I have this guy in my class, we have that class every second day.. And I have developed feelings for him over the last 3/4 weeks.
We haven't actually talked, but I've had my friend who keeps a look out on him during our class to see his actions.
She's told me that he looks at me often, I've even caught him looking at me.
I'm extremly shy, but he seems quite outgoing, as what I've seen from the past few days.. Really funny, etc.
The problem is, I can't even gain the courage to talk to him casually. Too shy..
I need some adivce on;
'May he like me? ..Or am I getting into my head here?'
And
'Some tips to help me gain confidence for conversation, how to strike up convo and just other little bits'
He came and sat next to me today, but he was sitting in between me and his GOOD friend. And he spent rest of the lesson talking to his friend and I turned around and talked to my friends for the rest of the lesson.. ARGH!
Works out both ways. He's nervous too?
Help? Thanks
2007-03-19 02:34:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably hard to say if he likes you because you haven't actually talked. Try something that's sort of subtle, like saying you like his shirt. Break the tension of not talking to each other and see what happens. If he looks at you he's probably interested, or has at least noticed you. Maybe you can ask him about an assignment or something.
2007-03-19 02:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jennylind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and talk!
Ask him a question, compliment him on something he is wearing or anything. Don't you know how to flirt? Just be confident, Think funny, laugh, tell him a joke or anything!! and quit having your friend watch him, he is going to think she is interested in him not you and maybe will hit on her.
Watch him yourself and maybe he will notice you doing this and come to you and ask why. If he does don't deny watching him tell him because you can't keep your eyes off him cause he is so cute or whatever it is that attracts you to him. He might blush but at least this will break the ice so to speak.. if he is nervous too, he will be glad you made the first move.
Now find your confidence and go start up a conversation with the boy!!!
2007-03-19 02:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by CAT LADY LOO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things never turn that good, right? First, you got to make sure is he look at you. There is still lot of people around you and why you are so sure he is looking at you. You say he is quite outgoing so that mean he always talk to other people. See who he is talking to, especially boy. Why? If you e-mail me and i'll tell you the rest. It is THE SCERET!!!!!
2007-03-19 02:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
er...i also encountered such things before...
i am also still a student...
i just keep trying to think that 'hey...wake up...no one will like you...he may already have a girlfriend...or it is just your mind getting too crazy over him...concentrate on my studies is the best solution...'
that is what i did...but it may not be the best way to do things...
do concider...
2007-03-19 02:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and say you think he's cute and then let him grow the courage to go up to you
2007-03-19 02:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by king of spain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋