Dont' they agree that babies are the most adorable things on the planet?Don't they want to know what does their babies look like?Don't they want kids to continue the family line?Don't they love their kids if they had ?
ps.Many guys told me they only want sex,not kids
2007-03-19 03:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Some men say they don't want kids and they change their minds....Most men want kids...
2007-03-19 03:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some men are after the sex only. If a baby comes from the union they run. They want the fun but not the responsibility. Babies are 18 years of commitment and spending. That is not what they had in mind when they offered to buy the drink or take you to dinner. They had 10 minutes of fun on their mind and that is all. That is why parents tell you not to sleep with your boyfriend no matter how much he says he loves and we say practice abstinence. You need to be in a long term relationship to consider children. They are not disposable commodities. They deserve every fair shot life has to offer.
2007-03-19 16:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by cytopia1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women only want sex and not the kids. Have you ever heard of birth control pills. It's not just men. Just because you are a woman who wants kids don't think that all women do. Plus there are plenty of men who want kids. People in general (men and women) just don't want to rush into anything. They want to know that they have the stable environment that they are looking for and they want to make sure that they have the right partner. Sure, it's fun to think about what your kid will look like but you have to consider that the kid may come out looking more like your partner. What if you didn't want a kid with a certain person but you had one and it ended up looking like that person? That would be a little strange.
You obviously havn't found the right guy yet. If you want kids then why don't you stop being with guys who don't. They aren't at that point in their lives and some of them may never be. You can't force the issue on anyone.
2007-03-19 10:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
A lot of men feel that way simple because (if they arent married) they dont want to settle down yet, or they think that kids will take away the adventure so to speak in their lives...Men are not women...they dont have the same emotions we do at the same times that we do....I believe however that with most men once they do have children they are happy and just awwed because they never knew they could love something that strongly...
2007-03-19 10:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most men want kids more than women do but don't want to take care of them as much as women do. Your husband is a different person than other men. If this happens, it might be because he is too involved at work and don't want to deal with having kids now. Why can't you be patient? If you wait, I am sure he will change his mind.
2007-03-19 10:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are men who want babies you are probably not asking the right ones. There comes a time and place in their lives where they want to start a family sometimes it's just a lot later then most women.
2007-03-19 10:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up
People have the right to live life as they choose. Provided they don't infringe on the rights of others to do the same.
If you want the "responsibility" of raising a child that is your
right....Not everyone want the same thing.
P.S. Babies are people......they are not always adorable
and they are not always pleasent to be around .....and they
grow up to be children with minds of their own just like you.
2007-03-19 11:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because children require more work that just having sex. most men will tell women that they want children simply it's because most women want children. but if men want children they are only thinking of the kodak moments and of being there to teach the kids how to throw, and taking them to the games. not the losing sleep, 2 am feedings, changing diapers round the clock...most men don't want to do the hard work that's involved in taking care of and raising children. that's why. if men say that they don't want children...then they don't.
2007-03-19 10:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by cfalways 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men only want the one thing... Sometimes people get lucky and find a guy who wants a family but thats very rare..
2007-03-19 10:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most men really dont know until they have one. My husband did not want any. We have a four year old and he would love to have more.
2007-03-19 12:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by emb06@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋