Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

i have a bit of a problem with jealousy. it doesn't occur often but when it does i don't think i handle it properly. for example, if anyone read my post from yesterday would see that i overreacted to something quite small. instead of talking it through with my g/f i get a bit narky, nothing terrible just a bit prickly. so firstly, how can i handle these feelings of jealousy inside and how can i then react in a better way?

2007-03-19 03:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by colejoe79 2 in Singles & Dating

I start txting a pretty paramedics, i dont know how to chat her up and make her laugh . any nice flirting ideas.

2007-03-19 03:07:50 · 8 answers · asked by alwan a 1 in Singles & Dating

On St. Patricks day I went in a limo with some of my family and we went around to different bars. Everyone got drunk and my cousin and I got into a huge fight. She said the most horrible hurtful things to me. No one stopped her and she just continued. Then out of nowhere she jumped at me and started hitting me and pulling my hair. I couldn't really fight back because I was sitting and she was standing. I don't ever want to speak to her again but I want her to know that she is never allowed to be in my life again. I'm very depressed about this and I don't know what to do. Someone please help me.

2007-03-19 03:07:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please if anyone can answer my question, Please Do!

2007-03-19 03:05:47 · 16 answers · asked by 9 tails 1 in Family

This past weekend my boyfriend's ex text him asking if he was okay because she had a bad dream about him. I called her back and told her to stop texting him. She said that they had slept together in November while I was with him. He swears that they didn't sleep together. He has done the same thing with another ex-girlfriend and he told me about it. Should I believe the ex-girlfriend or my boyfriend? Based on his track record it's definitely possible that he cheated. But then again everyone has a past and I can't keep thinking about what he did to other girls. AND she's his ex-girlfriend and could be lying to cause problems. Any advice?

2007-03-19 03:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

n he is trying to black mailing me now wt shud i do now?

2007-03-19 03:04:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please if any ane can answer my question, Please Do!

2007-03-19 03:04:01 · 6 answers · asked by 9 tails 1 in Family

are you using yahoo instant messenger

2007-03-19 03:03:59 · 17 answers · asked by gaf 3 in Friends

i was back frm my tuitions and came up 2 my room. i took my nighty and got raedy 2 change.my room window was open.i didn't noticed that. i removed my t shirt and unhooked my bra.lights were still on & window was still open.also further removed my pant,,, after changing my snitary pad i wore my nighty and after whole activity was over, i noticed about d open window.next building is very close 2 my building.i m totally depressed how 2 overcome my depression.i m feeling ashamed.very sad no interest rest in other work..,>>>.alwys that incident comes before my eyes. i m totally depressed.please help >>>>share ur any similar incident

2007-03-19 03:02:59 · 27 answers · asked by samsd 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in a room with my girlfriend, and there are 3 other people with bedrooms in the apartment. We all pay pretty cheap rent for New York, but everyone had agreed we wouldn't sign the lease for another year. It's been 2 years.

Then yesterday, one of them let it slip that they were planning to re-sign the lease, and his girlfriend was moving in and they were going to take the room I now live in with my GF, and they were going to just let us move out. We were about to buy the paint to -repaint for the landlord.

They claim that they thought we were moving out, but that was only when we thought EVERYONE was moving. It's a huge slap in the face, and I'm very offended that they'd make decisions regarding OUR apartment without cunsulting us or metioning it.

Was I stabbed in the back?

2007-03-19 03:02:51 · 5 answers · asked by Year of the Monkey 5 in Friends

Do you first make friends and then fall in love? Or do you first fall in love and then break up but still remain friends forever? In either way, you choose which comes first: LOVE or FRIENDSHIP? Best answer for best explanation. : )

2007-03-19 03:02:41 · 9 answers · asked by @n0NyM0u$ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 19 and my friend is that same age we've known eachother 8 years He is havin problems with his girlfriend and he always texts me at really random times like 3am or 7am in the morning saying he can't put up with her anymore...my boyfriend is getting annoyed as he thinks somethings going on as he is texting at really weird times I've told my friend to stop bugging me with his problems he stops for a while then he starts txting again l..last nite at 4am i got a text saying "Oh she just went to sleep she didn't even bother doing anything with me...what are you up to?" my boyfriend went mad! now we're having problems, too be honest i would pick my boyfriend over my friend i don't no if i should just tell him to leave me alone for good i can't bear the thought if i lose my boyfriend over this!

2007-03-19 03:02:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you save him from all of the ugly things in this world?

2007-03-19 03:02:11 · 4 answers · asked by bealicious 1 in Friends

how has is it taken its toll on you and your own family or how did it make you be the opisite of what your family was compared to your own family... I no I do not live in the past but memories at times haunt you.... I believe you do the best with the cards that were dealt you and you learn and move on...

2007-03-19 03:02:06 · 13 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you date someone 8 years younger than you? How do men feel about seriously dating a woman 8 years older?

Is Age just a number?

2007-03-19 03:01:30 · 27 answers · asked by moneequaah 1 in Singles & Dating

i took part in some volunteery work and i left my contacts down together with a photo of myself.then there's this guy who added me on messenger and we chatted for hours online yesterday.it was a miracle because we seemed to have soooo much in common!!both of us like the same things and dislike the same things. i just couldn't believe it.i've not seen him before but i guess he saw my pic.he said that breaking up with my ex bf was a blessing in disguise cause i've gotten to know someone better(i.e him)i've got this special feeling towards him and i can't believe it.i've never met someone who shares soo many things in common with me!!what should i do??

2007-03-19 03:01:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's like every guy that is interested in me has another gf or wife and it just sickens me. But at work there was this one guy that caught my eye. He was funny and sweet, one of those guys you no is a little shy but can cover it up with his cute smile. And yes he has a gf, but u see he is lives on another caribbean island and that's where she is, this guy is only working here for a few years. So of course he tells me he's in this dedicated relationship with a girl back home but at the same time he tells me that he likes me a lot, mainly because of my personality. So I start to realise he only makes and effort to see me if s** is involved but even then he is still sweet to me we talk about our past and I even ask him stuff about his gf. But when I try to take him out he doesnt have time. So we get in this argument and he tells me that"this is what i didnt want to happen, it seems you are falling to deep in this thing".

2007-03-19 03:01:19 · 2 answers · asked by *~Nikki~* 2 in Singles & Dating

Every so often, members of the youth ministry host a gathering for the youth at their home. I attend a baptist church, and it's now my turn to host the youth. Im trying to figure out some activities to do with them. I dont want to make it all fun and games. I also dont want to force GOD on them. I just want them to leave feeling like they learned something useful, and they also had fun. The kids are high school and middle school students

2007-03-19 03:01:02 · 8 answers · asked by joquai1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it legal?

2007-03-19 03:00:54 · 23 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and this guy is 21. This guy and I have been going out on dates for the past few weeks or so. Everything is really great and he is incredibly nice and very much a gentleman. We are about ready to make it official that we are together as a couple. But a couple things have been bothering me about actually getting into a relationship with him: He is Catholic (which isn't an issue, but I am Presbyterian and our views will differ, especially in the long run), I like the boy, but I am also a little bit stuck on my former high school crush from a few years back--really trying to get over him, and finally he doesn't have a car (he can drive any everything, yet we just live in the dorms at college so he really doesn't need one too much, but I would kind of like not to drive all the time)...lastly, he is a little clingy..
These probably seem like minimal issues, but these could eventually affect our relationship. I don't know, he is so nice and caring, I just don't know what to do!

2007-03-19 02:57:50 · 12 answers · asked by Camelot 2 in Singles & Dating

He got arrested for smuggling small arms

2007-03-19 02:57:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 02:56:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Whats yours is yours and what ours is yours too.....

Would that be a fair description....?..."he says with a smile"

2007-03-19 02:55:59 · 37 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

I added this girl to my list of contacts to chat , we chatted and stuff she stays in my city and studies next to my college etc .She said i have a nice name , but i did not tell her that she has a nice name. Then she asks me for a pic trade and i told her i dont have any latest pics of me so i sent her a pic of me and a group pic . Not that i look like a monster ...but the next minute after accepting the group pic and declining the other she appears offline to me . What does this mean ? What to do ?

I dont know her well just chatted with her for the first time.

2007-03-19 02:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If so, what did you both think about that?

2007-03-19 02:53:58 · 6 answers · asked by David R 2 in Singles & Dating

I meet this really nice guy about 5 months ago and we were getting along great. We teased each other and always acted playfully and I thought of him as a really good friend but one day me & my friend were walking and she started to talk about me & him & how we always played around and she asked me if I liked him. I said no but then as I thought about it I realized that I liked him as more than a friend. The next day I was planning on telling him but my other friend told me that she liked him (she didn't know that I liked him).I didn’t tell her that I was planning on telling him that I liked him. Then I though about it and decided not to tell him b/c if he did like me and my friend found out then she'd be mad at me. A couple months after that my other friend & I had a fight & she told him that I liked him and he said he didn't like me. That was about three months ago & we haven't talked since & I miss him a lot An I think I’m in love with him. What should I do???? Should I talk 2 him???????

2007-03-19 02:53:47 · 5 answers · asked by smilelymango 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I just had a baby in December. I stopped working when I was 6 months along since my husband and I agreed long before we got pregnant that we wouldn't put our child in daycare. Also, I waitressed and it was just too much to handle. Anyway, money has been a big issue with us lately(who isnt it a big issue with) since he doesnt make a lot of money. We are always discussing him asking for a raise, getting a new job or taking on a second job since what he makes now just isnt cutting it. We live with his parents and still have nothing. Dont get me wrong, we're not starving and the baby has what she needs, but we have none of the little extras. Well I come to find out that right around the time our daughter was born he did get raise and just never told me. It wasnt anything significant, only $1, but I feel that with all the money talk he should have mentioned it long ago. How would you feel about this? I wonder what else he could keeping from me

2007-03-19 02:53:31 · 15 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what happened? what was the impact on you? how did you adapt? was it the way you thought it would be?

2007-03-19 02:53:08 · 7 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to my friend and we got into the conversation about ligh skin and dark skin. He was saying how dark skin is your new light skin and I said not in my book because I am nore attracted to light skin guys. Then he asked me what if all light skin guys break my heart then what am I going to do? I tried to explain to him that I am more attracted to light skin guys then dark skin. I have dated a dark skin guy but it was because his personality was good which made me love him. But other than that the dark skin guy would have to be real fine for me to consider dating him. If I meet a light skin guy that personality I didnt like I wouldnt let it go any further but he didnt understand me he thought I said I would give any light skin guy a chance just because he is light skin. Then he said I was rascist and I dont like my own race( I am brown skin). I am not rascist it is just my preference to like light skin guys. Did I sound shallow or something? I dont think I still made my point.

2007-03-19 02:52:53 · 11 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do or tell him, that way he knows and understands this is the work that I do.

2007-03-19 02:51:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating