Ok, let me try to summarize my dilemma - there's this friend of mine, actually, she's one of my best friends, and I think that she's in love with me.
We've already discussed our relationship and I told her once I had mixed feelings about her, but things became clear once again, so I didn't approach her. She says it's a good thing, because that way she didn't have to say no to me.
However, a month after that conversation, she started to freak out on me, always trying to resume that conversation, trying to make me say I'm interested in her. She's a very beautiful woman, and she's used to have all the guys doing the work for her, and right now she's freaking out on me because I'm not responding (which I'm not sure I want to, btw). She's always criticizing me, tries to make jealous with my friends, when she's the one who's jealous of MY other girlfriends. She even has a boyfriend in another country and she says that he's the man of her life, unless someone surprises her.
2007-03-19 04:03:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's madly in love with you -- but don't let her force you to be anything more then what you want. Maybe go out and find another girl to date to show her your not interested if your not. But don't lead her on -- tell her what you think -- just say "at this point I'm looking for a relationship with you, so please stop bringing it up"
2007-03-19 04:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Okaydokay21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Most of the time when you are friends with the opposite sex you cannot try "dating" , it can wreck your whole friendship. If she is going totally crazy I would say talk to her and tell her straight forward that you are not interested in that way!! Don't lead her on thinking that she might have a chance !!
2007-03-19 04:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by sillygirlie22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and do yourself a huge favour! Beauty is only skin deep, so since you've told her how you feel, find that girl who you really have deep feelings for. What are you waiting for?You don't need this one trying to control your life. Cocoa
2007-03-19 04:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, shes just trying to get your attention. Second, tell her you are not interested. And third of all, how old are you? You just have to explaine that she already has a boyfriend and that you do also. Hope this Helps!
-Masha
2007-03-19 04:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by masha k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with her and ditch her. She needs the humility.
2007-03-19 04:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Pipe Grampa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont know, shes crazy other than that, i dont what else to say
2007-03-19 04:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's that time....time to get over yourself
2007-03-19 04:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK..
What's to think ?
What is your question ?
2007-03-19 04:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2007-03-19 04:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by kate j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋