He is 56, he told me he kept counting the number of women he slept with, and he had about 30 long or short term relationships, and many casual relationships and one night stands. the total number is 326. Is it a large number? As Im asian and I only slept with him, Im troubled by this. Also he seems like a honest man and he didnt cheat on me, but his number makes me feel very unsecure. Im 26 and have been with him for 2 years. Is he a bad man?
2007-03-19 03:10:46 · 17 answers · asked by jing j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, 326 women is a big number. He has had sex with 8 women per year giving that if he started having sex at the age of 16 years old. My guess he has cheated on his previous girlfriends based on sheer number of women, and I would not be too sure he is being true to you. Also, I would check to see if you have been exposed to an Sexually Transmitted Disease. With his past, this is a good possibility.
Your final question ask if he is a bad man? If he hasn't cheated on you, is telling you the truth, and if he is treating you well, my answer would be he isn't a bad man. I wouldn't say he was a good man based on his sexual past.
2007-03-19 03:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It not how many people he slept with. It what you feel in your heart toward this individual. You should let him know how you feel about the situation, and see if he willing to commit to you. If you get a non commital reply, I would start to looking somewhere else. It is hard for a leopard to change it spots, as the saying goes and at 56 it not likely to happen, but you never know. He only a bad man, if he treats you bad. He sounds the type that does not commit to long term relationships. Yet at 56 he been with you for two years, which is most likely a record for him. If I were you, in a year I would start looking to firm up your relationship with a engagement, if you manage to forgive him for his large number of women he slept with.
2007-03-19 05:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by wellofworlds02 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you with a 56 year old? Have you checked if he has some kind of desiese? 326 women and not one symptom would be amazing. Your young you should leave him...no matter how long you've been with him do you actually think that he will be with you when you're 40 and needing help-no! he will be dead. Anyway my point is no matter how old you are 326 is a BIG number...Hundreds of women..hundreds!!! You should really think about your health and future : )
2007-03-19 03:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by Answer#1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that would bother me here is that fact that he's 30 years old than you! That right there is a certain ick factor (he's old enough to have children older than you...and with the number he claims he just may).
If that right there doesn't turn you off, that honestly, the number itself shouldn't worry you...but what you should do is insist on him having an HIV test as well as be tested for all the various STDs out there these days. Do not have sex with him he does and makes sure that when you finally do wraps it a few times.
2007-03-19 03:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a large number at all. Also, as long as he used condoms, then it's no big deal. Sleeping with 8 women a year isn't that much. Normal people sleep with more than that all the time, at least he's being honest with you.
2007-03-19 13:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, 326 is a very large number! Only you can speak for his character... the number alone doesn't neccessarily make him a bad man. What concerns me is that he is at a very high risk for STD's.
2007-03-19 03:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kynthia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 01:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad man... probably not
loose morals...yup..I'd give him that one
but it sounds like alot of people to sleep with.. so ask yourself this question...
Is he great in bed? with all the practice he should be...
Because if he isn't... I would think he is lying just to sound important and maybe he thinks it is sexy to tell you how many other women he was with...
by the way... how come he hasn't married you yet? usually with such an age difference.. they marry the young ones right away
2007-03-19 03:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How sad is he, that he counted them. I think he was proberly a virgin when you got together but didnt want to admit it. Dont sweat it honey, just tell him you slept with 327. That should shut him up. ( also as your only 26 why not trade him in for a younger model)
2007-03-19 03:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's either lying or must be an ex porn star or something. You cant judge him on ho many people he has slept with, as long as he is honest and faithful to you. Thas all that matters.
2007-03-19 03:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋