On St. Patricks day I went in a limo with some of my family and we went around to different bars. Everyone got drunk and my cousin and I got into a huge fight. She said the most horrible hurtful things to me. No one stopped her and she just continued. Then out of nowhere she jumped at me and started hitting me and pulling my hair. I couldn't really fight back because I was sitting and she was standing. I don't ever want to speak to her again but I want her to know that she is never allowed to be in my life again. I'm very depressed about this and I don't know what to do. Someone please help me.
2007-03-19 03:07:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is what can happen when everyone is drinking. Good judgment goes out the window as people consume alcohol. I would think that's the first lesson you need to learn in all this. Drink in moderation only. Second don't be with this cousin if she's drunk.
Not having details about what she said and whether it was true I can only advise you to think about it. If there was any truth in what she said you may want to work on that. If not you may want to know why she thought it was true. Either way it's up to you what kind of relationship you have with your cousin. But I think if you just never see her again she'll eventually get the picture that you are out of her life without you ever having to tell her.
2007-03-19 07:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Critter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin has a few issues. She needs some anger management, and possibly should not drink ever again. She behaved in a very abusive way. You are right not to want to be in her space ever again. She could have really hurt you. I would discuss this with other family members. She definately needs help. Your cousin seems to feel threatened by you, mabe jealously. Whatever it is, it is her problem not yours. Stay away from her.
2007-03-19 10:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's there to be depressed about? You had an issue to deal with, you were present so hold some of that to your personal responsibility and you found a solution....however, engraved in stone that may be. At this point a lesson is learned and repair can take place in the future when others begin to own their behavior and find solutions as well...such as apologizing and finding other ways to have fun.
2007-03-19 10:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake was to go around to so many bars. What do you expect when you plan to get drunk? People tend to misbehave when they start drinking. You need to check up on your own behavior to see how you may have contributed to this. Speak to your cousin and try to mend fences. You're probably not as innocent as you think.
2007-03-19 10:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by bombastic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of us do things completely out of character when we are drunk. Just give this time and you'll be able to forgive and forget.
2007-03-19 10:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
can't belive your family would let the ***** do this. She should be happy I wasn't there I would have been all over her *** like white on rice and she wouldn't have been standing for long.
2007-03-19 10:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋