difference of opinion?

Question

tell me wat u think abt the way my bf thinks

my friend told me tht der was this guy who wuz engaged n was talkin to his fiancee late at night n he fell asleep while on the phone wid her. she (lives in another state) cud actually hear him snoring n waited 4 a minute n then hung up... next morn she was MAD at her fiancee. the guy took leave from work n flew to where she lived n took her out 4 a movie n lunch jus to make up 4 fallin asleep.

Now i thought this was really sweet n told my bf this story. he instead said tht if he were in tht guys place he wud rethink getting married to tht girl who got mad 4 such a reason n he thought tht tht guy was really sweet to fall asleep talkin to his fiancee(as he might have been really tired) (i say if he was tht tired he cud have jus told her n slept instead of makin her feel unimportant or tht wat she was sayin was boring him. its kinda an insult to the girl)

wat do u think abt this? wats ur take abt the incident?

Answer 1

I had to hook in my "text message to English" translator to read this, but here's my take:

I can see why she got mad, but she overreacted. If my fiancee' fell asleep, I'd be annoyed, but it would't be the end of the world for us. He should have told his fiancee that he was very tired and ready to fall asleep, told her "I love you" and said goodbye for the evening.

Does he need to leave her because she might be too demanding? I don't think so. I think they need to communicate better. That is how I read their problem. He should not have had to fly to where she lived (I wouldn't have) to beg forgiveness. I could see instead talking to her first, apologizing, and making it up to her next time he sees her. I think he overreacted to her annoyance.

Answer 2

I think your boyfriend has a point. It's silly for her to be angry at her fiancee for falling asleep. He probably really wanted to stay awake and talk to her but at the same time he was tired and couldn't help falling asleep. For her to get mad was not very understanding and he went way above and beyond what he needed to do by flying over to take her to a movie and lunch. A simple "sorry" should've been enough and it's not like she should've been that angry in the first place because it could happen to anyone.

Answer 3

I would have to agree with your boyfriend on this one. The man simply fell asleep! There's nothing wrong with that. For her to get upset at such a silly thing, she is lucky to have a great man that would fly out to see her and do that b/c he knew she was upset. If you are tired, you are tired, end of story. No need to apologize for it...it's not like he fell asleep while making love...that would be a whole different story altogether...Remember, you and your partner will not always agree on things and that's okay. Opinions are simply opinions and you can't be graded on that. They are all correct!

Answer 4

I agree with your boyfriend. Your friend sounds to be very insensitive to her finance"s feelings. Instead of her feeling bad for him being so tired, she instead made him fly out to make it up to her. Make what up to her, for being tired? My, if this poor guy does not see her for what she is now, I can imagine what his future will be married to her. Relationships take love and caring of two people to each other, not just one for the other. It is a two way street. What would your friend do if her boyfriend got mad cause she fell asleep? Best she starts being more considerate to him, or one day he might find a girl who will appreciate him more and not give him so much trouble. I am not trying to be cruel, I like to help if I can, before someone makes a mistake and finds themself facing heartache.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

tell your BF to grow up. It does sound like an extreame act but it is his future wife and he loves her so he desided to go out of his way for her. Is that bad? it sounds like she was offended by the fact that he fell asleep instead of getting furious. wouldn't your get upset if you ignored him when he was talking to you? same thing hun. I think it was nice of him and his wife will be lucky to have found a good guy.

Answer 7

I agree with your guy. I dont think its that big of a deal, and honestly, he probably said how tired he was on the phone, and the girl kept wanting him to talk. If she needs that much attention, Id dump her too. Girls who are needy are annoying.

Answer 8

your bf is totally right. It was sweet of the guy to go and see his fiancee even though she was acting like a spoiled brat.

Answer 9

guys sometimes listen to insessant talking by women, if he fell asleep he couldn't help it, probably didn't want to interrupt her. She should have realized he was tired, whether it was from working or schooling hard, but even if it wasn't, it sounds like he tried to please her by talking with her on the phone and she didn't appreciate it. He tried to please her a second time indicating he loved her, and he put his job in jeopardy for her (the one he needed to keep for their possible marriage). Sure it was a nice thing, it was a one time thing, and if she continues with her attitude, sooner or later he will change his mind about her. Seems like they need conversation, and she needs to wise up.

Answer 10

She sounds very immature. The bf should be afraid.

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