I dated my boyfriend (a relative) for 2 years...It was a long distance relationship. The beginning was great and i felt that he was the one. He wanted to marry me and gave me a couple ring for the both of us to start out with after 1 1/2 year.
As time went on, i met new guys...and they're always nice to me too. I didn't tell my boyfriend...somehow he always finds out....and he gets mad...and sad. My closest friends tells him and then he confronts me about it. He always ask me how would i felt when he was me....i was sorry. For a year, I've been so mean to him and he always come back to me. He's a wonderful guy...when i think about it.
I broke up with him....and told him that i wanted to be his friend. He wanted us to sit down and work things out...but i didn't want to. After i dumped him...I started dating a new guy in my school..I told my ex about it and he said he knew that guy liked her. He saw the way he was when we were together and said it was a guy thing.
2007-03-19 04:05:11 · 4 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We don't talk much anymore...I always complain to him about my current boyfriend.....my ex still ask me if i still love him...and i reply yes i do. He's been like that for 6 months.
He told me yesterday that he was tired....and that i can't love him and be with another guy at the same time.....He ask me if i know what i want and i reply i don't know. He told me that he needs a break from all this drama of mines and that to get my mind straight. He said he'll wait for me...
2007-03-19 04:08:43 · update #1
what to do?
2007-03-19 15:46:33 · update #2
UNTIL YOU TELL HIM TO STOP! If you dont have any interest in being with him anymore, quit being a ***** about it and tell him. It isnt fair to keep someone who truly loves you sitting in the back burner while your out having your fun with new guys. Tell him you made the mistake of commiting to him too young and that you dont want to be with him anymore. You have NO idea what its doing to him for you to always talk about your current guy with an ex who is hoping to get back with you. Doesnt it sound like your being a ***** when you say that out loud to yourself? I mean honestly think about what this guy was with you, a guy you dated for years, and now you think he really wants to listen to your guy problems? ****, you ARE his problem, and if you are just gonna continue to make things hard on him, find a new friend and leave us decent guys alone......news flash, YOUR NOT WORTH IT! GET OVER YOURSELF AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO BE "YOUR GIRLFRIEND".....HE SHOULDNT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THAT ****.
2007-03-19 04:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by YouKnowImRight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how could u date one and love another one...what's that a game ?!!!....honey the 1st one proposed u...and these step is the most difficult step in the guys life ...so if he did so he is really love u ....and true love is not exist but rare anymore.....
and u can't be dating someone and tell other that u love him ...it's still cheating on ur new boyfriend....and he didn't do anything 4 u to cheat on him...he don't deserve that.....
u need a time to be alone without anyone of them ...don't see anyone of them or date them ....and see what ur feelings...and who u will think of more ...and listen to ur heart ....and chose one of them and forget the other...u can't be with both of them it's selfish......and i don't believe that ur ex boyfriend could turn to ur best friend....it's a bull ****......honey the most one u r fooling is urself so stop doing these .........
2007-03-19 11:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by batt00ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this happened to me back in high school too.
it'll be fine just be friends but if you want him back ever, be nice until that day comes.
2007-03-19 11:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur a kid have fun f the 2 of them
2007-03-19 11:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by djizz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋