He is 56, he told me he kept counting the number of women he slept with, and he had about 30 long or short term relationships, and many casual relationships and one night stands. the total number is 326. Is it a large number? As Im asian and I only slept with him, Im troubled by this. Also he seems like a honest man and he didnt cheat on me, but his number makes me feel very unsecure. Im 26 and have been with him for 2 years. Is he a bad man?
2007-03-19 03:09:43 · 32 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the number is true... he didnt lie on that one... bcos there are lots of proofs. and he is a highly active person. b4 he married to his ex wife, he had about 200.
2007-03-19 03:19:47 · update #1
that doesn't make him a bad man just a (he-whore)
2007-03-19 03:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if this number is greatly exaggerated [ which it probably is ] I would still be concerned. It seems that he has this need for you to think what a stud he is, however, at 56 he should be more mature that that. You are very young and even though you didn't mention if you were a citizen, I am inclined to think that you are not, you need to be with men closer to your age. I have this horrible feeling that you are being taken advantage of and you need to let go of this man and move on. You have your whole life ahead of you and his is in the declining years. Don't you want to have children and live a nice long life with a man, or would you rather have kids, he gets sick and now you are taking care of him as well!! I know this isn't what you were really asking but I am telling you how I feel. Good luck to you.
2007-03-19 03:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by oneontaw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 41 and have had one women (married her) so to me 326 is a large number. What I am wondering about is just how much of a stud this guy is that he can land a 26 year woman. Way to go dude. I'd worship him myself. If he can get himself a little 26 year old hottie to play with, then I'd believe 326.
2007-03-19 03:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not a bad man--he just has an overactive sex drive. Just because he has genital herpes doesn't mean that he doesn't really love you.
Yes, 326 is a large number! Plus, he's got to be lying because nobody can have been laid that much. He's probably a prostitute, or he's trying to soothe his sadly beaten male ego. He's obviously got some commitment issues and likes sex. If you're looking for a relationship, then dump him. He's not the guy for you. If you like having pointless sex, then stay. You can be number 327.
2007-03-19 03:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Emiline 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's a movie called "Rumor has it..."
326 is a really big number. Even at his age, he's been through too many women. He's not necessary a bad man, he's just not a good man.
2007-03-19 17:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by bubble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
326, wow, honey that is something he should have lied to you about because if my bf/husband has that number he would soon be my ex bf/husband. Get yourself tested. What if it was the other way around, what if you had 326 men in your life, do you think he would have been with you for 2 years? Think about it.
2007-03-19 03:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BS, I can't remember how many I banged and I'm in the area of 30ish. Do the math if he has had long term relationships and he has slept with that many people he is cheating on them. You also should be concern about diseases apparently he is not. He is also 30 years old than you another red flag. What do you think he wants from you? Hmm,A-s
2007-03-19 03:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Richard Fitzwell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that is a lot of women. Even if you use the rule of three (divide the number they tell you by 3), it is still over 100 women. I would use caution and have him checked for various STD's before you sleep with him again. He may not now what some of those one night stands had. Good luck.
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2016-10-19 01:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advice to you would be to make sure that he has been tested for any kinds of STD's. I mean honestly when I saw the number my mouth dropped, but the important thing here is that he is faithful to you and he loves you. you say that you have been with him for two years, so why does that number still bother you? Are you worried that he will cheat or what is it that still bothers you? Thats the question that i would ask myself. I think the number bothers you! Good Luck! remember if he is treating you right and he loves you then his pas shouldnt matter!
2007-03-19 03:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by sexycat_1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ, he's old enough to be your father. What do you expect? I wouldn't classify him as a bad man. To the contrary, 326 people liked him...a whole lot. Cheer up, when he cacks it in say 10 years, that will leave you in your mid 30's and you can catch up.
2007-03-19 03:26:54 · answer #11 · answered by Pipe Grampa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋