This past weekend my boyfriend's ex text him asking if he was okay because she had a bad dream about him. I called her back and told her to stop texting him. She said that they had slept together in November while I was with him. He swears that they didn't sleep together. He has done the same thing with another ex-girlfriend and he told me about it. Should I believe the ex-girlfriend or my boyfriend? Based on his track record it's definitely possible that he cheated. But then again everyone has a past and I can't keep thinking about what he did to other girls. AND she's his ex-girlfriend and could be lying to cause problems. Any advice?
2007-03-19 03:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would she want to make problems between you? I think that she is doing what she wished someone did for her. If you think that the stories dont match up then arrange a meeting for your b/f and ex to be present and smooth it over. If he cheated in the past with you then nothing is stoppng him frm doing it again. Dont you think you deserve a whole man who isnt afraid to be a man instead of the excuse of a man youre with?
2007-03-19 03:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 03:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on other girls why wouldn't he cheat on you? Its not the girls who make him cheat its his own choice. I'd say if he's done it b4 he probably did it, but chances are he isnt ever going to admit it to you if he did. The problem now is this....deep down in your heart do you believe him or do you believe the ex?? If you believe him stay, if you believe her leave.
2007-03-19 03:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, it was never your responsibility to call the ex back and say anything. you shouldn't have done that. it is your so-called boyfriends decision on who is in his life or not. if he allows her to be in his life, what does that tell you...whether they slept together or not. did you read what you wrote up there?....read it again....you will know what to do....if you don't have trust between the two of you, you are both wasting your time...!
2007-03-19 03:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by in2one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know i had a similar thing happened to me and it did ended up that he did sleep with her and he kept on swearing that he never did when i actually found prove that he did. I say you should leave him because that is never going to go away. Trust me i going to make everything worst.
2007-03-19 03:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his word for it unless he gives you reason to think otherwise. People make mistakes and sometimes we have to weigh the pro/cons of the relationship. Ask him to be honest and upfront about the situations being calm and rational might help him open up. Good luck!
2007-03-19 03:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋