Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I normally pay for everything..... but it was such a nice change that the girl i am seeing .....bought me lunch and a present....
so refreshing.... I was really pleased.....

This cant be normal...... ?

2007-03-19 03:38:35 · 24 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

is it really any true love?
what about first love? does it lasts?

2007-03-19 03:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Eeda 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:36:50 · 42 answers · asked by xtanyax 3 in Singles & Dating

Can two parents who agree on custody arrangements have the custody agreement drawn up and legally finalized by a laywer WITHOUT having to go to court?
If so, how long would it take?
The parents are not currently married (to each other or anyone else) so there is no divorce proceedings to complete. They are just looking to get a custody agreement done and legalized without the court costs and ridiculous expense of court.
Can this be done? If so, HOW??

2007-03-19 03:35:49 · 4 answers · asked by ShellyLynn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my bf for 2 months(im 20,hes24)I am his first gf in 2 yrs(his ex cheated on him & was badly hurt this)At first he was always wanting me to come out to where he lives,we live 30 min away and only i have a car.In the first couple weeks he took me to meet his parents and his friends and i was very happy with this new relationship.Lately hes been acting distant.Now we barely see each other and when we do,we are either at his parents house or out with his friends.I feel neglected & like he doesnt care about me i've brought his up with him b4 and he just tells me i shouldnt feel like that and to just "chill" and that hes not going anywhere.When we are together he is very attentive and tells me how much he enjoys hanging out with me,but then I dont see him for 4 or 5 days.i've also noticed he drinks alot.I want to bring this up again b/c it's REALLY bothering me.I dont want to break up and I dont want to play games..Why do u think hes acting like this?how should i handle this?

2007-03-19 03:35:25 · 18 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

I was stalking this boy, I found his adress, phone number, I even spy on him sometimes at his house. But one time he caught me spying on him in his room so he shut the blinds!! I also have evrey picture of him imaginable. I probably own pictures of him that he doesn't even remember taking. I put them in my closet. He asked one of my so called "friends" why I was spying on him, and she told him all about the pictures of him in my closet, and how I once saved one of his used tissues.
But that was a long time ago, I don't save his used tissues anymore. He thinks I'm a freak now, though! And I'm not!!!!!!
WHAT SHOULD I DO!? I really like him and now my chances of even being his friend are over. Now whenever he sees me at his baseball games he looks at me like I'm a freak.
I'm not a freak! What should I do?

2007-03-19 03:35:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

having sex, or lying in bed just cuddling each other, and him feeling u all over and you both just holding on to each other?

2007-03-19 03:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by oooops! 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf just broke up with me he said he doesnt know what he wants.....that he doesnt know if he sees a future with me..ive been with him for 2 years...i thought he would figure that out already....he said that he doesnt want to talk to me and he doesnt want to see me until he is ready....i dont know what to do i love him so much and i hate waiting her for him...

2007-03-19 03:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by urallineed2have 1 in Singles & Dating

ive told my bf (hes a virgin) that im not a virgin and have had a few sexual partners. but he keeps saying he cant wait to take my virginity like i will take him. why is he saying this when he knows im not a virgin

2007-03-19 03:33:51 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by pam_donaldson 1 in Singles & Dating

I didn't get into the position I wanted for this year, my relationship is ending, and my roommates conspired to take my bedroom and give it to someone else. I'm having a really crappy week. I think now I'll have to move home until I find a new place, and I need some encouragement from all you Yahoo! strangers.

2007-03-19 03:32:29 · 17 answers · asked by Year of the Monkey 5 in Friends

I'm 26 and I have a 51 year old man in love with me. I'm very independent so it''s not the money he helps when I ask. He loves my son to death he does have a 17 yr old daughter and 21 yr old son. I would have good security with him all he wants me to do is be there to make the rest of his life happy. Is that a big age difference. My mom is 48 that's so close it's kinda werid. I've been dating someone that is 28 yrs old and that has been hopeless. You would think that we would work together to have a furture but we don't I pay most of the rent pay over $250 in light food shopping. I'm the one that takes charge to make things happen it's like I have 3 kids mine his and him. I'm going to a very rough time not very happy with where my life is at right now. I feel lost and overwhemled. I go into depression in a snap of fingers. I got out of a depression state just a few months ago and I don't want to go through that again.

2007-03-19 03:31:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the only snag is that i am having knee surgery two months before so need to find something that doesn;t involve to much walking. please tell me what you did or if you have a good idea about what i could to do.

2007-03-19 03:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by Keri T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years, we see eachother 6 days a week, text all threw school, and talk on the phone when ever were not with eachother. i love her so much and im so scared that when college comes i will lose her because her love for me isint strong... how can i know she loves me as much as i love her? what are some things to look for/notice to help me know? i have asked her, and she says she loves me the same, but i can just feel she dosent (were gettign over a huge fight, happened 3 weeks ago, and shes gettign alot better) will this go away with more time? please help =/

2007-03-19 03:29:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a nephew who is in his 20s (we are in our 30s w/14 yr old daughter) and is in the USCG. He seems to be "on shore leave" every few weeks and will just show up at our house without calling, or will give short notice ("hey i'm on the way") before coming. When he arrives, he tends to basically sit around, watch TV, eat our food and make a mess. He basically comes and goes like it is his own home.

At first we had no problem accomodating him. In fact, prior to his enlisting in the USCG, he lived with us for a period of time. But even then, his plan was to stay "one month," but after he spent all his savings in one week, one month became more like four months.

My wife is now in her ninth month of pregnancy and his act of just showing up is beginning to wear on us both.

Does anyone find this rude and/or inconsiderate? How do we broach this topic with him w/o hurting feelings? I'm trying to understand why I'm so bent out of shape about it....

2007-03-19 03:29:23 · 19 answers · asked by jrodriguesny 1 in Family

After 17 years of the best years of my life, my wife left to see another man for a week. We are now back together and things have never been this good! I know she had sex with this guy at least 3 times, but she said it wasn't enjoyable? I am having a really HARD TIME getting over this! It has only been a week now since she came home and I Love her Soooo much......How can I cope with this? I wish I could just forget about it! I will do anything to keep our family together and I believe she will too, but I can't get the vision out of my mind?
Please help!

2007-03-19 03:29:17 · 21 answers · asked by frank b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a secret pal who I thought was a guy but it could have been anybody. I don't really understand the purpose of a secret pal. Any suggestions?

2007-03-19 03:27:36 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Friends

Hi guys, my partner and I are planning our wedding at Disney and want to know if many people from the UK have done it and how much they enjoyed it?! What it was like etc. We are planning an Intimate wedding so no more than 18 guests at Disney's wedding pavilion. Thanks!

2007-03-19 03:27:29 · 10 answers · asked by gail_jefferson 2 in Weddings

like your friends....... or working partners.......

2007-03-19 03:27:23 · 5 answers · asked by aool l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man is with someone and the wife gf or
her to be husband looks at a nacked woman
on the internet pictures and hids it and does it and not openly, is that also called cheating?
I found the pictures of a woman on the net that my to be husband was looking at and he got really up set with me and told me that I didn't need to watch every thing he was doing.
It really hurt me and made me feel nasty and shamed of my self.
I'm not bad looking and I don't put my body on the net for all to see, not even if I was to get paid for it.
this is really bothering me and I just need help with it,
can someone tell me what you think,
and put it this way to, what if it was your wife looking at men, or your husband looking at nacked women,
how would it make you feel?
talk to me please.
PS sorry if i miss spelled anything.

2007-03-19 03:26:50 · 21 answers · asked by DENISE 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 years old and I am a full-time CNA (nursing). I have my HSD. I have my own apartment and no children. I have a live-in boyfriend whom I've spent 4 years with, we plan to marry shortly before I turn 25. I have no criminal history and I plan to attend college for LPN very soon. I had a difficult childhood and no family support. My boyfriend tells me how proud of me he is because I have accomplished so much for someone my age, but I feel like I haven't really done much. Am i being too hard or am I correct. Please help!

2007-03-19 03:26:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-19 03:26:21 · 36 answers · asked by xtanyax 3 in Singles & Dating

I no longer want to be a woman anymore. I want to go back to being a man. But sex changes are expensive surgeries. I don't know if I should pay for another one or live the rest of my life as a female. My wife will most likely divorce me if I make her pay for another surgery. What are my options?

2007-03-19 03:25:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and how long have you been married?

2007-03-19 03:24:49 · 19 answers · asked by iwill 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My band was only $200 more than his... we each paid for our own .. is that how it usually works?

2007-03-19 03:24:39 · 21 answers · asked by Advice Please 3 in Weddings

okay, so....
a boy asked me to a concert, i said yes, he came to the door, and picked me up. but when we got into his truck, it turned out his sister was going too. so we get going, and his cell rings. he pulls into a parking lot, and gets out, his dad hops in, and the boy, takes passanger side. the four of us (me, the boy, his sister, and his dad) go to the concert. it is indoors, and we sit together. he offers to buy me a c-d, and then on the way home, buys me ice cream. when we get to my house, he walks me to the door, and says good night, and that he will see me later.


would you concider this a date? even though it was not one-on-one. from his point of veiw, was it? (hes 18, and very laid back. it was going to just be him and i, but his parents plans failed, so his dad decided to go along, and his sister too.)

2007-03-19 03:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Singles & Dating

We have been friends for 8 months, we work together and had a small falling out over a work issue. I felt she didnt show any room for our status as friends in the way she addressed the issue and reacted accordingly. It was probably the wrong way to react. We discussed the work issue and put it to rest, Now she has gone very cold on our friendship. I want to repair things but when I approach her to talk about it, she just said it was personal. We were great friends but now we hardly even can look at each other without it being uncomfortable. I know this is the classic work/friendship clashing thing and we had no "rules" on how to deal with this type of thing if it occured. We have both done/said hurtful things but it is up setting that such a small trivial thing appears to have cost us a blossoming friendship. Any advice on what I could do to mend this?

2007-03-19 03:23:27 · 8 answers · asked by Zipster 1 in Friends

match? I got five small round diamonds, and 2 small baguettes on the ends, which match the new setting that has a couple baguettes and tiny diamond chips on a somewhat antique setting, placed in square designs.

Is it okay to have the round diamonds on wedding band with the princess cut and setting on engagement ring?

2007-03-19 03:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by Advice Please 3 in Weddings

hi so my bf is coming back from work and its been 2 months since we saw each other and tomorrow he is coming back. now i thought that it would be nice to do something nice for him. how can i seduce him but not make him think that i want to sleep with him just want him to desire me.

2007-03-19 03:21:04 · 13 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you interested in visiting africa ,the crandle of mankind?well am in kenya and ..,

2007-03-19 03:20:55 · 5 answers · asked by faa 1 in Singles & Dating