Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

This is from my last posting. I dont know how some people can say I was rascist when I clearly said I dated a dark skin guy. I said I am brown skin because I am not dark nor am I light ( I am in between). I have seen some attractive dark skin guys but never went out with them because they are players. I am not rascist it is just a prefernce. Just as some commented on people liking blondes or brunettes, and etc. I didnt say I wouldnt date a dark skin guy all I said was I am more attracted to light skin guys. I have been since I was in day care. S*** I was talking to a light skin well spanish guy once but didnt go any further because his personality was not good. So nothing influenced me it is just my preference. Even my mother noticed that I liked light skin guys when I was in the Public School, the 2nd grade. I like the singer USHER- He is fine as hell. AM I still rascist? So nothing influenced me. It is just my prefernce. PLease if you have nothing nice to say dont bother answer

2007-03-19 03:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Singles & Dating

cocky and funny
nice and funny
a jerk and funny
rude and arrogant, but sort of funny
tough and hard
shy and funny
goofy and kida shy
shy, good looking and dresses well
shy and seemingly intelligent
friendly, nice, but kinda shy
quiet and easy going but funny
plain and easy going but nice looking

make up your own..2, 3, 4 or more is ok also

of course everyone has different tastes but what is the most attractive to you
or most women these days ..do you think also?
you can put different age groups bc guys of different ages may seem different to you in the way they act around that age ..


it will be interesting to read your responses...

2007-03-19 03:20:39 · 13 answers · asked by Gary G 4 in Family

i am an engineer.working in a leading steel company ,small town of india.for is better for me to marry - house wife or working lady

2007-03-19 03:20:03 · 16 answers · asked by vikas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 03:19:39 · 31 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

if you like someone and he doesn't know it, should i tell him? how should i tell him? do i need to tell him?

2007-03-19 03:19:38 · 2 answers · asked by bealicious 1 in Friends

2007-03-19 03:19:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you known someone a very long time, and notice they want things on their own terms and you can't ask for their help on anything anymore, what can be done?

2007-03-19 03:19:00 · 21 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5 in Friends

there is this girl at chruch say i was cute to her firend one time and weeks after weeks we stare in are eyes for long and when its time to geel and shake everyone hands she comes near to me and then nextweek i was siting whit my firend and i look back and she was stareing at me i stare back then i hear a wisper like hes cute and my firend look at her way and then he stop and go sit near the girl and i look at the girl her touge was sicking out and smileing a little and wispering to my firend and keep on sstareing at me when i look at her and after chruch she walk slowi near me and stare at me a little does she like me me what does she want?

2007-03-19 03:18:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:18:03 · 22 answers · asked by alwan a 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl and she is trying to steal my man and the thing is we were friends last year and we aren't so good of friends this year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-19 03:17:51 · 6 answers · asked by blackdeath92 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have looked at alot of porn in my single days. my fiancee hates that kind of stuff and i would hate for her to have to accidentally see something offensive when she uses this computer. is there anything i can do to erase? ive already cleared my online history but is there more that needs to be done?

2007-03-19 03:17:45 · 1 answers · asked by jeff s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my hubby for 13yrs now,and even tho we never always did me and his ex wife get on,i deal with her more than he does. I do all i can for their kids too they are great. But sunday we had a christening 2go 2,their 1st grandchild. When it came to introducing everyone she did everyone except me. why? My family think she is feeling old(shes only43) i am 34.

2007-03-19 03:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Which are its weapons of seduction?

Kisess ♥

2007-03-19 03:16:36 · 12 answers · asked by Psico£ove ® 6 in Singles & Dating

A guy I have been interested in and I have been having problems. He called me on Friday to initiate a conversation because he wanted to work out things between us. We both took blame for the things we had done wrong. Overall it was good except for one thing. He told me that whenever he started feeling like he wanted to be serious about me, he had to pull away. That he felt like he could not give me what I deserved in that type of relationship right now. He has a career that is really demanding. He would have time for me but just doesn't feel that it would be enough. So could he have been seriously been telling me the truth or just a line?

2007-03-19 03:16:07 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

Recently I've been feeling down. I just want to stay in bed all the time. Nothing cheers me up. Guys ask me out to go to the cinema, but i just don't want to... :( I want love, but people around me just can't give it to me... Or can't show me their appreciation of me the way I want them to... What should I do?..

2007-03-19 03:14:47 · 14 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I love each other very much and are VERY happy together. We have both had jealousy issues...you know the whole fear of losing thing.
My problem is that I am looking for a job. We desperatly need me to be working immediatly, but any time I bring up my working any job that would put me working with the general public and possibly having contact with men he get's upset. He basically wants me to work in a preschool or nursing home...but we can't just sit and wait for that. Any suggestions?

2007-03-19 03:14:35 · 28 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have so many friends and they're always having some problem in life. My problem is that they come and tell me their problems, but they don't really consider if I'm not in the mood,or I'm having trouble... And I see their problems as mine and while trying to solve, I feel that I'm putting so much effort I'm tired. But I don't know what can I do to achieve this situation..

2007-03-19 03:14:21 · 4 answers · asked by ironic 2 in Friends

i feel like going nuts because my ex burned my house down and i want to shoot her *** and any advice to get the itchbay back. i lost everything.
i dont care what you say just need some advice.

2007-03-19 03:14:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the problem is that hes goin in a months time
hes a very good friend of mine i just dont want to lose him
but my friend likes him 2 but he hates her what do i do i am soooooo confused
i need help
do i tell him my feelings
hes the best
help me now
time is running out
i got my exams and i cant concentrate
help
help
plzz

2007-03-19 03:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

but they are not without total 100% responsibility for it all.

Since, I say each and every one of us is 100% responsible for what happened and what is happening around this subject, than that would include Muslims as well. (Just no more or less than you and I. )

Agree or disagree?

2007-03-19 03:13:53 · 17 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

Due to financial issues my fiance and I have had to cancel our reception and have decided to still keep the wedding at the church. We have planned a dinner for close friends and relatives after the ceremony at a nice resturaunt; I'm wondering now what do he and I do after that? go home? a hotel? we are taking our honeymoon 2 days after, we would like to have some free time to relax and get things together before we leave. Is there anything wrong with going home after? what did you or someone you know do. Any suggestions would be great. Thanks a lot :)

2007-03-19 03:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5 in Weddings

2007-03-19 03:13:07 · 18 answers · asked by indiaalexia 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:12:58 · 4 answers · asked by Neo 1 in Friends

Is 7-8 a good size or do you really need more to satisfy you, also if you are with a man that is beyond 8 inches would you be less likely to get with a man that is smaller after you break up?

2007-03-19 03:12:51 · 6 answers · asked by Nasty Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 03:12:17 · 3 answers · asked by indiaalexia 2 in Singles & Dating

Thank you Will M!

2007-03-19 03:10:57 · 2 answers · asked by 9 tails 1 in Family

He is 56, he told me he kept counting the number of women he slept with, and he had about 30 long or short term relationships, and many casual relationships and one night stands. the total number is 326. Is it a large number? As Im asian and I only slept with him, Im troubled by this. Also he seems like a honest man and he didnt cheat on me, but his number makes me feel very unsecure. Im 26 and have been with him for 2 years. Is he a bad man?

2007-03-19 03:10:46 · 17 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is 56, he told me he kept counting the number of women he slept with, and he had about 30 long or short term relationships, and many casual relationships and one night stands. the total number is 326. Is it a large number? As Im asian and I only slept with him, Im troubled by this. Also he seems like a honest man and he didnt cheat on me, but his number makes me feel very unsecure. Im 26 and have been with him for 2 years. Is he a bad man?

2007-03-19 03:09:43 · 32 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I moved to another town and met this guy on line, we shared mails for 2 weeks, then we talked on the phone for a week, then we decided te meet up. We fell for eachother right away (we both removed our profile from the site), we had a great relationship for 4 months, I met his family, we even made plans for a close future, then we broke up because he felt things were going to fast, I moved away again ( he put his profile on the site again), after 5 months I went to visit him, he was pretty excited, we both realized we missed each other very much, but I had to go away again, I didn´t ask for explanations I just wanted to see him one more time before I left his country, I realized i still loved him and I let him know that he didn´t say anything (about his feelings) but he was very emotional too, when we said goodbye he told me he will come visit me to my country and after 2 months he did, he came and met my all family, I told him again that I love him and he responded the same he told that he loved me but he didn´t say it before ´cause he didn´t wanted to hurt me again, its been a month since he came to visit me and we still are in contact and he has plans to come again in July and stay a little longer, I´ve been honest with him about my feelings and I know I´m in love with him, he hasn´t express a lot yet with words but he is been calling me, says that he misses me, and even said the other that he want me to go visit him again, everything seems to be awesome, he hasn´t been clear yet what are we like exactly or were are we going to or what is he expecting from all this that we have again, I haven´t eather, but I´ve been clear about my feelings and told him that....What is been bothering me lately is that he still has his profile on line and sometimes he goes on very rarely and other times very often, I don´t know if I should say something, or should just give him some time to realize what he feels and what he wants (´cause I just told him about my feelings, like very clear a few days ago...) What should I do??? Should I wait until july when he comes and see what happens??? ´Cause since we are in a LDR I don´t want to put a lot of pressure on him...So any advice??? Thanx a lot

2007-03-19 03:09:21 · 4 answers · asked by aais 3 in Singles & Dating

Which one would you recommend and why?

2007-03-19 03:08:51 · 5 answers · asked by Fabian 2 in Singles & Dating