my bf just broke up with me he said he doesnt know what he wants.....that he doesnt know if he sees a future with me..ive been with him for 2 years...i thought he would figure that out already....he said that he doesnt want to talk to me and he doesnt want to see me until he is ready....i dont know what to do i love him so much and i hate waiting her for him...
2007-03-19 03:33:51 · 9 answers · asked by urallineed2have 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he is scared. One of two things is going on. Either he found someone else and is seeing how he feels about her, or he is sensing that your relationship is getting too serious, and he's not sure what to do about that. Guys do this all the time... "I don't know what I want, don't talk to me I'll figure it out and let you know"
That is not fair to you. You shouldn't have to sit there and wait to see if you're good enough for him, or if he'll decide he really does like you. You need to tell him straight up that he is either with you, or he isn't. If he's confused or scared, then you can work through it together. If he's just being selfish, then you can do both of you a favor and leave him.
2007-03-19 03:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do and the best thing for you is to let him go. If after 2 years of being with you, he doesnt know what he wants then he aint ready to settle down yet. You should perhaps be single for awhile untill you find someone who does know what they want and will trat you the way you want to be treated.
2007-03-19 10:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, He is asking you for some space, thats what he needs from you right now, i know may not be fare for you, but its is the better way for you also find out if he really loves you, If time past by and nothing happened there is a saying " if your love one leave let it go, if he comes back is because is yours if he does
'nt is because never was" If he does come back that means there is some else better for you coming in your way.
Relax you 'll be ok.
2007-03-19 10:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by ginany25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay..okay...well i was in your shoes like a month ago...he didn't brake up with me for the same reasons but close enough and...thins might not get through to you yet bet it will as time goes on....you cannot change someones mind...dont even try because all you will do is waste your time..trust me..i did....go find some good brake up songs blare them, dance to them, sleep to them...then go get a huge tub of ice cream, watch romantic movies and cry.....then go out to a club and dance the night away...find someone...dance with them and then if you wanna go home with them lol
Basically i am here for you..i understand so much so email me if you want
2007-03-19 10:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever run after somebody who walks out.
If there is a chance to bring him back, stay away, let him be, let him think and in case he realizes he missed you, he will come back.
And don't wait for too long...... Time runs quickly...
2007-03-19 10:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the way he is putting it to you is that hes probably seeing someone else
2007-03-19 10:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by drightchristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space he'll come around he is just reassuring himself that your the one
2007-03-19 10:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill out
2007-03-19 10:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by aj_p7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
2007-03-19 10:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋