I really love this girl..we have been knowing each ither for three years..my heart pounds for her all the time..but she says its not possible because of family issues and nothing seems to be happening in life..Moreover she does not give me enough time because she is doing a MBA..Im 20 and she is 21..I love her from the bottom of my heart and I even proposed and she said no the reason being that she thinks its just not possible..Sometimes I fight so badly for time and sometimes I get very stressed for this..Sometimes I evn have a problem because even our physical relationship is on and off kinds..wat a mess im into..wat do u think can be done about my pathetic life..pls be honest..your opinions matter..really
2007-03-19 03:40:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a good look at yourself in the mirror! Do you really want someone who doesn't give you the time of day? She is only concerned about her schooling at this time and isn't thinking about what your feelings are. You've laid out your feelings and got know good feed back from her far as your relationship goes." You best be getting over yourself" and move on to that special person who will feel the same way about things as you do. Great relationships is a two way street and with out this you will only suffer from your hurt feelings. Love yourself and set some higher standards for you in life. Don't be foolish! Cocoa
2007-03-19 03:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girl thinks it is not possible for you both to have a future together, then what is her reason for staying in this relationship for three years already? So is she just stringing you along until someone that better suits her comes along? I feel you are not reading what she is telling you and this is leading you to feel confused and hurt. You either stay there and hope she will see a future with you, or accept the truth and move on. Right now you are letting her be indecisive because she can be, you let her. You must let her know that either she wants you or she doesn't. If she doesn't, then you wil have to accept this and completely leave her alone. As this is hard to do, it is the only thing you can do if you want to eventually get what you want out of your life. Otherwise, you will continue to waste your time with her. The decision can only be yours. Best of luck to you!.
2007-03-19 10:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you really love this girl and i am sorry to say this but she does not deserve you. You need to move on and get a girl that will love you just as much. You dont deserve this. Sweetie, i know it will be hard but it will be worth it later in your life, trust me i am sure you will find this girl.
2007-03-19 10:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey max i dont think you pathetic its just love doin its damage.personally i think you should let her go coz it seems she doesnt care as much as you do about your relationship or the relationship you could have.i know its easier said then done but its time to let go and move on.and if one day she realises what she lost and makes an effort to get you back and your feelings for her are still there then you go for it,but dont sit around letting her control you.
2007-03-19 10:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by sammy .fc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay:
1.) your life isn't pathetic.
2.) have you explained to her how she makes you feel? if not sit her down and sincerely discuss why she makes you feel the way you do around her.
3.) if she still doesn't feel the same way about you, its not meant to be. find someone else to love you uncontrollably.
2007-03-19 10:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by turtle_chic77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, there should be no burden too heavy, no wait too long, or task too great. If she feels like it isnt possible right now, wait for her. If you love her, let her go, if she loves you, she will come back.
2007-03-19 10:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that Is confusing..hmmm i think u just really need to give her a lot of time...maybe things will work out better later in time
2007-03-19 10:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by cutie wit a booty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok romeo, relax. date her. then go from there. she probably thinks your too obessesed. so just before you go all speedy gonzales and wanna get to the end, take it slow. it does take time to make wines true beauty
2007-03-19 10:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Homer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look elsewhere for love.
2007-03-19 10:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋