well i'll start from the beginning. abt nevember time this girl came to work in the area i was working in. she didn't look very attractive or pretty and she looked at me, maybe coz i'm tall and she is short, and i was thinking how ugly is this girl and who in the world would want to marry her.( i know its not nice to call or think any girl is ugly, since every girl in the world is beautiful in their own way ) Anyway so i didn't see her for a while and then again in december she came to work in my area, coz of the xmas rush. Then as i saw her again, i just thought to myself is this the same girl who came to work in my area in nov. For some strange reason i felt as if i liked her. So now at this very moment i have so many feelings for her and i think i am in love with her. I think she may like me to, since we both stare at each other sometimes. But why did i start having feeling for her ?
2007-03-20 02:42:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and the thing is that the days i dont see her i feel really upset and my heart hurts so much
2007-03-20 02:50:47 · update #1
Hmmm.. Originally I had the same feelings for a man who turned out to be the love of my life.....
I never thought he was good looking, would snarl when anyone made comments about such...
Turns out that I wasn't ready for a relationship at the time and suddenly one day it just hit me... I miss him when I don't see him and I wonder why???
Just go with your feelings and see where they take you. Life is more interesting when we take risks, go with our gut and live freely.
Enjoy and the best of luck to you! :)
2007-03-20 02:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you started having feelings for her because she stayed on your mind and subconsciously she remained in your thoughts. I suppose you wondered a little about her, what she was like to be with, what things she liked doing, etc.. and the more she stayed on your mind the more she began to look more attractive to you. You know, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and sometimes the more a person stays on another individual's mind even though maybe at first he or she seems unattractive, the more that person begins to look appealing. I think this may be a mystery of sorts to many people but that is ok since every individual finds a true friend somewhere if only he or she takes the time to do so. Think about it.
2007-03-20 09:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is because you kept thinking about her. Get closer if you think you like her, who knows, maybe something good may come out of it. I however advice you to take your time because it may just be a crush and you may get over her soon then you will realise you made a mistake when you are already committed. If you feel she's the one for you then go on and make her happy.
2007-03-20 09:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by arabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been said that,"beauty is in the eyes of the beholder." Most people automatic assume one is referring to the outer appearance of another. In your case maybe you can see her inner beauty which is why you are drawn to her for reasons you don't know. Then again maybe you both share a "kindered spirit." Either way Good Luck and God Bless!!!!
2007-03-20 09:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz u r in love dude...coz only love can make u feel beautiful & c beautiful things even if it's ugly....as love is blind...& if it's a true love then it only recognises inner beauty....so go ahead n propose 2 her....don't keep waiting...coz life is precious n short...being a man u should make a move 1st if u really r nuts abt her!...gud luck buddy.
2007-03-20 09:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proximity. We usually find people attractive the more we see them. Its a sociological thing. If you distance yourself from her or vice versa your feelings will change.
2007-03-20 09:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have missed her. Ask her to hang out as just friends and see if your feelings are true
2007-03-20 09:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by Wouldn't you like to know? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's been nice to you. Maybe you got some maturity. Ask her for a date, then you'll know.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 09:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you saw something in her that you didnt see before. Have you talked to her, approached her in any way. do it, maybe something will come out of it.
2007-03-20 09:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones my dear
2007-03-20 09:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋