Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

6 years ago the love of my life left me. I thought I was grand for years, having other relationships and maintaining my friendship with her. I'm single at the momont. I was out drinking with her last night catching up. I feel really stupid today because last night I told her things like how I still really loved her, how I'm not sure we can be friends any more, that kind of stuff - basically I bared all. Now I feel down and like I'm an idiot. I'm also really annoyed at myself for having these feelings because she left me and I feel like I should hate her but I can't no matter how hard I try.......... Really feel like I messed up, any ideas on what I should do or how to proceed?

2007-03-19 02:38:16 · 19 answers · asked by T M 1 in Singles & Dating

What are your thoughts on Cowboys

2007-03-19 02:38:06 · 6 answers · asked by cowboybronco01 4 in Singles & Dating

i've tried in the past 2 get a bf, i've tried the playin hard to get route, treat em mean.... but its just not getting me anywhere. i have been myself when meeting guys but my whole attitude is bitchy, stubborn an spoilt. (unaware im doin it half the time) when they get to no my true side they ditch me. should i jus jump in the sack wiv every guy i meet? or give up on findin some1?

2007-03-19 02:38:06 · 3 answers · asked by princessbex 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine is having a long distance relationship with a guy she met online for months already except they still haven't met. Well, she recently told me she kissed a guy friend and is now going crazy about what she has done. I told her that this guy she is seeing hasn't made any attempts to see her or give her any sort of real commitment. But she is hitting herself over the head about cheating on her so called boyfriend. I don't know what to say to her...What do you think about the situation???

2007-03-19 02:36:58 · 12 answers · asked by flctya 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you like to be 16 again with all the problems kids have nowadays?
eg - No jobs - Violence on the streets

2007-03-19 02:36:44 · 16 answers · asked by ashymojo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im in love with my friend brandon the problem is he has a g/f that he is supposbily in love with and he doesnt know that i love he knows that i like him. ive never fallin in love with a friend before. but when ever we hang out it doesnt feel like were hanging out as friends it feels differnt. what should i do im scared to tell him because i dont want to ruin the realtionship.

2007-03-19 02:35:41 · 7 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex fiance and I are still pretty good friends. were on good terms. I texted her on friday about getting some from one of the girls I met. and then i said somthing, i don't remember, but i think she may have took it as me hitting on her. I said "don't worry i wasn't trying to hit on you. I'm not interested in you like that anymore" I really am though. i love her still and i won't be over it for a long time. I mean thats why i asked her to marry me. I thought i was done looking anyways she said "its cool" and then i said "I hope you feel better, Good Night :)" and she said "thanks", is she still interested and just putting up a front for me? we have talked about us and she said "i wont get back together with you" "im tired of repeating myself", I mean I get that, and also she filled out a survey on myspace, it said "are you in love" she said "no" i guess i just would like to sort this whole thing out. if you want the whole story just message me.

2007-03-19 02:35:25 · 16 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4 in Singles & Dating

they can be male or female of good characters and inteligent so that they can teach me some of the things I did not know

2007-03-19 02:34:33 · 11 answers · asked by alofidelix 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 and a half months. I am 17 and so is she (but shes 6 months older). For the first month of the relationship everything was just unbelievable. She was head over heels for me and me for her. But after the first month yer sure we had little arguments but resolved them. Now the other night we were watching TV and she told me how hot she thought this guy on TV was. I thought that was ok because i totally trust her. Then i asked if she thought she knew any guys personally that the thought was hot. She told me she thought a guy at her university was hot and i was Ok with that. Then she askd me the same question (but bout girls) and i answered with 'Yer a girl from work'. Now she is really upset with me that i find this other girl hot. And tonight she was acting like a completely different person i didnt even know her. She doesnt know if she wants to be with me anymore but this has just come out of the blue. Love doesnt just disappear. Wat shuld i do?

2007-03-19 02:34:10 · 19 answers · asked by OttawaOnt7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this guy in my class, we have that class every second day.. And I have developed feelings for him over the last 3/4 weeks.

We haven't actually talked, but I've had my friend who keeps a look out on him during our class to see his actions.
She's told me that he looks at me often, I've even caught him looking at me.

I'm extremly shy, but he seems quite outgoing, as what I've seen from the past few days.. Really funny, etc.
The problem is, I can't even gain the courage to talk to him casually. Too shy..

I need some adivce on;
'May he like me? ..Or am I getting into my head here?'
And
'Some tips to help me gain confidence for conversation, how to strike up convo and just other little bits'

He came and sat next to me today, but he was sitting in between me and his GOOD friend. And he spent rest of the lesson talking to his friend and I turned around and talked to my friends for the rest of the lesson.. ARGH!

Works out both ways. He's nervous too?

Help? Thanks

2007-03-19 02:34:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so 40 years ago if a kid had parents who were divorced they were commonly known as a stigma....they had this label on them that no one wanted to be associated with, why is that? why is it more accepted today/

2007-03-19 02:33:31 · 10 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

O.K My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She gave pretty feeble excuses, and we had been dating for a year. I had no contact whatsoever with her, until she asked the other day if i would mind going for a drink with her as friends. I went along...we just argued...and she spent the whole time telling me about some new guy she liked...i stupidly admitted i loved her, and said that this whole friends thing wasnt working, and i walked out of the room. So every day since, I get texts saying how hurtful she was,sorry,& could we be friends.i ignored her.she then asks my friends have they seen me today cos she's worried about me!Anyway,yest i had enough,& textd her back saying that she hurt me 2much & to leave me alone,i said u've moved on,so should i.anyway,she replied saying she still has feelings 4me,& misses parts of our relationship,but doesnt want to date again.i've agreed to meet her 4drink 2moro, but what do i say or do!!!!

2007-03-19 02:32:24 · 22 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 02:32:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 02:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by naguib 1 in Singles & Dating

Would there be a limit as to how you were tied up?

2007-03-19 02:30:01 · 19 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Singles & Dating

Every time i think that i have found someone that is nice and a good boyfriend, but then the boii always does something to change my mind like after a week finally tells me he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do and i am so confused.

2007-03-19 02:29:34 · 17 answers · asked by milk_and_oreo_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm fine until he is walking out the door, then I start crying. He says I'm being silly. It's not that I think he won't come back or whatever, I just feel so sad to be seeing him go. I love him so much and we have such a good time when we are together but it hurts me to see him leave. We are newlyweds, just married about 6 months. Is this a normal newlywed thing? Will it get better? Why do I get so sad when he has to leave? I try to keep myself busy while he's gone with tasks, and my own job, but I leave after he does and it's always so hard to see him walk out the door first! Am I nuts? LOL

2007-03-19 02:29:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 02:25:37 · 22 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Singles & Dating

You don't have to be a swinger to answer this, but if you are just going to berate or insult us please don't bother.

To make it short, my husband is much more like Ken then I am like Barbie. He is in shape, muscular, and the girls like him a lot. I am overweight and although my husband tells me and does everything I could possibly ask to reassure me I don't feel very sexy.
The problem is that the girls that are most likely to approach him are the Barbie type and their husbands aren't really interested in me. The not-so-Barbie type are intimidated by him and we don't get anywhere with them usually.
My husband is wonderful and doesn't demand Barbies - doesn't even ask for them - he does as much to make me comfortable as he could.
When I get attention from the guys (usually not Ken-type) their wives are then scared of my husband and feel that he wouldn't want them.
Anyone have a good suggestion? Other than me losing the weight? (working on it)....

2007-03-19 02:25:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 yrs old and am engaged. My fiance is 25(26 in July). We are planning to get married 12/29/2007. I think I'm having "cold feet." So many people I've talked to say I'm so young... and it is true. He has already graduated from college and I haven't even started yet. I see my other girlfriends still out dating and living alone and at times I really miss that. And I think... am I giving up what is supposed to be the time of my life? Also, I'm worried that I just fell way too fast. We only met.. about a year and 5 months ago. This is pretty much the only serious relationship I've been in. Also, I'm afraid if I call it off, what if I'm losing the best thing that will ever happen to me?? Can anyone help!!??

2007-03-19 02:25:27 · 15 answers · asked by perkyash2005 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My hands are 20% smaller than average male, and 10% smaller than female. If I compare my hands with a girl who has bigger hands than me, does this break the ice between us, or should I try to hide the fact : ) whether it's just female friends or a girl I'm particularly interested in, I'd like to know

2007-03-19 02:24:53 · 8 answers · asked by David R 2 in Friends

The person sitting next to me is suppose to be a "good" friend of mine. Whenever she gets around my other friends or her boyfriend all she wants to do is hurt me, and embarrass me. What is going on?

2007-03-19 02:24:07 · 20 answers · asked by Chanello 1 in Friends

I met this guy that lives thirty minutes away from me a couple of months ago......and we hung out a few times. well we ended up kissing, and then when i saw him the next day he was kinda acting weird. he called me a few times since then and we've emailed each other a couple times, but now he has a girlfriend. I don't know if he still likes me or what is going on? I am so confused. HELP!!!

2007-03-19 02:23:58 · 18 answers · asked by milk_and_oreo_4life 1 in Singles & Dating

he is not sure if he can fall in love with me but he will try.
Is this good or bad? I am a bit cautious now we have been together for 6 mo. I can fall in love with him, but i cant tell him that. i dont want to scare him. he is a great guy he is there for me and very supportive. from his actions i can sense that he really care but the uncertianty if he can fall in love with me kinda sacres me.

2007-03-19 02:22:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the point of driving someone away with the negativity why threaten to leave because someone is not good enough, then stay just to keep them on pins and needles waiting for it to happen. being miserable in a relationship where there is onesided love. obviously it's onesided he does'nt seem to think my crying is an indication of anything other than being a whining sniffling bi***

2007-03-19 02:22:32 · 9 answers · asked by cmooredr2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been sort of kinda holding back, well i've been in this relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 months and i dont wanna get hurt again but i think im getting it badd again like sort of being obsessed and he's always stuck on my mind how can i overcome that?

2007-03-19 02:22:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 02:22:00 · 2 answers · asked by Mike's D One 2 in Friends

Navigation is finding your way towards an aimed point.
* Navigation isn't important to be at sea only, it can be on land or on human bodies between hills valleys & other parts & marks!

2007-03-19 02:21:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's nice to know the deepest reason for having a sixteen-year-old girlfriend, so that I can tell my friends back home what how they can get the most out of looking for an authentic relationship [a straight relationship].

2007-03-19 02:21:14 · 7 answers · asked by Dean 1 in Singles & Dating

i met my best friend's fiance's brother about a week ago and we get on really well. after we first met he was asking his brother and my friend for my number but they wouldn't give them it cos Lee (his brother) says that he's hurt every girl he's gone out with and that he's bound to cheat on me if we got together. His mum was saying all this too and told me not to give him my number. But I did anyway, I can take care of myself and i tend not to get too attached anyway. He's really sweet and funny and i like him a lot, but i'm worried tht Lee might be right. what should i do?

2007-03-19 02:21:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating