here is my problem i have been dating my bf for 4 yrs and 4 months now but I have been talking to this other guy for a little over a year now. See when my bf cheated on me and got another girl pregnant i went looking and found this really great guy and we have even been telling each other that we love each other and are planning to meet when he gets to come home from the army which is in 2 months. But my problem is that my bf doesn't want to be with the girl he got pregnant and he doesn't want to let me go either and i don't want to be with him but when i tell him that he beggs me to stay saying that he will never do that again and that he loves me etc. Well I know that once a cheater always a cheater but Now I'm confussed on what to do. I really like this guy and want to be with him but i can't get my bf to leave me alone. What do u think i should do? Should i just leave both of them alone or should i choose the guy who i really like?
2007-03-19 04:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see part of me is starting to trust my bf and love him all over again and the other part is wanting to be with the other guy. I don't know what to do.
2007-03-19 04:32:32 · update #1
I think that you should get to know the guy that you like a little better ... just to make sure that the same thing doesn't happen again. It really sucks throwing a relationship that long down the drain but you are right. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Stick with the other guy. Do whatever makes you happy hun. I hope it all works out. Good luck.
2007-03-19 04:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the boyfriend sounds like he will just cause you more problems in the long run. Go with someone that doesn't have baggage, like this other guy. Consider this that child will always be a part of his life as well as the other girl and who ever he is with it becomes part of their issue as well. Believe me you will be alot happier without him.
2007-03-19 11:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by ilisalec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have trust issues, and because of this you are subconciously sabatoging your potential relationship with this new guy, by being undecisive with your old boyfriend. I'm also seeing problems in your old boyfriend that, if you re-enter a relationship with him could lead to abuse. Your old boyfriend is a boy, he needs to grow up and be a man and take care of his kid and not worry about other girls. You need to be dateing a man, and the guy in the Army sounds like a man.
2007-03-19 11:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by Coyote81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should choose the guy you really like, i mean why would you bother to stay with someone that you dont like at all? Plus, if he really loves you, he will let you go of you.
2007-03-19 11:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your heart on this one. I made the mistake of following my head instead of my heart. Now my heart and soul still reside with my ex and I am stuck in a situation I can't dig my way out of! Please learn from my mistake.
2007-03-19 11:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should stay with the one you care the most about. Hope this helps!!!!
2007-03-19 11:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by bestsaxplaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sjould choose the guy that you really like.
2007-03-19 11:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about niether
2007-03-19 11:35:34 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up as soon as possible. If you don't feel it, you don't feel it.
2007-03-19 11:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋