Recently I've been feeling down. I just want to stay in bed all the time. Nothing cheers me up. Guys ask me out to go to the cinema, but i just don't want to... :( I want love, but people around me just can't give it to me... Or can't show me their appreciation of me the way I want them to... What should I do?..
2007-03-19 03:14:47 · 14 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I am a Christian, secondly, I am socially active...
2007-03-19 03:27:21 · update #1
I feel like that too. Just try not to feel like a victim, then you won't behave like one. Give your ego a boost. Go on holiday. Give yourself a break from the norm. Limit your expectations.
2007-03-19 03:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry girl you feel like that, it seems that you are depressed, being in bed will not help, and stop expecting so much from people, i know how you feel, i go through it everyday. You have to keep going, get out a bit more, might cheer up, or go to the gym, you need to get out of this ruck. The more you will look for something out there you won't find it, just relax and will happen. I find sometimes that people are stubborn in expressing their appreciation, so you know what i do i don't let it bother me, sometime their actions speak louder that words. Get up and do something, smile and be happy, moping around will not help, if guys ask you out go for it, it might make you feel alot better, if you don't want to go to the pictures, then suggest to your friends what you want to do, I have learnt that sometimes, i know we do alot for others and they don't show appreciation, but i do it cause i want to, and i don't expect anything back, that what makes you a strong person and a good person, and i am sure you are that person. So do what you want to do, don't let things like that bother you. Be happy
2007-03-19 03:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are depressed so go and see the GP for some advice. It will pass but you may need help to get over it. Lots of people suffer from depression at some point or another so you wont be the first or the last!
2007-03-24 11:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feeling down, not having the desire to get out of bed and frustration with your perception of others in relation to you are all commonly reported by people who are suffering from depression. Talk to your GP about what you are feeling.
2007-03-19 03:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nix 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't allow anybody to come anywhere near you, love can find no way to get to you! As to how you want to be loved, you need to first recognise love. People show their love in different ways.
2007-03-24 01:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it cant be that serious if you are saying you are attractive..its just a phase you are going through..we all get them..you will be fine soon..just be alone for a while.
2007-03-25 08:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels like this sometimes,
Don't feel bad about yourself, your only taking a temporary step back from things.
guys will ask again, You will be loved!
Take care.
2007-03-19 03:28:23 · answer #7 · answered by nuk_su_kow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get up and start going out. Keep busy and be as happy as possible. To get love you need to be approachable and to be loving yourself. Are you?
2007-03-19 03:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My Ex was like you....Antisocial "and I don't mean that nastily" but it wreaked us....
You should make a conscious effort to go out more...go to the cinema.... and have fun....
Good luck.... lazy girl...
2007-03-19 03:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
take it easy and it will come to you every body is different in there on way give them a chance
2007-03-19 03:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by STEVEN L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋