He says we might get married in September. What do I need to do to give myself that extra edge !
2007-03-19 03:44:51 · 16 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A prenuptual agreement!
2007-03-19 03:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He already told you that you two might get married in September - why do you feel a need to try to "get him to marry you"?
You don't need to do anything. You obviously already have that "extra edge".
On another note, don't force it. If a man loves you enough, he will marry you no matter what and you won't have to "try" to get him to marry you.
2007-03-19 03:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by LaLa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait and do nothing. Anything you do now to try and guarantee that he'll marry you will have the opposite effect. You must understand that between now and then he's going to be under a lot of pressure and very scared. The best thing you can do is be as understanding and patient with him as possible.
2007-03-19 03:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, have some trust in him, if he wants to marry you he will, why in the world would you pressure your man to marry you?
You could just talk about marriage all the time, that works, eventually they get so annoyed they propse to shut you up.
Aside from that, there is nothing, he will do it when he is ready, if he already said he wants to, he loves you and wants to be with you, anything extra you do is not going to make him love you more.
I agree with the above, do *NAL, it worked for me, men say its very hard to leave a woman who does it. Its like the icing on the cake, like, she can cook and clean and she isnice, but she also takes it up the A**......
2007-03-19 03:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You at your question " that extra edge". What are you competeing with? Pushing people into a relationship is something that will harm you both in the long run. Equally do just make yourself available for him as and when he wants as that just means he it taking you for granted.
2007-03-19 03:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Might? o.k.~! I would tell him either you are or not, but anyways,you cant make someone marry you by giving yourself an extra"edge"~!Good Luck~!:) :)
2007-03-19 03:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have changed your mind,and that you think that y'all might need a little bit of time apart. if he is in love really in love with you he will marry you. and to be honest with you, just make sure he is not cheating on you. i am not trying to say that he is, just be sure.
2007-03-19 03:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by hoot h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your getting married in Sept you better start planning and get him off his butt
2007-03-19 03:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say you will not sleep with him until your honeymoon and stick to your guns..
tell him you might sleep with him when you are married...
its your body and if you want to keep giving him the kings treatment ...you might end up getting crowned in the end.
2007-03-19 03:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
hmmm it either is or it isnt, so if its not meant to be and if you have this problem now, then why carry it over into a marriage
2007-03-19 03:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by enochsangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋