Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

Hi all... I have seen a girl in my office. I really liked her. I want to talk to her...But she is very reserved and will not speak to any strangers. Neither I don't know any of her friends to approach her nor any of my friends know her. Please help me with the tips to approach her.

2007-03-19 04:08:00 · 24 answers · asked by Kittu 1 in Singles & Dating

to be romantic or even have sex. We are only 23 and I just wonder what has changed. My body is in better shape than before I had our son so its not that. This is really putting a strain on our marriage. What can I do?

2007-03-19 04:07:46 · 27 answers · asked by LALA 12345 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl keep on stareing at u is then attention and if a girl try to be near u is then attention how do u know really?

2007-03-19 04:07:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 24

2007-03-19 04:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 04:06:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most of the time I tell him everything...when my ex calls he asks me what i am doing, where i am going, who with etc. We have a son together so we have to be civil...I still care alot for him and dont want to hurt his feelings but I know I shouldnt tell him everything about my business...why do I this, and how can I stop?

2007-03-19 04:06:17 · 13 answers · asked by Shanni1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote her a letter to say goodbye and explain the reason I am leaving her...she said I justify you and wish you find someone better. How can someone who is in love right such non-sense? Girls all over the world please answer or at least defend this creature!

2007-03-19 04:05:48 · 4 answers · asked by josh k 2 in Singles & Dating

I dated my boyfriend (a relative) for 2 years...It was a long distance relationship. The beginning was great and i felt that he was the one. He wanted to marry me and gave me a couple ring for the both of us to start out with after 1 1/2 year.

As time went on, i met new guys...and they're always nice to me too. I didn't tell my boyfriend...somehow he always finds out....and he gets mad...and sad. My closest friends tells him and then he confronts me about it. He always ask me how would i felt when he was me....i was sorry. For a year, I've been so mean to him and he always come back to me. He's a wonderful guy...when i think about it.

I broke up with him....and told him that i wanted to be his friend. He wanted us to sit down and work things out...but i didn't want to. After i dumped him...I started dating a new guy in my school..I told my ex about it and he said he knew that guy liked her. He saw the way he was when we were together and said it was a guy thing.

2007-03-19 04:05:11 · 4 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Singles & Dating

i gave him this cool black t-shirt but i found him wearing another one, should i be mad?

2007-03-19 04:05:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've met this guy last summer back in my country and saw him only three times (my best friend knows him very well)

We fell in love and decided to be together in a long distance relationship 2 years until I graduate and come back (now I'm in the USA)

A year passed and everything was fine, all of a sudden he broke up.

When I met him he was a regular guy then he changed he started looking for a better job and was working 8 - 16 hours a day to save money and be financially independent so we can get married

By the way we're both 20 years old.

Happens that as he said he found out making money was not as easy as he thought he is...

He is all depressed and he said he wants to break up and told me (if some good guy asks you for marriage marry him) , I'm back at zero now, I will not be capable of offring you a decent life. I know that you would stand by my side but don't want you to think of a solution for my problem. etc...
does this sound logic to u?

2007-03-19 04:04:59 · 29 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever i like someone and get close to them they always ending up telling someone how nice i am...as a friend, what am i doing wrong? someone recently told me you can get any boy to fall for you as long as you play your cards right. How is this done?

2007-03-19 04:04:06 · 12 answers · asked by umbrellophone 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, let me try to summarize my dilemma - there's this friend of mine, actually, she's one of my best friends, and I think that she's in love with me.
We've already discussed our relationship and I told her once I had mixed feelings about her, but things became clear once again, so I didn't approach her. She says it's a good thing, because that way she didn't have to say no to me.
However, a month after that conversation, she started to freak out on me, always trying to resume that conversation, trying to make me say I'm interested in her. She's a very beautiful woman, and she's used to have all the guys doing the work for her, and right now she's freaking out on me because I'm not responding (which I'm not sure I want to, btw). She's always criticizing me, tries to make jealous with my friends, when she's the one who's jealous of MY other girlfriends. She even has a boyfriend in another country and she says that he's the man of her life, unless someone surprises her.

2007-03-19 04:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are in any relationship with a person and they are taking more than giving, should you keep giving hoping that one day you;ll get your blessings back and just being able to say you were the bigger person. Or, should I treat them the way they treat me. How can you tell when to use what tactics with who?

2007-03-19 04:02:14 · 13 answers · asked by vivs043 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think religion affects relationships? For instance, I am 19 and this guy that I have been going on dates with is 21. We are not "official" yet, but we are basically a couple. He is Catholic, and I am Presbyterian. We both believe in God and everything, execept our views will differ in the long run. I don't want to just get into the relationship knowing that it will end soon because of that reason. I like the boy, but could people overcome this issue?

2007-03-19 04:00:21 · 27 answers · asked by Camelot 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 04:00:03 · 13 answers · asked by branathan_rose 1 in Singles & Dating

i love t.j i have for 5 years bu ti barley ever get to see him we hardly talk nd he's just changed do much i really don't want to let him go but i don't know what to do help me please
Mandie Renee

2007-03-19 03:59:52 · 2 answers · asked by S[he];BE[li]EV[ed] 1 in Singles & Dating

i went out with these lad and i finished him cause i didnt like him every one pressured me into going out with him and now that i have finished him everyone is callin me tight and he wont speak to me is this right

2007-03-19 03:59:22 · 6 answers · asked by kira r 1 in Singles & Dating

you always want to stayat the same age for ever?

2007-03-19 03:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by Flame B 1 in Singles & Dating

If your wife got her long hair cut short would you tell her it looked good, even if you really didn't care for it. Or would you not spare her feelings and tell her the truth?

2007-03-19 03:58:37 · 30 answers · asked by bobbi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine in the USA is into basketball and he said I should fill out a bracket online. I did, but didn't know that it was $10 a pop...so I did 11. He thought that I knew this, and that I was just not gunna pay, but I didn't know. I know it's no biggie cos the gy can't gt me from over there...but he does have my e-mail and phone number. I actually feel really bad..what do you rekon I should do...e-mail hime n tell him of what?

2007-03-19 03:58:35 · 10 answers · asked by :) 5 in Friends

O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along...we just argued...and she spent the whole time telling me about some new guy she liked...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. So every day since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i've agreed to meet her 4drink 2moro, but what do i say or do!!!!

2007-03-19 03:58:32 · 7 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:56:55 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my boyfriend and I split up last summer, and just recently weve been talking about getting back together. The thing is, I know he slept with two other woman in the time we wernt together, but that isnt the issue, as I slept with someone else too. The issue is that I know he works with one of the woman, and I know she still texts him really sexual stuff and sexual pictures, and Im not sure I will be able to handle it if we get together again! He doesnt know Ive seen all the texts, he only showed me one, and when he had a shower I looked at the rest, bad I know, but Im not sure what he said back to her! Ive told him if were to give it another shot that I dont want him texting her and if she continues, he would have to get another phone, but Im just so paranoid about the fact they work together and Im not sure Id be able to trust him and accept that shes flirting with him and he isnt back! He says she meant nothing and it was a "one off" but still...am I just just being stupid?

2007-03-19 03:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by Trixychick 1 in Singles & Dating

back to work on tuesday so dreading it what do u say to a person(it's a girl)who u know hates! me. and would go out of her way to like make fun of u when others are around and doesn't say anything on her own.
i haven't said anything but hello once,oh she so hates me and i actually find it hard to talk to people i guess she thinks i put it on to be rude or something which i so don't get why would i not say anything to be rude?i don't think i can change how she feels but if she knew i was like this at home as well as work and hardly ever go out maybe she would stop.but then that would leave me open for more insults, why don't u like anyone no wonder no one likes you. it sucks!
sorry to mention my silly problems but at least u cant say anthing bad to my face and i can kinda talk about it
Lol jp
i do want her to like me , we are gonna see each other more in the next few weeks and i dont want to feel like crap when im around her. it cant be good for her either to think i dont like her

2007-03-19 03:54:44 · 11 answers · asked by johnc 4 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc

she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back apologising. she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i called 5 days later at end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.

What the hell went on?

2007-03-19 03:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

my friends bf told her this and she wants to know!

2007-03-19 03:52:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just moved into my new house.I have been with my boyfriend for two years.he wants me to move in with him.I told him to give me two years them i will.But he is very low,saying i dont love him.He doesnt understand i need my own space.what eles can i tell him to make him believe that i will move in.Help.

2007-03-19 03:52:12 · 22 answers · asked by angela c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-19 03:52:09 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-19 03:51:52 · 8 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy who i know and like asked me if i was going to go out tonight he going out because it his birthday tommorrow
he always some times tease me and etc do you think that he wants me to be there because he likes my company or because he likes me
we have kissed and etc about a few years ago and at the time he said this he kissed me on the cheeck when i brought him a pint

2007-03-19 03:51:37 · 37 answers · asked by palmtreesareheaven 1 in Singles & Dating