I didn't get into the position I wanted for this year, my relationship is ending, and my roommates conspired to take my bedroom and give it to someone else. I'm having a really crappy week. I think now I'll have to move home until I find a new place, and I need some encouragement from all you Yahoo! strangers.
2007-03-19 03:32:29 · 17 answers · asked by Year of the Monkey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-03-19 08:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at it this way... If you didnt get the position you wanted, maybe its a good thing, cause it may have been a bad position underneath all the glitter. And now, you can look for bigger and better positions. And if your relationship is ending, this is a chance for you to get out and explore life and meet new exciting people. And if you are moving back home, think of all the money you can save up to use as a down payment on a house of your own someday. And if this really is a crappy week, then next week can only get better. Good luck!
2007-03-19 10:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Chevy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been a big fan of cliches like "everything happens for a reason" or "when life hands you lemons, make lemonade". They've never really been too helpful to me.
Look...I know it is easier said than done, but try as hard as you can to focus on what IS going well in your life...even if they're small things: your car is running ok, you have a couple of bucks in your pocket, and hopefully a couple of good friends. You're not starving, you have the option to move home. You are fortunate in many ways.
Switch into survival mode. Do what you have to do right now to get through this.
OK I'll throw in one cliche that I do in fact believe: this too shall pass. It will, I promise!!! Hang in there!
2007-03-19 10:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Maudie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going through similar things...its tough, but keep your head up and think positive...even if you have to trick yourself into thinking positive...do it. I am a firm believer that everything...and I mean everything, happens for a reason...sometimes it takes awhile for the reason to hit you like a ton of bricks, but it does and its marvelous when you can sit back and say "oh yeah, I can really understand why all the bad stuff happened ". Good luck, and keep smiling.
2007-03-19 10:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Shanni1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't meant to be, none of it. Something better will happen for you around the corner on all of it. When one door closes another will open, just think positive. It is their loss not yours!!
Hope that helped :)
Good luck!!
2007-03-19 10:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. Everyone has bad weeks and bad months. My bad week was when i was in a hospital fir 8 days. I am now happy and healthy. I sincerly hope your day gets better.
Love ya!Ollie91rocks
2007-03-19 10:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by ollie91rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep in mind that all things happen for a reason and what your going through right now will pass. Prayer will help! It works.
2007-03-19 10:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Times have been pretty tough for me as well, I just try to keep a positive attitude because honestly what good does it do for us to have a crapy attitude...its not gonna change anything...Just keep your faith up...thing are bound to look up....until then, I'll be praying for you.
2007-03-19 10:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will turn out fine ....just a set back for now... your certain to over come whats going on right now ..best of luck to you hope everything turns out how you wish !!
2007-03-19 10:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you hit rock bottom there is only one way to go and that is up. Life stumbles will happen, they are necessary. In the words of Beavis "You gotta have stuff that sucks to have stuff that's cool."
2007-03-19 10:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a man.
You will live through this and emerge stronger than ever.
Where one door closes, another opens.
2007-03-19 10:36:27 · answer #11 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋