ask why you don't put as much effort into the relationship as you do your job. It's obvious that you care about both, however you need to do a bit of self reflection and a bit of talking with your partner and find out exactly what is lacking in the relationship and more importantly what you can do to fix it. It could be a simple solution or something much more difficult, however until you find out exactly what the issue is, and at the very least make an attempt at a solution then the best advice is to break off the relationship and do not get involved in another until your ready to put your work aside and your relationship as your number one priority.
2007-03-20 10:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your problem is simple. Just prioritize your life. Work should never be more important than relationships. I am not talking about friends, but family. Are you working because you love it and rather be at work rather than at home with your family? What ashame! You are missing the real reason to 'WHY YOU ARE HERE on this journey called LIFE. After you die what will be the most memorable attribute about your life. So-and-so, sure was a hard dedicated worker, wasn't he? Come on, let there be more said than that after you are gone. Balance is the key word here. Some people jobs demand that they work 12 to 18 hour days, but if your job is not one of those, count your blessings, you are at liberty to enjoy life with your family and friends and give of yourself as well as build memories. God said that a man is to enjoy the fruits of his labor. That tells me that one is not to work ALL the time. BALANCE. Otherwise, when will you ahve TIME to enjoy your hard laboring? You didnt say if you are married or not. I hope you aren't married for your spouse and kids sake since you are more committed to work than home. But posting your question here is a first step towards change if you really want BALANCE in your life. I dont' know if you are a believer or not, but I would recommend that you read the Book of Ecclesiastes each morning before going to work and after returning home. It's just twelve shorts chapters that is worth reading over and over again. I believe if you would faithfully do this for several months you will be able to completly change your prospective about what is and is not important in this materialistive world. Now after saying all that, I applaud you for caring about what you do at work and how you preform your job with seriousness. While you are on the clock AT work, give it your best efforts. BALANCE. Now while you're on the clock AT home, give it your best efforts!
Remember you are not allowed to bring your home to your workplace (job). So dont take your workplace (job) to your home!
That doesnt mean that you shouldnt share what is going on at work with your spouse. It's helpful to unload some of the stress and frustrations of the day with someone you love. But dont harp (stay) on it too long.
Adding wisdom to knowledge.
BALANCING LIFE'S SCALE!*
2007-03-20 10:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by ODP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the issue is with the other party in the relationship taking pride in ur work loving what u do having a great work ethic never apologize for that the right one will come along who will respect u for who u are u have to kiss alot of frogs to find the princess
2007-03-20 09:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a a new relationship
problem solved.
2007-03-20 09:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋