Ok, so my boyfriend and I split up last summer, and just recently weve been talking about getting back together. The thing is, I know he slept with two other woman in the time we wernt together, but that isnt the issue, as I slept with someone else too. The issue is that I know he works with one of the woman, and I know she still texts him really sexual stuff and sexual pictures, and Im not sure I will be able to handle it if we get together again! He doesnt know Ive seen all the texts, he only showed me one, and when he had a shower I looked at the rest, bad I know, but Im not sure what he said back to her! Ive told him if were to give it another shot that I dont want him texting her and if she continues, he would have to get another phone, but Im just so paranoid about the fact they work together and Im not sure Id be able to trust him and accept that shes flirting with him and he isnt back! He says she meant nothing and it was a "one off" but still...am I just just being stupid?
2007-03-19 03:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by Trixychick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its totally natural for u to feel as such.... n about this issue... wel no one's answer can help in any form its all upto u... u have to be frank n talk the entire thing with ur guy.... u have to clarify everything...... n then see he is reaction n then u decide what stepp u gonna take.... but follow ur heart.....
2007-03-19 04:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by _...._ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why go backwards? You two didn't work out for a reason-move forward to someone else. You're only thinking of getting back with him because you haven't found someone better yet, and he's familiar. Don't shortchange yourself like that.
2007-03-19 11:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well getting back together with an ex isn't a good idea anyways. There's a reason you two broke up, keep that in mind.
2007-03-19 11:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it 'meant nothing' then he would make those disqusting texts stop. Don't do it if you know he is envolved with another woman...its not smart.
2007-03-19 11:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just went through this myself.... I told him to block all text messages or I was gone and I am glad to say he can no long gets or sends text messages...He said the answer was easy for him he loves me.
2007-03-19 11:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by liz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋