My bf has cheated on me. He was with me for 2 years. We dated, had sex. He used to tell me that I am not beautiful. I am not fair, asked me do breast operation,asked me reduce weight, asked me change the colour of my skin.I reduced weight like 40 pounds.also I don't look bad. At the end when I asked for marriage as I was being pressurized by parents, he said I am not b'ful.But I found that he is talking to one more girl and trying there.When I asked he said no its nothing, just a friend.But when I asked again for marriage,he said no he will never marry me.Then what he was doing with me for 2 years?he said 'i don't know'.He is now talking to that girl, when I almost devastated with pain.Everyday is a hell for me,I am not able to take that someone just played and runaway.Shall I tell the other girl?what should I do?I still love him.But I dont want to marry either. He has behaved very badly with me.I spent a lot of money on psychic who says he is my soulmate and he would come to me. Help!
2007-03-19 04:23:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your psychic that you aren't going to give her any more of your money because she should have seen all of this coming. Forget about this guy. He does not love you and you have been very foolish. Look at all the things he demanded from you to get his love:
(1) Got sex from you
(2) Wanted you to get breast implants.
(3) Wanted you to change the color of your skin
(4) Wanted you to lose weight
(5) Tells you that you are not beautiful
(6) Refuses to marry you; told you point blank.
(7) Has behaved very badly
(8) He is seeing another girl
But you insist that you still love him. Get a grip on reality. Let go of this guy. There is someone very special out there for you, but until you put this worthless person aside and get yourself together, you won't attract him. You don't need a psychic to tell you that.
2007-03-19 04:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell the other girl if you want too. I'm not sure if that is going to help you, though. The best thing you can do is get on with your own life. Leave this guy for good and don't look back. This kind thing happens to men and women, unfortunately, all the time! Some people are just cruel and don't care about anyone, but themselves. Honestly, I feel the best option for you is to cut this guy loose, lick your wounds and move on. It may be tough, but it is for the best!
2007-03-19 04:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a right w****r! Get rid of him...he obviously doesnt love you for the person you are and doesnt appreciate the individual qualities that make you who you are. Its hard to let go when you love someone and they dont love you, but thats exactly the reason you shouldnt be with him, he doesnt love you and it sounds to me as though he's seeing you to 'fill the gap' until his Miss Perfect comes along! You deserve so much better and once you get rid of him are free to find someone who wont try and change you!
2007-03-19 04:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Trixychick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a psychic huh, why hasnt he/she played the lotto? Gone to the race track? Don't trust psychics, they are mere con artists. As for this guy, dump him, any guy that does that to girl isn't worth your time. Men don't change, these are his true colors, youre better off without him. Find the guy that likes you for who you are, inside and out, dont worry about it taking time, that's life, it's not always perfect but its the only one you got.
2007-03-19 04:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by Captain Chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and never look back!! He doesn't deserve you. He is using you and treating you like **** because he gets away with it. Leave him and stay single for at least a year. Focus your attention on s new hobby or interest. You will look back in 2 years and be amazed at how far you have come!!!
2007-03-19 04:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Amy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds loopy. go away him. He its for sure very insecure and controlling. And if the embarrassing photos hes threatening to launch have any nudity in them, then you definately can touch the police. noticeably if youre a minor. tell him to go away you on my own and if he does not then get a restraining order. tell him if he releases the photos then you definately will press expenses and its no longer complicated for police to music an ip handle and persist with it back to him. If he has mentioned any of this loopy stuff with the aid of textual content cloth mesage then you definately've stable evidence that he's risky. shield your self. harm up with him, get a restraining order and permit him comprehend that if he tries to break your existence by doing something unlawful you will no longer hesitate to press expenses.
2016-10-02 09:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, to many periods in inappropriate places, miss use of words, your question is a jumbled mess. Rewrite it using your very best grammar and maybe you will get some help.
2007-03-19 04:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by simsad31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him...I guy who wants to 'perfect you' is just looking for a sexy girl at his arm. He was playing around with you. Its hard for you, I know. But you can keep on being used, you deserve more than that. :) Good luck :(
2007-03-19 04:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be "in love" with someone who treats you so badly?
This guy is a total jerk!
Kick him to the curb and move on!
2007-03-19 04:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to love yourself more. end the relationship now even if you still love him. by now, you should be learning a lot for what he has already done to you. try to face life squarely and show him that you are one worthy individual. YOU CAN DO IT.
2007-03-19 04:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋