Why me who is always listening to people's problems?

Question

I have so many friends and they're always having some problem in life. My problem is that they come and tell me their problems, but they don't really consider if I'm not in the mood,or I'm having trouble... And I see their problems as mine and while trying to solve, I feel that I'm putting so much effort I'm tired. But I don't know what can I do to achieve this situation..

Answer 1

I say you need to be grateful you have friends and you need to be thankful that they feel as though you are someone they can confide in. Its a good thing listening to someone Else's problem because it makes your own problem see even smaller.

Answer 2

Tell them that your office hours are .... through .... and express yourself when your in a bad mood and tell them to come back latter when the doctor is in a better mood :). Man up and stand up for yourself against those buddies who value your opinion so much :). Remember you make their problams your problams ... you don't have to do that ... you chose to.

Answer 3

You appear to be a nice person and people take you for a ride. try to resolve other problems but in doing that don't create problems for yourself

Answer 4

if i am in your shoes, i will be honored. it simply proves that
a lot of friends trust you. you should continue to listen and give advises to their problems. you have too much to learn
from them.