Im going so crazy and paranoid over this.?

Question

ok their is this boy i fancy he goes to my youth club, and we never tlk to each other but my mate said she spoke to him and that he said he was going to ask me out, now when i got there his mate said to me oh you know its never meant to be between you two and he said in front of the boy i fancy and then the boy started smiling and he turned a bit red, then his mate said why dont you just talk to him, his mate keeps on trying to get me to talk to him and he is bothering me about it and it is only that particular boy. also this boy i fancy is shy around i think and he knows i like him but he didnt tell me to my face his mate told me that we are never meant, to be do you think i should move on or do you think the boy i fancy, fancies me back. or what does his mate want and why does his mate keep on botherig me. by the way im to shy to speak to the boy i fancy so we just avoid each other. i dunno why his mate keeps on bringing it up randomly.

Answer 1

Maybe his friend is pushing the issue because he wants to get ball rolling for his friend. He probably is sick of hearing his friend talk about you and never do anything. If you are too shy to talk to him yourself then I think both of you would have moved on before either of you says something to the other. Maybe neither one of you is ready for the next step. If you were you would talk to him first.
Also maybe his friend likes you and it's the only excuse he has to talk to you. Think about that for a minute!

Answer 2

sounds like both of you are very shy and if you fancy this boy, just ask him to go grab a soda with you and sit and talk alone with out the other friends (mates) around. who knows you may become good friends..

Answer 3

be courageous ask him an open question such as one he has to answer like what subjects he like or about footballl to start the ball rolling