Family & Relationships - 19 March 2007

I'm 26 and very rarely approached by men. I have been told that I'm cute and dress well. I am intelligent and have a sense of humor. Also a big sports fan. Usually when I'm out with friends I am having a good time so its not like I am acting like a b****. The only reason I have a problem approaching them is I am shy unless I realize there is actually interest there. Then its not a problem. What is going on? It seems like whenever a guy is interested in me he is arrogant and thinks he is god's gift.

2007-03-19 04:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

So I have known this guy for a long time, I know his family as well. He suddenly asks me to hangout, and seems to be flirting with me. I'm not sure though! He would be such a great catch. I'm not sure if it's like a friendly thing or what but he's constantly saying things like you are cute, how come we never hangout, what are you doing tonight, etc. I am scared to go out with him b/c what if i'm crushing on him and he just thinks we are friends!! sheesh. I've never been this nervous b4 dating someone!

2007-03-19 04:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I 'swing both ways' and have been in love with a guy for 2 years now. He got a girlfriend about two months ago and I think she's really attractive. I don't want either of them to get hurt but at times it can be really difficult seeing them together. Any good advice please??

2007-03-19 04:20:28 · 9 answers · asked by deanfriedmanfan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a Girlfriend who's husband passed away about 10 years ago. She is 5'4" and probably 300+. Her breasts are at least a 40 DDD , and she has a cute little waist. She hasn't been on a date or asked out by a man since her husbands passing. She says men act like she is invisible. To me- she is the most intelligent woman I know, she is beautiful to me. Are men really this shallow? What do you men really think about an obese woman?

2007-03-19 04:20:14 · 31 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Singles & Dating

so my boyfriend and I were best friends through high school and started dating our senior year and now have been dating for a year. When is too soon to get married? should we move in together first?

2007-03-19 04:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by osty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is older than me and has already got 2 children , my family doesnt know that he has kids .i really want to have a child with him in the future but really dont want my family to find out that i have lied to them etc...what should i do.i really love him and we both want children.help....

2007-03-19 04:19:28 · 14 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this guy that i've resently been hanging out with.He's nice ,sweet and cute! but i found out that he has did alot of bad things and i'm not sure i should believe him or not when he says he's not doing them anymore.he hasn't lyed to me yet and i'm hoping this isnt the start.what would yall do?

2007-03-19 04:18:25 · 15 answers · asked by degrassidk 2 in Singles & Dating

My little cousin, age 13 will be a Junior Bridesmaid in my July 2007 wedding. All of the other bridesmaids and the Matron of Honor will have male escorts. I will also have a few flower girls w/o escorts. Does the Junior Bridesmaid require an escort? Would it seem odd if she didn't have one?

2007-03-19 04:18:19 · 8 answers · asked by soon2bmrs 2 in Weddings

a guy i used to work with. there is high energy between us, we like each other ALOT. we played around at work all the time, bought each other roses, balloons, the attraction was crazy & everybody @ work knew it. we were told by mgmt @ work to "cool it" (lol) - but we could never go the distance bcz either i was in a relationship or he was. we got new jobs & lost contact. we always ran into each other, both still interested but we were always involved with others. we run into each other again last year & got together. things were HOT. then he stood me up, didn't call for 4 days. that monday he sent an email saying he can't be involved with me right now bcz he has "too much going on" in his life. (which he did, he had another baby, family issues, etc.) it hurt & made me angry but i let it go. now he's sending emails again. wants to get with me. i'm hesitant bcz of before. should i give it a shot? this has been going on for years with me & this guy

2007-03-19 04:18:01 · 14 answers · asked by LaLa 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy begged 4 my # and never called

2007-03-19 04:17:35 · 13 answers · asked by 2 a'da da dorable' 4 u 2 in Singles & Dating

Ideas for party?
I am having a Sweet Sixteen Party just a small get together with my friends and boyfriend. What kind of music could we listen to

2007-03-19 04:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay, so....
a boy asked me to a concert, i said yes, he came to the door, and picked me up. but when we got into his truck, it turned out his sister was going too. so we get going, and his cell rings. he pulls into a parking lot, and gets out, his dad hops in, and the boy, takes passanger side. the four of us (me, the boy, his sister, and his dad) go to the concert. it is indoors, and we sit together. he offers to buy me a c-d, and then on the way home, buys me ice cream. when we get to my house, he walks me to the door, and says good night, and that he will see me later.


even though it was not one-on-one. from his point of veiw, was it Date? (we are 16 and 18)

2007-03-19 04:16:56 · 16 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing. My wife, who is 44, started a new job a few months ago that runs from 4am-8am. This puts her at home during the day when most people are working.

At this new job she became friends with a 59-year-old married guy who lives a few miles away. Before long they began getting together on a weekly basis. These get-togethers usually take place when I'm at work, but sometimes they are quite long and extend into the evening. We have also gone out as couples and had a nice time.

I really do trust that my wife is not doing anything inappropriate with this guy. I also realize that she is at home during the day without much human contact. I don't want to be the controlling husband and tell her to stop.

On the other hand, this guy has bought my wife several gifts, even though she's asked him not to, and has told her he is attracted to her. And sometimes I feel she devotes emotional energy to him that could be going to me.

Is there a problem? What should I do about it?

2007-03-19 04:16:49 · 31 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if so can i ad you to my contacts because im the needle in a haystack over here and i have no other punk friends in my school so if it is ok if i get some punk or anarchy friends out there i only got two right now that dont live near me. Lincoln Torreyson + Ben but he cut off his moahawk. so can i have some more punk friends,

2007-03-19 04:16:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-19 04:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by MootY 1 in Singles & Dating

when someone still lives with there parents?

2007-03-19 04:15:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So lately he's been waking me up at like 4a.m. wanting me to be with him... and Im tired. I have to get up at 7 a.m. And IF I dont get up with him.... he starts taking care of himself while Im still in bed. The whole bed shakes.... and it keeps me awake anyways. I love him, and I want to please him.... But why Cant he ever be in the mood when Im still awake??? What should I do?

2007-03-19 04:15:39 · 8 answers · asked by canneverhavethis111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it proves that the woman cares more about getting married than who she marries. A fancy wedding is the life goal of a lot of women. Being in love with a soul mate is less important to them.

2007-03-19 04:15:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-19 04:13:57 · 38 answers · asked by Kyle S 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner proposed to me on Valentine's Day which I am really proud of as I know how difficult it was for him to do. However he does not want to tell his family. Why is that? Is he ashamed of me?

2007-03-19 04:13:53 · 14 answers · asked by Pearl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a so called friend, so-called because she only calls me when she wants something.

She will 'one ring' my phone and expect me to call her back.. when I do... it is her doing all the talking, when I talk about myself or what is going on with me, she has to go.

She earns £20K a year, has a house and car, but dont have a computer, she is in a long distance relationship with someone and called me to read the email out to her over the phone, this was while I was getting ready for work.

The other day, she called me at work, and I got into trouble with the manager because the phone vibrated.

I have not responded to her texts or phone calls in over a week.

I dont want to change my number as it will cause problems with other mates and family that I have

Any advice?

2007-03-19 04:13:15 · 13 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Friends

I don't know what to do. Yesterday me and my boyfriend went out and got totally drunk for St. Patrick's Day. We were at a bar and I did something totally stupid. Me and my boyfriend were dancing and there was some guy behind my boyfriend. I don't know why I did this - I ran my hand through the guy's hair. My boyfriend saw me do this of course and was like "What the #$%@?" Worse, the guy's friends saw and my boyfriend feels like I made him look like a loser in front of all these people. I don't know why I did this stupid move to a guy that wasn't even cute. Besides, I love my boyfriend very much and I'm not interested in any one else. He is super mad at me and doesn't even want to talk to me. He also thinks this is how I behave when I go out with my friends and that I act flirty with other guys when he's not around (cuz I did do it right in front of him). What should I do? I can't stop thinking about this and I just feel terrible - I can't concentrate on work.

2007-03-19 04:12:34 · 18 answers · asked by Main 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-19 04:10:24 · 25 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Even if the woman could usually care less about the other guy.

2007-03-19 04:10:24 · 31 answers · asked by trendsetter 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

For the ladies that will admit size matters?
Is 7-8 a good size or do you really need more to satisfy you, also if you are with a man that is beyond 8 inches would you be less likely to get with a man that is smaller after you break up?

2007-03-19 04:10:17 · 11 answers · asked by Nasty Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

And he doesnt return your calls or answer your texts? Or even talk 2 you?

2007-03-19 04:10:09 · 13 answers · asked by Aislynn H 1 in Singles & Dating

Or do you think men get married because they feel like they have to?

2007-03-19 04:09:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad is having a horrible time dealing with me moving out. I dont know what to do. He is making me miserable, i am an adult now and i am more than ready to make this jump, but he just doesnt like that I am not married to my boyfriend yet. How did you deal with it?

2007-03-19 04:08:42 · 9 answers · asked by Soon to be Mrs. Welsh 4 in Family

My best friend has gone back to her x for the 4th time, she hasnt said anything to me b/c she knows how I feel about him. Anyway he's hurt her, cheated on her, used her for the booty call, has other baby momma drama, yet she went back again. And i just cant stand seeing this again and being the one that will pick-up the pieces once again. I just dont know what to do. Should I tell her I know about it again and tell her how I feel about it and she deserves much better then him, or do I mind my business and just be there once again when he hurts her, or do I just punch him in his head and warn him not to hurt her again? Quick backround, she's 22, I'm a 29 year old male and yes I have feelings for her, she knows, we're still best friends and that's the way we want it. See that's part of the problem I dont want her to think it's anything more then being concerned for her.

2007-03-19 04:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by ryper92 3 in Singles & Dating

I cant trust that he will be honest to me & not deal with other girls in ways that are disrespectful to me. Also, he cant trust that I wont snoop to find evidence of these things. After the last time I found proof, I just haven't been able to look at him the same & he just isnt the same guy to me anymore. He's really quick to say "I'm sorry. I was wrong lets just move past this." NO WAY! I'm not just going to accept a 1/2 ****d apology b/c if I hadnt found out, the same thing would just be going on right now & I'd have no clue about it. I agree that not respecting his privacy is wrong of me, but apparently my gut feeling is right, because the last time I looked thru his cell, I found texts that were inappropriate- & it's the last straw. I'm done with him & I can't see us working out if we both cant trust one another. I know 2 wrongs dont make a right, but am I justified to snoop if I keep finding proof of his dishonesty? I'd say he's giving me a reason to snoop. Either way, it's over.

2007-03-19 04:08:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating