I'm 26 and very rarely approached by men. I have been told that I'm cute and dress well. I am intelligent and have a sense of humor. Also a big sports fan. Usually when I'm out with friends I am having a good time so its not like I am acting like a b****. The only reason I have a problem approaching them is I am shy unless I realize there is actually interest there. Then its not a problem. What is going on? It seems like whenever a guy is interested in me he is arrogant and thinks he is god's gift.
2007-03-19 04:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be bothered by it - most guys are arrogant and do think they're god's gift. Don't worry, one day you'll find one of the 5% who isn't, I promise! If you're smart and decent looking you have nothing to worry about, just stop looking, Mr. Perfect will find you.
2007-03-19 04:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm shy too and I've come to deal with it. Once I get to know someone I open up alot. People think I'm stuck up cuz I don't talk much around new people but I'm not. I'm just shy and don't know what to talk about. I am now married but when we first met we were introduced by another friend. We became friends but I only went over to his place when my friend did. So I was really shy and then I got to know him better and got use to him, then we started flirting and well now we are happily married. Been together 6 years all together. If guys act arrogant around you, I'd say they aren't worth it cuz they are trying to act like something they're not. You will find someone that you will connect with and you wont be so shy around him. Good luck. PS----A guy doesn't always have to approach you and you don't have to approach them. Play this game where you just keep looking at a certain guy. Make him notice. Smile when he sees you looking at him. Stair back into his eyes. This is a good way to start something without even talking at first.
2007-03-19 11:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 26 is just an age. You haven't met that special person as yet. Hang in there! What's you hurry? Keep going out to social get outings and you will meet someone. I think the guys that you have met feel intimidated by you. This could be there problem not yours. Having a great personality is the key to success. Smile and be a nice person but not a door mate for those who like or need to use people for their own good. Stay clear of those guys who think there better than anyone, you will only end up getting hurt. Get out there and enjoy being single. Cocoa
2007-03-19 11:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you're just too good to be true and thus men are too intimidated by you, they feel you either have a boyfriend or would never give them a chance. The only ones hitting on you are the ones that hit on every girl. The best thing you could do is look to develop friendships with men that you like as people, the ones that seem alright, just not dating material(being smart, funny, and a sports fan, it wont be hard). If something comes of one of them, or through them, there you go. In my experiances, and with friends, online dating is not a good way to go, and setups, well, they might work, might not, thats the best I can do ya.
2007-03-19 11:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell ya.... I have alot of guy friends, so they told me this, and I'll pass it to you! They said that good looking girls arent approached as much because they are intimidating. Im a good looking girl... Done some modeling, had a great time in life, very outgoing and out spoken. Because of my outgoingness and my looks, I NEVER get hit on. If I get hit on, its by the drunk guys at clubs. They've been drinking a little TOO MUCH liquid courage it seems. Even after they hit on me tho, after finding out Im intelligent and not some dumb girl... they do one of two things. They will either take a chance and ask me out, or run off with their friends and hide. Its pathetic... Its great to be good looking and confident in life, but that usually makes you less approachable. Dont give up tho... AFTER YEARS of not getting hit on, I could literrally COUNT the times Id gotten hit on, on ONE hand... This amazing guy came into the place I worked, and asked me out several years ago. I agreed, and now we are pretty happily married. He said that he figured if he didnt ask me out, he would regret it. And he was smart enough to realize that regret is pretty hard to live with. Some "smart" guy will come along... It just might take some time. Good luck
2007-03-19 11:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, the right guy will come along. It's not about looks or how you dress, it's just you haven't met a good guy yet. And he will approach you, you don't have to approach men. If a guy is really into you he asks you out, not the other way around.
2007-03-19 11:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of nice people out there who are too shy to talk to others. If you like someone, you need to tell them. There are exceptions of course, like if you're married or they are, or if you work together. Go out on a limb next time you see a man you're attracted to and talk to him.
2007-03-19 11:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness can be cute to a point. But I mean I've met girls that were like STONY shy. You can't get a reaction out of them. Than I find out later they were DIEING for me to ask them out.
Guys can be intimidated too.
2007-03-19 11:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ya r having probs wit meeting guys than u let me tell ya im single and looking so give me a chat if ya wonna
kchs_berst_09 @yahoo.com
that's my name chat if ya wonna
2007-03-19 11:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by thedawg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋