Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

2007-03-19 03:51:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just asked me to marry him. The problem is none of his family likes me and my family doesn't like him. They think that we are not right for one another cause there is a fifteen year age difference between us.
The thing is the day after my bf asked me to marry him we found out that I am expecting. Now we sort of have to get married.
My boyfriend suggested waiting to tell the two families about the baby until after the wedding plans have been put into motion. He said this so they will know that he proposed before we knew about the baby.
Should I go along with his suggestion or do you think he is just trying to cover up the fact that we have a baby on the way?

2007-03-19 03:49:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know what I need to do pre- , during, and post- ceremony, if necessary.

2007-03-19 03:49:34 · 9 answers · asked by meishajax 1 in Weddings

the only reason i done it was because i didn't have my glasses on and went to the wrong washing line. She s said she's going to tell the police now. What should I do?

2007-03-19 03:49:16 · 30 answers · asked by dennis 1 in Friends

I am getting so frustrated with him. He is 32 years old; I am 26. He gets very upset with me whenever I am in social situations and not as friendly and outgoing as he deems sataisfactory. I had a bad day last Sunday and wasn't talking very much and now he is virtually ignoring me. He says he needs A BREAK from me! This happened several months ago, and we barely spoke at all for a few months! I'm getting so exasperated! What should I do about this? Am I being unreasonable/is he?

2007-03-19 03:49:01 · 22 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Friends

I've met this guy last summer back in my country and saw him only three times (my best friend knows him very well)

We fell in love and decided to be together in a long distance relationship 2 years until I graduate and come back (now I'm in the USA)

A year passed and everything was fine, all of a sudden he broke up.

When I met him he was a regular guy then he changed he started looking for a better job and was working 8 - 16 hours a day to save money and be financially independent so we can get married

By the way we're both 20 years old.

Happens that as he said he found out making money was not as easy as he thought he is...

He is all depressed and he said he wants to break up and told me (if some good guy asks you for marriage marry him) , I'm back at zero now, I will not be capable of offring you a decent life. I know that you would stand by my side but don't want you to think of a solution for my problem. etc...
does this sound logic to u?

2007-03-19 03:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-19 03:48:00 · 2 answers · asked by YUO T 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old. I have lived in Athens, Greece with my family for 11 years and now my family wants to move back to Chicago. Me and my boyfriend are madly in love with each other, all my friends are here and I'm have no idea what Chicago is like. I want to stay here but my family say I'll never be able to make it because rent is a bit expensive (about 500$ a month for tiny apartment) and people rarely give students jobs. What should I do? Ask to live with some friend or distant relative?

2007-03-19 03:47:55 · 9 answers · asked by mollyinlove 2 in Singles & Dating

We will be married 25 years next year. Diabetes runs on his dad and mother's sides. He weighs about 250 lbs. What do I do? Just sit and watch him kill himself? Also, I have epilepsy so I know what a seizure is like. It scares me. He doesnt think I care. I have asked him to gpo to the doctor for a christmas gift or birthday gift. Why is he doing this?Doesnt he love his wife and children?

2007-03-19 03:47:45 · 16 answers · asked by julie w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have several friends who use these terms and wanted a overall opinion...thanks!

2007-03-19 03:47:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.so the thing is i told the guy that guy's will say i love you just to get into a gals nix..!! which we all agree. this guy's next action was to prove he is not just after sex. (by the way which he didnt get).

2007-03-19 03:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by tamzin x 1 in Singles & Dating

iv been seeing this guy for a while now its like were a couple now so why havnt we slept together yet, im very comfatable with him i think he is with me whats the problem he's had plenty of chances.

2007-03-19 03:46:55 · 3 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is going to attend an event for his job and his employer has asked him to drive another employees wife whom he has never met. They will be alone in the car for 5 hours. What are your thoughts on this? Thanks!

2007-03-19 03:46:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. i dunno why his mate keeps on bringing it up randomly.

2007-03-19 03:45:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He says we might get married in September. What do I need to do to give myself that extra edge !

2007-03-19 03:44:51 · 16 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:44:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u do when you felling that you need guy and there is no one?

2007-03-19 03:44:32 · 8 answers · asked by yaseen e 1 in Singles & Dating

it's been 4 months since I have broken up with my ex-gf ...we broke up smoothly, and try to stay friends but, it is still hard on me, ..I don't talk to her very often , but each time I heard of her ..well, I think I'm feeling bad ....!!! for example, this morning, I comed to work, and one of my colleague, tells me ..hey I saw your ex this weekend, she was with her bf ....!!! or another friend , telling me another day , I went to that festival last time, I saw your ex with her guy ..etc...etc... Each time, I tried to forget, people comes again with such issues ..really, I feel frustrated sometimes, ...what can I do ?

2007-03-19 03:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My exhusband and I seperated on October 9, 2006 and our divorce was final on March 2,2007. I was wondering what everyone thought was a good waiting period before dating again. Oh yeah I am 27 and I have 2 kids.

2007-03-19 03:42:45 · 15 answers · asked by suzyalexisandgabe 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating the one for 18months now.ive dated the other one already,but we dated for like 6months.i love them both very much.but you see the other one and i have been friends since we could walk ,we even got married at 7.i am 2years older than my current boyfriend not that thats important.the other one is hotter but my boyfriend has a future im not so sure bout the other one.im only 18 but i know if i stay with my boyfriend now its gonna be forever and im not sure if im ready for that.the other thing is if i leave my boyfriend now im never gonna get him back or meet someone like him again,and he is that perfect husband type of guy.i no im really young but i have to think bout my future i just wish i met my boyfriend at a later stage in my life.

2007-03-19 03:42:39 · 8 answers · asked by sammy .fc 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy I think is really cute, and we have "met" eyes before and i smiled at him...the only thing is- he's a senior and I'm a freshman... I just want to know if you have any ideas how I could meet him but not just say "hi" cuz thats weird noone here does that...help? :D thanks!!

2007-03-19 03:42:27 · 1 answers · asked by Lindz911 2 in Singles & Dating

I was stalking this boy, I found his adress, phone number, I even spy on him sometimes at his house. But one time he caught me spying on him in his room so he shut the blinds!! I also have evrey picture of him imaginable. I probably own pictures of him that he doesn't even remember taking. I put them in my closet. He asked one of my so called "friends" why I was spying on him, and she told him all about the pictures of him in my closet, and how I once saved one of his used tissues.
But that was a long time ago, I don't save his used tissues anymore. He thinks I'm a freak now, though! And I'm not!!!!!!
WHAT SHOULD I DO!? I really like him and now my chances of even being his friend are over. Now whenever he sees me at his baseball games he looks at me like I'm a freak.
I'm not a freak! What should I do?

2007-03-19 03:41:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this boy, and his name is Will. I like him a lot, and I told him that like 2 days ago and then he sent me this email:

Hey,
R u going to the mall tomorrow?
I am going to the mall around 11:30am
tomorrow. Do u want to get together?
Whats your phone number? I'll try to call u.
C U Later...
Will

I am clueless as how to respond. I've never had a boyfriend and I don't want to say the wrong thing. Could you guys maybe help me?

2007-03-19 03:41:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really love this girl..we have been knowing each ither for three years..my heart pounds for her all the time..but she says its not possible because of family issues and nothing seems to be happening in life..Moreover she does not give me enough time because she is doing a MBA..Im 20 and she is 21..I love her from the bottom of my heart and I even proposed and she said no the reason being that she thinks its just not possible..Sometimes I fight so badly for time and sometimes I get very stressed for this..Sometimes I evn have a problem because even our physical relationship is on and off kinds..wat a mess im into..wat do u think can be done about my pathetic life..pls be honest..your opinions matter..really

2007-03-19 03:40:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who is better to love on bed

2007-03-19 03:40:08 · 15 answers · asked by vikas 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so theres this guy who has the hots for me and he really likes me but i dont feel the same about him anymore because i still love my ex bf and i know that he still he loves me too.Now i told this guy that because he wanted to know why i was acting so finiky lately so I told him the the truth and now it's like he's in denial,he wants to be friends with benefits and i said yes like an idiot but thank goodness for the fact that now he lives in florida but he's coming up here in two weeks for my friends sisters quincy and he wants to see me should i tell him that i dont want this relationship and try to tell him again but be extremly harsh because i've tried to be nice and it has no effect at all like i get flirtacious sometimes but im not serious and he knows that what should i do

2007-03-19 03:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by ashley_davis957 2 in Singles & Dating

Dont' they agree that babies are the most adorable things on the planet?Don't they want to know what does their babies look like?Don't they want kids to continue the family line?Don't they love their kids if they had ?
ps.Many guys told me they only want sex,not kids

2007-03-19 03:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Family

Would you not have a better relationship with that special someone when you take time to "make love" to the heart and mind.

Seems like rushing into a relationship we seem to forget that there is a heart, soul, and mind at work as well.

2007-03-19 03:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by weepingwillow 1 in Singles & Dating

My Egyptian bf's brother died recently. My bf is currently widthrawn and uncommunicative but I believe he needs me... Only I need to know what I can do to comfort him. I wish he would just tell me but I don't think he knows himself or that he knows what to say. I am scared to offend him or seem insensitive. I tried to reach out to him; to find out what I can about his situation and what's happening in his life since he ignored me for 3 weeks. So far, he's not saying anything more about his life and He's accused me of being selfish when I asked him what he feels about me. I am feeling hopeless not knowing what to do.... I really love this guy and hope he would open up and trust himself entirely to me.

2007-03-19 03:38:37 · 4 answers · asked by kitten 2 in Singles & Dating