I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back apologising. she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i called 5 days later at end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.
What the hell went on?
2007-03-19 03:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then why bother...Dont let this stress you, not worth your time or energy...
2007-03-19 04:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight, she said she was free the next day but instead you called her 5 days later? You should be the one saying sorry..anywho 2 ways at looking at this
You could forgive her because sometimes people are a little busy for calls
or
just call in the night time when she isn't busy and if she still doesn't pick up then she is just testing you on how much you care to talk to her but then mabey she would think your stalking her if you called alot
your choice on choosing
2007-03-19 11:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Answer#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothinng ever think that she may just be a really busy person?
Dude if you want in there do this, text her, and ask where she works and what time lunch is. Pick a day for you date. Send her flowres to her job in the morning. Card Reads: "Don't make plans for lunch, and don't work through it, I'll be by." and sign it.
Show up at her job at lunch with a small pic nic lunch, or pick her up for some quick take out. Either way, break-up her day which is stressful and you'll have worked a miracle.
2007-03-19 11:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really may have been busy so try her one more time If not then you will never know.. I'm a very busy women too and alot of times it really is that way.. We don't mean too but it happens ..
If she don't call you back this time drop it..
Good Luck
2007-03-19 10:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should put the ball in her court. Let her call you when she's not "busy" and her tough times are resolved. If you don't hear from her, then it's probably a good idea to move on.
2007-03-19 11:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she isn't interested in you. I don't think you did anything wrong, she might not be attracted to you etc. Ask the friends new wife to talk to her and see if she knows anything. Sounds like the girl has some drama issues... I would just let that one go.
2007-03-19 11:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have a steady boyfriend and they may not be getting along too well so she keeps trying to decide if she should go out with someone else or not but she can't let go of her old boyfriend?
2007-03-19 11:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her call you.. she's busy.. don't waste your time.. she has your number..
If she really wanted to talk to you... she will call.. trust me.
You are trying too hard.. and honestly I would get turned off if a guy keeps calling and calling.
2007-03-19 11:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahhah she mite have a boyfriend already thats why u keep calling her & she doesn't answer, its hard if u like someone but dont know where to go with it if she never answers!! my advice be careful you mite be leading yourself into drama's if she wont be straight with ya!!! ;)
2007-03-19 11:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by cookieazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows....perhaps give it another try then give her your number and tell her to get in touch if she would like to get together and then let it go....good luck
2007-03-19 10:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋