Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

2007-03-19 04:32:01 · 27 answers · asked by juliavril7 2 in Friends

here is my problem i have been dating my bf for 4 yrs and 4 months now but I have been talking to this other guy for a little over a year now. See when my bf cheated on me and got another girl pregnant i went looking and found this really great guy and we have even been telling each other that we love each other and are planning to meet when he gets to come home from the army which is in 2 months. But my problem is that my bf doesn't want to be with the girl he got pregnant and he doesn't want to let me go either and i don't want to be with him but when i tell him that he beggs me to stay saying that he will never do that again and that he loves me etc. Well I know that once a cheater always a cheater but Now I'm confussed on what to do. I really like this guy and want to be with him but i can't get my bf to leave me alone. What do u think i should do? Should i just leave both of them alone or should i choose the guy who i really like?

2007-03-19 04:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and sometimes i get the feeling that he likes me back, but he has recently told me that hes given up on love and all that...well me and this guy have done things in the past so i know im not completelly ugly to him or anything. but i wonder now if i should keep crushing or if its just a hint to not bother cuz he doesnt want to date me...opinions please

2007-03-19 04:31:14 · 12 answers · asked by Daney 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that women who say it are implying that if a man wants sex, he should pay for it.

2007-03-19 04:30:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As a bride myself, I am getting tired of people acting or telling me it's their wedding day so that entitles them to do whatever or act however they want! Whatever happened to being classy and a good host?

My fiancé and I are in wedding season...
1. We have one couple who was pissed no one came to their $1,000 per person wedding on a tropical island and now they are throwing themselves a dinner a year later expecting gifts!!
2. A friend eloping then in 8 months planning a traditional wedding, wanting a shower and a bachorlette party and everything.
3. Now we have a couple who made their wedding a weekend thing and it’s cost us $500 to spend the weekend in this bed and breakfast! Plus we will have to give them a gift! My fiancé is the best man so he doesn’t want to complain about it…since no one else is.

I know it just not our friends, I have heard other people going through this as well… and I read a ton of things of yahoo about similar stuff. What the Hell is wrong with people??? Do they not even consider ANYONE else or their Guests in the slightest way???

2007-03-19 04:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Who out there likes to TF?
Girls who are big up top do you really like it and which way do you like it? On back or kneeling?
Can he end there?

2007-03-19 04:29:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend cheat on me with my friend and he didn't tell me about it, after seven days my friend called me and tell me what happen, but when i ask my boyfriend he said that's not the way the story happen, so he told me a different story who should i believe?should stay with him?

2007-03-19 04:29:28 · 20 answers · asked by cathy 1 in Singles & Dating

whats worse is that she leaves right next to me and i see the guys car parked there over night. I dont want to move out... i know its certainly over between me and her. After that embarrasement and lack of respect, i dont want to get back with her. so what do i do to maintain my cool and portray that i am happy even if i am not?

2007-03-19 04:28:34 · 21 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 04:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-19 04:28:16 · 22 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Marriage would be commitment if divorce were out of the question. Since any marriage can end overnight, marriage is NOT commitment.

2007-03-19 04:28:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have met a wonderful guy thru a dating service. The problem came when he told me that he is in jail. He said that he is in there by mistake and that he has been involved in an awful situation, because the owner of the company was involved with drugs. He was just a seller. He is pretty nice. What should I do? Run as fast as I can?

2007-03-19 04:27:45 · 24 answers · asked by Katherina 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont see any pretty indian girls in my high school...the only ones i ever see r on tv...where do i find them?

2007-03-19 04:26:47 · 20 answers · asked by Sleepless 2 in Friends

WE'RE NOT MARRIED! HE ALWAYS TOLD ME THAT I HAVE ANOTHER MAN HERE IN THE PHIL. BUT IT'S NOT TRUE! I FIND OUT THAT HE HAVE ANOTHER WOMAN WHEN I OPENED HIS OWN EMAIL AD. AND NOW HE WENT HOME LAST 2 DAYS AND NOT STAYING IN THEIR OWN HOUSE! WE HAVE 2 KIDS 1 GIRL ANG 1 BOY!

2007-03-19 04:26:34 · 8 answers · asked by JEN 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me wat u think abt the way my bf thinks

my friend told me tht der was this guy who wuz engaged n was talkin to his fiancee late at night n he fell asleep while on the phone wid her. she (lives in another state) cud actually hear him snoring n waited 4 a minute n then hung up... next morn she was MAD at her fiancee. the guy took leave from work n flew to where she lived n took her out 4 a movie n lunch jus to make up 4 fallin asleep.

Now i thought this was really sweet n told my bf this story. he instead said tht if he were in tht guys place he wud rethink getting married to tht girl who got mad 4 such a reason n he thought tht tht guy was really sweet to fall asleep talkin to his fiancee(as he might have been really tired) (i say if he was tht tired he cud have jus told her n slept instead of makin her feel unimportant or tht wat she was sayin was boring him. its kinda an insult to the girl)

wat do u think abt this? wats ur take abt the incident?

2007-03-19 04:26:34 · 16 answers · asked by icegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 04:26:06 · 14 answers · asked by Bbee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok to start , I am 22 years old I have been married since I was seventeen and I have three children.
My husband thinks that our marriage is in good shape, and he will not listen to me when I tell him that I have not been happy in years.
He is the only one that works and makes all the money, He will not let me work or even leave the house without him.

Also, any ideas on how I could leave broke with nowhere to go with 3 kids?

I feel like I am stuck !!!!

2007-03-19 04:25:51 · 11 answers · asked by sillygirlie22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering because I need feedback on this.

2007-03-19 04:25:37 · 5 answers · asked by Angelface_the_1st 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend likes another , but i like him. wat should i say 2 him?

2007-03-19 04:25:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok I met this girl at this store, she works there, shes cute and she would kinda smile at me and I would kinda smile back and so on until we came to talking (She talked to me first) She told me that her birthday just passed so I sent her some flowers with a ? on them so they wouldn't know who they were from and I guess she liked them. Then one day we ran into her at a club and got to know each other for about an hour. When we left she said thank you for the flowers (she found out some how). and I told her to come to my family's restaurant sometime. Well she did one day before she went to work, and then also the next day as well but I wasn't there, but she text me asking what I was doing and I found out that she was there again.

The question I guess I have is would you go visit a guy (at his work, 2 days in a row) that you barely knew if you weren't interested in him? (Would you do that if you only wanted to be friends?)

2007-03-19 04:25:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is getting married in April, and I want to look good, but I've packed on several pounds since my last "public appearance" (I am a tall size 20). I have a tea-length dress that is "acceptable" (in burgundy with gold), but my friends tell me I look too frumpy in it. The bridesmaids are wearing Aqua colored dresses. I just found a beautiful dress in a periwinkle blue, with a full length A-line skirt, embellished with embroidered roses, beading & crystals, with a matching wrap. I feel like a princess in it.

My concern is that it has more bling than the bride's gown or the bridesmaids. I am only 46 and not ready to look like my own grandmother, and I figure that I will be looking at those pictures for a long time, and I don't want my thought to be how prematurely old I look, but I also don't want to look out of place or silly.

Any advice?

2007-03-19 04:24:48 · 13 answers · asked by Zinnia 2 in Weddings

well i had this "bestfirend" and she was cvought doing something she wasnt supose to and i guess she figured that if she whenbt down she was going to take me down with her so she told her parents that i told her that i had sex with my cousins both of them. which is not true altho they arent my real cousins i would never do that with them because i see them as my brothers and that would be discusting almost like havine sex with my sister. i would never ever do that. soo my parents believed her... just because she is a staigh A student and she doesnt do anything bad in front of my parents but this one thing. she talked to me on the phone the pther day and she said why are you lying. and i told her that i wasnt lying, she must have been dreaming. then she was like oh well im pretty sure you said that to me. that got me pissed off because she told my parents that i told her that i fuc.ed my cousins and she was acting like she was sure when she got me in trouble and everyone looks at me bad

2007-03-19 04:24:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When my boyfriend proposed he told me the sky is the limit. He said I could plan the wedding that I have always dreamed of. The thing is I want a princess themed wedding. I kinda had Cinderella in mind. I want to find a diamond and rhinestone tiara but have no idea where to look. Does anyone have any suggestions.
And yes even though I am expecting I can still have the big wedding that I want cause we will be getting married after the baby arrives.
Our wedding will be big but most of the work will be done by friends so that it will not cost very much. My idea not his.

2007-03-19 04:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My bf has cheated on me. He was with me for 2 years. We dated, had sex. He used to tell me that I am not beautiful. I am not fair, asked me do breast operation,asked me reduce weight, asked me change the colour of my skin.I reduced weight like 40 pounds.also I don't look bad. At the end when I asked for marriage as I was being pressurized by parents, he said I am not b'ful.But I found that he is talking to one more girl and trying there.When I asked he said no its nothing, just a friend.But when I asked again for marriage,he said no he will never marry me.Then what he was doing with me for 2 years?he said 'i don't know'.He is now talking to that girl, when I almost devastated with pain.Everyday is a hell for me,I am not able to take that someone just played and runaway.Shall I tell the other girl?what should I do?I still love him.But I dont want to marry either. He has behaved very badly with me.I spent a lot of money on psychic who says he is my soulmate and he would come to me. Help!

2007-03-19 04:23:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were stuck in a love triangle and you were in the middle and you had two people who wanted to be with you (Both of them are your Ex's), how would you choose between the two, and when you were sure who you wanted how would you go about letting the other person down, what would you say and how would you go about it, would you cut off all ties with the other person to avoid any problems in the future(Love Triangle) or would you want to keep him as a friend?

2007-03-19 04:23:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is just a survey i personally don't know all the forms of kisses except french peck and suckin face please if you have ideas tell me im open to suggestions to please my bf

2007-03-19 04:23:00 · 8 answers · asked by Big girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 21,hes24)I am his first gf in 2 yrs(his ex cheated on him & was badly hurt this)At first he was always wanting to see me,we live 30 min away and only i have a car.In the first couple weeks he took me to meet his parents and his friends and i was very happy with this new relationship.Lately hes been acting distant.Now we barely see each other and when we do,we are either at his parents house or out with his friends.I feel neglected & like he doesnt care about me i've brought his up with him b4 and he just tells me i shouldnt feel like that and to just "chill" and that hes not going anywhere.When we are together he is very attentive and tells me how much he enjoys hanging out with me,but then I dont see him for 4 or 5 days.i've noticed he drinks alot.I want to bring this up again b/c it's REALLY bothering me.I dont want to break up and I dont want to play gamesWhy do u think hes acting like this?how should i handle this?he wants to know wats wrong!!

2007-03-19 04:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-19 04:22:07 · 22 answers · asked by Manc 07 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, im 11yrs 5th grade and I like a guy and he likes me, and were not the "kissy kissy huggy huggy make outty make outty type of thing, crud like that" were just mayb a funny kid movie at mall and popcorn and junk like that and maybe to the park to shoot some hoops or walk and talk........my ex had his chance and my ex is my boyfriends bestfriend and my ex still likes me in a scary desparite thing!!! Ive already told him I dont like him and stuff like that, he isnt giving up.......HELP PLEASE! THANKS! By the way my parents are "kool" about me and him they trust him and me there really nice about it!!! I LOVE THEM!

2007-03-19 04:22:03 · 11 answers · asked by Holly S 2 in Singles & Dating

I need ideas on how to celebrate a 10th Wedding Anniv. I am looking for something inexpensive and simple. Maybe something over a weekend. Having a party is out as is vow renewal or having a nice dinner out.

Other creative ideas would be appreciated.

2007-03-19 04:21:03 · 7 answers · asked by jbenishmlt 4 in Weddings