I'm 19 and my friend is that same age we've known eachother 8 years He is havin problems with his girlfriend and he always texts me at really random times like 3am or 7am in the morning saying he can't put up with her anymore...my boyfriend is getting annoyed as he thinks somethings going on as he is texting at really weird times I've told my friend to stop bugging me with his problems he stops for a while then he starts txting again l..last nite at 4am i got a text saying "Oh she just went to sleep she didn't even bother doing anything with me...what are you up to?" my boyfriend went mad! now we're having problems, too be honest i would pick my boyfriend over my friend i don't no if i should just tell him to leave me alone for good i can't bear the thought if i lose my boyfriend over this!
2007-03-19 03:02:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Does your Bf know him, if so ask him to have a(And I mean a non-violent) word in his ear!
2007-03-19 03:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's a really simple solution - turn off your phone at night. I do this. That way you won't get any texts waking you in the middle of the night.
As for your friend, well, maybe he hasn't got anyone else to talk to. If you really are his friend then you shouldn't tell him to stop bothering you. How would you feel if you had problems and the one person you thought you could rely on to help share the burden turned on you and told you to stop "bugging" them? It's not nice.
Having said that, perhaps he's texting you because he actually likes you as more than a friend and wants your attention all the time. You could always ask him why he texts you all the time about little problems. Make sure he knows you're there for him for any big problems, but his relationship with his girlfriend should be private and it's not good for their relationship to keep dragging you into it.
2007-03-19 03:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by lollysarah 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is simple. your friend needs your help and you have given it probably more than once my advise to you now is 1. to say to him dump her or put up with it and stop bugging me with this i cant be bothered any more. or 2. you could try and explain to him that because of his problems it is causing similar ones for you so stop all this texting..3 get new Sim card for your phone but don't give him the number. good luck in your decision
2007-03-19 03:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u even answering or reading his texts? Send him 1 txt saying u understand how he feels cos you can't put up with him anymore either, ie being bombarded with his calls and messages and ur just gonna not answer & delete them in future. Switch your phone off at night and delete any text you get from him.
You could also get your boyfriend to send him a text telling him to leave you alone otherwise you'll end your friendship with him altogether.
2007-03-19 03:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by nephtine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take out your sim card at night or SIMPLY switch your phone off - no probs. Then when you next see this 'boy' tell him to leave you alone and stop sending texts at strange times or you will not see him ever again or help/advise him again!
Personally I think you should tell him to take a hike - he is taking the pee out of your friendship!
2007-03-19 03:08:03 · answer #5 · answered by jamand 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you would rather have your boyfriend be happy with your relationship you should tell the friend that he needs to back off, but you need to think about if you would need him as a friend if your boyfriend ditched you or you guys broke up.
2007-03-19 04:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by sillygirlie22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you not switch your mobile off at night and when you are with your boyfriend?
I am not surprised your boyfriend is suspicious.
I think you will have to be blunt and tell him to quit calling or else you will have to break friends for good.
2007-03-19 03:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell at your friend that he can't go away with tihs texts... you can tell him that you and your boyfriend are going crazy for his problems...
he have to understand also you and your problems!!!
2007-03-19 04:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by scatto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would ditch your friend of what 11 years for your bf who is to insecure about him self wow now think about that! and your going to ditch him when he seems to need a friend the most!!! Your selfish big time (LOSER)
2007-03-19 03:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by 1FS4 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it's important change the number on your phone.
2007-03-19 03:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara Doll to you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋