me and my friend are talking one time, then suddenly we tackeled the topic of boys then she told me that somone wants to make her his girlfriend, he was my crush,i really like this guy. should i lose him to my bestfriend or fight for the sake that i like him?also should i hate my friend for she was the one being liked by hm?
2007-03-20 02:41:35 · 20 answers · asked by nikaramirez30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Christin,i been experiencing that,i understand how it feels,i admit that i was wrong because i let my feelings grow& times come that my best friend know about it,i felt very bad to myself because it leads to break our relationship as a bestfriend.So you,have to tell the truth to your bestfriend& she will understand your side&control your feelings toward the boyfriend of your bestfriend&just think that we can't find bestfriend easily.
2007-03-20 03:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by Shy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, so writing this is will be odd. I've had this happened to me before, where my friend introduced me to his girlfriend. I was tempted to try and steal her, but the trust and respect that my friend and I put in each other kept me from turning my best friend into my worst enemy.
In a relationship, it's all about making everyone else happy. Whether friends or significant others. Because when the people you love are happy, so are you.
2007-03-27 20:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important, that guy or your friend?
Try to weigh things out, know who'se on top of your priority in heart.
Can you go on without your friend, or that guy your crushing about?
IF you choose the guy, then you should be ready to face all the obstacles, like, loosing your friend and loosing that guy too, after all that guy likes your friend and not you.
It's not your friends' fault that the guy you like, like her.
You could fight for the guy if you know that that guy likes you back, but there's no circle between you two. and that guy prefer your friend.
Just be a good friend, a be happy with your friend. Maybe there's someone meant really for you out there.
2007-03-20 02:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 05:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by goodfellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would never hate the friend just because someone likes her. Unfortunate for you, this person likes your friend, so you should continue being friends with her by supporting her in seeing this person. Do you really want to risk your friendship over a guy?
2007-03-20 03:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already made up your mind. Betray your friend, realize her boyfriends sucks too, and beg your friend's forgiveness. I say skip the middle step and buy your girlfriend a box of chocolates and watch a movie. When she asks why you're being so nice, just say (not sure you may want to pose that question)
2007-03-27 19:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Colonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not ever tell her that you have a crush on her boyfriend.
dont say anything, dont even think of telling her and anybody.
keep it to yourself. its a crush, it is only a crush.
i'v been through this situation once this year, worse.
this boy is one of my closest mate, and he's in love with my bestf and they're going out together now. happily.
i didnt tell anyone, not even the closest of closest bestfriend.
i know that if i tell anyone, the feeling will get stronger.
the feeling wont get stronger unless you talk about it, if u have a crush on him, go ahead. but remember, if you love your bestfriend, u'll let her be with him. that's what i did.
but keep it to yourself, the feeling will go away,
it takes time, but it will go and you'll be happy for your bestfriend. i actually helped her and him out on going out together, and i dont have acrush on him anymore.
i couldn't even believe that even i had a crush on him in the first place :) loser yes i know, but i love my bestfriend
2007-03-20 03:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by ndra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't 'fight for' him - let him like your girlfriend because that is what he does anyway. Then he can know you while he is dating her. Someday, they will be broken up and he might have an interest in you since he will know you better by then. Or you may have gotten to know him better by seeing him with your friend and already lost interest in him!
2007-03-27 16:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't..its just a crush. Ask yourself if you want a friend or not. This could really ruin your friendship. Its a trust issue , even though you haven't done anything.
How would you feel if the tables were reversed?
2007-03-27 13:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by Pepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing just happened to me. except he did not ask her out. i really liked this guy since fifth grade and my best friend starts liking him. i decided i did not want it to ruin our friendship so i wanted to stop liking him. i tried , but i could not handle it. i kept it a secret from her for about 2 months. i told her and she was fine. if she is really your friend she might turn him down and she will completely understand. that is what i would do for my friend. i would be devestated if he asked her out, but i am not sure if she would turn him down. but that is my friend. i think your friend will understand if you tell her. i hope this helps.
2007-03-20 03:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by ATL<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋