This is from my last posting. I dont know how some people can say I was rascist when I clearly said I dated a dark skin guy. I said I am brown skin because I am not dark nor am I light ( I am in between). I have seen some attractive dark skin guys but never went out with them because they are players. I am not rascist it is just a prefernce. Just as some commented on people liking blondes or brunettes, and etc. I didnt say I wouldnt date a dark skin guy all I said was I am more attracted to light skin guys. I have been since I was in day care. S*** I was talking to a light skin well spanish guy once but didnt go any further because his personality was not good. So nothing influenced me it is just my preference. Even my mother noticed that I liked light skin guys when I was in the Public School, the 2nd grade. I like the singer USHER- He is fine as hell. AM I still rascist? So nothing influenced me. It is just my prefernce. PLease if you have nothing nice to say dont bother answer
2007-03-19 03:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I don't think it's racist...
I prefer guys with dark hair, does that make me shallow?! I don't think so! it's your taste in men, and nobody can make you change your mind.
2007-03-19 03:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your race is but stating your preference is not being racist. I think everyone has a preference, rather they prefer light, dark, latino, african american, or caucasian, tall, short, petite, full figure, blonde, brunette, short hair, or long hair its a preference. As bobby brown says its your perrogative!! I would say if you don't date a certain race for whatever reason then that is being racist but I prefer a tall dark skinned man although I have dated light skinned and brown skinned I prefer dark, but if there is an attraction to someone of any color I would give it a try, why not! I have never dated outside my race but doesn't mean I'm racist, wouldn't mind dating a Puerto Rican guy, oooooo so sexy but again no disrespet to anyone else but that is my preference!!!
2007-03-19 10:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by WOW! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its racist at all. I am semi dark too and I also prefer light skin, married a caucasion but the bottom line is tis.... I look in the mirror and I see my face all the time ... I wanna see a difference when I stare into my mans face, lighter skin etc, keeps me in awe and its not cos I am racist its just how I like it. Its like a preference in food etc, everyone has their way of doing things.
2007-03-19 10:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has their preference. Dont worry about what people think..you cant plese everyone. I like tall, strong men with light hair and dirty fingernails. Does that mean I'm predjudiced against short, skinny, dark haired men who get manicures? No..thats ridiculous. You like what you like and its good that you know what you want. Dont worry about those people. And by the way, everyone is predjudice against something. Look up the meaning of the word. A bunch of hippocrits is all they are. Good luck in your search for the perfect man. I found mine ;)
2007-03-19 10:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby Tuesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what people say. hunny i have a preference for dark skinned guys. i'm not really attracted to light skinned guys. but thats not racist. you never mentioned anything about race. people can like who ever they chose to. some people just like to pick at things and twist what people say.
2007-03-19 10:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you prefer light skinned guys, I like blue eyes on a guy, does that mean I'm prejudiced?
No of course not, you can't help who you are attracted to.
2007-03-19 10:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither shallow nor racist but that is only my opinion.
I prefer white Caucasion but I have nothing against other races. I think everyone is cool and wonderful
its your opinion your not stating that you dislike either or.
2007-03-19 10:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, no mess, no fuss. Don't worry about it. I am mixed race and am also brown skinned like you. People are always quick to jump to and play the "race" game. water under the bridge!
Just L.I.G. it. Let It Go.
2007-03-19 10:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mister Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant say you sound racist as you point out its an individual dating preference just like only wanting to date blondes, brunettes or redheads ----- dont worry what people think --- enjoy your life
2007-03-19 10:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what people think. Like who you want.
2007-03-19 10:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋