2007-03-19 04:28:23 · 7 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ooh yes you will, just go to england where the men treat you like a queen
2007-03-19 04:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound like I'm blaming you BUT I'M NOT! This is one suggestion I have to help you in the future.
I'll use one of my employee's as an example:
She is only 17 and her parents have been divorced for 10 years. Her father has had many girlfriends and wives in that 10 years. Her older brother is always getting together with different girls and is dating many girls at the same time. My employee (I'll call her Sarah) has been dating her brother's friends for a while now. The only people Sarah says she's attracted to are her brother's friends.
Well, her brother's friends date many girls just like he does. Sarah keeps getting her feelings hurt and I told her to start dating boys other than her brother's friends. Just last week, she told me she made out with another one of his friends. She keeps picking all the guys who cheat on their girlfriends!! She keeps getting hurt because the only boys she will go after are the ones who are like her brother and dad because those are the only examples of men in her life.
I'm not saying most people are trustworthy and you're picking the few bad apples but before you befriend someone or date someone- consider what qualities they have. Are you attracted to people who aren't trustworthy? There's nothing special about the boys Sarah dates- she's just attracted to people who act like her family.
There's no way to tell if someone will or won't harm you eventually, but watching out for certain behaviors that are familiar to you might help you pick people who aren't such untrustworthy a holes.
Unfortunately, it's hard to be optimistic about trusting someone when you've been burned so many times. I know this will sound weird, but something to help you cope and date again is accept the fact that whoever you're involved with might abuse your trust. When and if it happens, you're already prepared and it's easier to move on: trust me.
2007-03-19 12:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Erin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a possibility that u will end up trusting guys again i was hurt so bad that it had hurt for almost 3 months but in the end i finally decided to confront the guy who did it and i have nver been the same but u kno what i've been happy because now im in a wonderful relationship and not even with what happened between him and i has gotten in the way!!!
2007-03-19 12:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by ஐ♥Angel Baby♥ஐ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have been hurt in are life's one way or the other, but when you find the right person you will trust again.
2007-03-19 11:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SUCKS DOESNT IT, WELL i know how you feel thats why i really dont feel very confident in marriage these days.
i mean most people are lucky to make it past 2 yrs. lol what a joke.
2007-03-19 11:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by valentines snowman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been asking myself the same question.
2007-03-19 11:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, learn from your own mistakes and move on.
Good luck!
2007-03-19 11:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋