I moved to another town and met this guy on line, we shared mails for 2 weeks, then we talked on the phone for a week, then we decided te meet up. We fell for eachother right away (we both removed our profile from the site), we had a great relationship for 4 months, I met his family, we even made plans for a close future, then we broke up because he felt things were going to fast, I moved away again ( he put his profile on the site again), after 5 months I went to visit him, he was pretty excited, we both realized we missed each other very much, but I had to go away again, I didn´t ask for explanations I just wanted to see him one more time before I left his country, I realized i still loved him and I let him know that he didn´t say anything (about his feelings) but he was very emotional too, when we said goodbye he told me he will come visit me to my country and after 2 months he did, he came and met my all family, I told him again that I love him and he responded the same he told that he loved me but he didn´t say it before ´cause he didn´t wanted to hurt me again, its been a month since he came to visit me and we still are in contact and he has plans to come again in July and stay a little longer, I´ve been honest with him about my feelings and I know I´m in love with him, he hasn´t express a lot yet with words but he is been calling me, says that he misses me, and even said the other that he want me to go visit him again, everything seems to be awesome, he hasn´t been clear yet what are we like exactly or were are we going to or what is he expecting from all this that we have again, I haven´t eather, but I´ve been clear about my feelings and told him that....What is been bothering me lately is that he still has his profile on line and sometimes he goes on very rarely and other times very often, I don´t know if I should say something, or should just give him some time to realize what he feels and what he wants (´cause I just told him about my feelings, like very clear a few days ago...) What should I do??? Should I wait until july when he comes and see what happens??? ´Cause since we are in a LDR I don´t want to put a lot of pressure on him...So any advice??? Thanx a lot
2007-03-19 03:09:21 · 4 answers · asked by aais 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though it appears he likes you, he is not ready to commit to just anyone. He is out to explore and meet other people, and experience different things in life, as so should you. My advice to you will be to back off a bit. If you can accept the fact that he will date others while dating you, then continue to see him, and you date others also. If you are looking for a more serious relationship then you are wasting your time with this guy. I know you have feelings for him but it is obvious he does not feel the same way. I feel you know this but are not accepting it. Your denial is leading you to read things the way you want them to be and not the way they really are. This is what is leaving feeling confused. Best to see the truth now than get hurt later. Best to you!
2007-03-19 03:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definetley loves you, and all I have to say is ask him this "could you remove your profile from the site because it makes me uncomforable" its not a big deal, and he seems sweet so I doubt he'll overreact. Guy are more reluctant about the "L" word, that's all. However, yours is what could be termed a "long distance relationship" so have you talked about seeing other people while in this relationship? If you have agreed to it and it makes you uncomfortable just tell him so, again, and if he react badly, well, its a sure proof test, really. Anyway, good luck,and hope you'll both live happily ever after!
2007-03-19 10:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him and maybe in 1-2 years it will be with you or not,deepens.....!!!!
2007-03-19 10:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dya - The white Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't a little long,,,that was a book
2007-03-19 10:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋